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Dear Dish-It, He Won't Stop Asking Me Out!

Dear Dish-It,

A boy has asked me out 50 times and he won't stop asking. He is mentally ill. What do I do? Can't get him out of my hair!
Blackeyes


Dear Blackeyes,

Wow, someone has a major crush on you, huh? He's not mentally ill, he's just a little thick when it comes to the hints - or have you not dropped any hints? Have you told this guy, "Thanks, but no thanks?" You need to be clear and direct, but not hurtful. Just say straight up that you're flattered, but not interested in him. If you've done that and he's still in your hair, then tell him that he's not being cool. Tell him that he's gotta respect your wishes to be left alone and that his constant crushin' is not winning him any points. That should do the trick. Lemme know how it goes, k?


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to Dish-It here. Send all of your questions to deardish@kidzworld.com. But 'member, if ya hang out in Chat with other Kidzworld members who know ya by your 'username', ya might wanna use a secret nickname when ya write in. That way no one'll ever know it's you. And, just in case ya don't know, Dish-It gets a lotta letters everyday, and she can't answer 'em all. So keep checkin' the column cuz she's prob'ly answerin' somethin' very similar to your question while you're out doin' somethin' else. K? And Thanks! Ya keep her outta trouble. Oh! And if ya've got words of wisdom you wanna share,We'll dish 'em up, too.


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    CloudNineGirl
    CloudNineGirl posted in Friends:
    Aw, so cute! :)
    reply about 12 hours
    usagimodoki
    usagimodoki posted in Friends:
    Forever alone ;_;*Sneef Sneef*
    reply about 19 hours
    Fox7Fabsome
    Fox7Fabsome posted in Friends:
    "Tldc_Julisha" wrote:I just don't think I should be alive anymore and people bully me and cyber bully me for so long that I think its time to give up is what my friend texted me No you have so much to live for. I never meet you but still
    reply 2 days
    Kirsteeeeen
    Kirsteeeeen posted in Style:
    Go with whatever you feel most comfortable with, and is best suited for the event. 
    reply 2 days
    Kirsteeeeen
    Kirsteeeeen posted in Friends:
    If you're having issues on KW then you can always report, ignore/delete, and block the person! Also let the moderators/admin know you're having issues! Same goes with most other places online.  It's also a good idea to tell an adult; you don't deserve to go through this! Whether it be a parent, a friends parent, teacher, principal, counsellor, family member, police officer, any trusted adult!  Unfortunately we here cannot stop what is going on for you, but we can remind you that you can get through this and things will get better. Keep your head up, and stand up for yourself. Take care. :)
    reply 2 days

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