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Dear Dish-It: My BFF's GF Hates Me

I’m a girl with a best friend who’s a guy. The problem is, his girlfriend doesn't like me and tries to make it hard for me to be around him. Once she told him to choose between me and her! He told her goodbye, but then they got back together. She’s Back to Article

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secretgirl123
secretgirl123 wrote:
2014-02-13 16:31:28 -0800

You need to leave her alone. I mean yeah it is your best friend's girl but you need to leave her alone. Next time she tells you to leave your best friend alone, I'd tell her that he is your best friend, but he isn't cheating on her.

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danae1444
danae1444 wrote:
2012-06-25 08:37:01 -0700

jus ignore her if she doesnt like you well fine its her problem but she cannot break up a friendship as strong as yours

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auboat
auboat wrote:
2011-06-06 12:54:59 -0700

i have the same situation with my bff's boy friend
he is a complete jerk but she always talks to both of us so i dont care if i talk to him i usally argue with him about her.

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