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Dear Dish-It: My BFF's GF Hates Me

I’m a girl with a best friend who’s a guy. The problem is, his girlfriend doesn't like me and tries to make it hard for me to be around him. Once she told him to choose between me and her! He told her goodbye, but then they got back together. She’s Back to Article

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secretgirl123
secretgirl123 wrote:
2014-02-13 16:31:28 -0800

You need to leave her alone. I mean yeah it is your best friend's girl but you need to leave her alone. Next time she tells you to leave your best friend alone, I'd tell her that he is your best friend, but he isn't cheating on her.

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danae1444
danae1444 wrote:
2012-06-25 08:37:01 -0700

jus ignore her if she doesnt like you well fine its her problem but she cannot break up a friendship as strong as yours

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auboat
auboat wrote:
2011-06-06 12:54:59 -0700

i have the same situation with my bff's boy friend
he is a complete jerk but she always talks to both of us so i dont care if i talk to him i usally argue with him about her.

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SelenaGomezFanGirl
...im not too sure what the brown stuff is,but since you said you have not done it,you should trust yourself.And talk about it to your mom!I'm sure she will give you the best of advices and stuff because she would have probably experienced it before.So,don't be afraid,and approach her when she's vacant!Good Luck!
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SelenaGomezFanGirl
no you shouldn't!I bet, the friends that are pressuring you are girls only because they are jealous of your girl,because of her personality and style,and probably, most likely that they wanna be your girlfriend as well! ~~comment me back if you like!:)                                                          
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OptimisticJollygirl
You are perfect the way you are.
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InternetOwl
InternetOwl posted in Friends:
I'm not sure whether you have actual depression or not (Ask your doctor if you feel you do, they'll be able to help. ^^), but I'm really sorry you feel depressed. I've been there too, and it really does feel like no one cares.   I know you said it's awkward, but try talking to your dad about it. You said he's the only one who seems to listen, so I'm sure he will listen and try to understand. If you start feeling really depressed every day, try doing things to make you feel happier. I don't know what you like to do, but you should do things like relaxing, reading, talking to people and spending more time outside. Smiling more often can help relieve stress and make you happier as well. c: Try meeting new people too. It seems as though your current friends are bringing you down, so you can try to talk to them if you like or find more friends who'll listen and care about you (however, try to keep your old friends as well. They are your friends after all, and it's hard being lonely). You've got friends on here too. But please don't think about doing anything harmful to yourself. You might not be thinking like that now, but being depressed can lead people to this and it's really not the answer.  Good luck! ^u^  
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FloraTheWolf
FloraTheWolf posted in Friends:
And you can add me as a friend if you want :D
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