Dear Dish-It, Should I Ask Him Out?

So you like a guy and everyone - even the cafeteria staff - says he likes you. Wondering if you should dial his digits first? Find out the pros and cons of making the first move right here. Back to Article

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onedirectionfan08 wrote:
2013-09-14 17:04:21 -0700


JennyD wrote:
2013-09-14 12:40:38 -0700

Don't ask anyone out

directioner_4lyfe wrote:
2013-09-14 12:03:59 -0700

It doesnt even matter who asks

jeremaih1223_2457860 wrote:
2013-08-10 22:41:34 -0700

I like this girl I dont know if inshould ask her out

isaiahfox01 wrote:
2013-08-10 20:44:47 -0700

Why is it wrong for da gurl to ask

lovejay246 wrote:
2013-08-09 20:58:18 -0700

it is his job to ask you

flirtaddict wrote:
2013-06-26 06:24:53 -0700

i dunno if i should ask out my guy or let him do it..

dazuster wrote:
2013-05-22 16:40:13 -0700

I would be too scared

Torian101 wrote:
2013-01-02 08:50:08 -0800

jus ask him out the worst he can say is no

thisgirl10 wrote:
2012-11-28 02:59:00 -0800


XxXcutedudeXxX wrote:
2012-11-17 12:45:38 -0800

my sisters have learned that if u like a boy and hes like your bestfriend and u ask him out and he says no, then its awkward to around each other

JadeJessica_2303593 wrote:
2012-11-15 17:31:30 -0800

Go ahead and ask him out and he says no then
Atleast u tried and he might ask u after a while
And ask him to be your friend

Thug_Life x3
Thug_Life x3 wrote:
2012-11-15 16:12:00 -0800

umm idk Frustrated

roxena wrote:
2012-11-15 12:57:02 -0800

forget about him focus on your studies not Love though its your age to Love

girlygirl21005 wrote:
2012-11-15 12:52:02 -0800

get to know each other first then maybe he'll ask
you out later on

kenya233 wrote:
2012-07-31 19:45:27 -0700

Jus try 2 tlk to him first nd yu both need to get to kno each other

zamonie10 wrote:
2012-04-09 19:43:31 -0700

i would never ask a boy out cuz thtsdum thy hav to ask me out if thy wnt to go out with me

KatyPerry1600_1953183 wrote:
2011-12-21 06:40:51 -0800

she should talk to hem

Party.Rockin wrote:
2011-11-11 13:49:54 -0800

ok gurlaa you need tu tlk tu him first cuz he dont really no u lyk dhat so yeah... once he gets tu no u betta den maybe he will lyk U. Tongue Out

country girl2
country girl2 wrote:
2011-08-25 16:13:46 -0700

you should just ask him out : ) smile

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