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Dear Dish-It, It's Hard to Deal


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Dear Dish-It,

I am just really confused. ok, well, I know I made a booboo by ditching school but I was talked into it by some frends. I also know I still could of said "No" but it seemed flawless. Me and 3 other friends ditched to go hang at my house, watch movies, pigout, have some fun when the school called, erase the message off the machine and everything would be gravy. Well, when I got home I thought "Oh crap, my mom's picking me up after school today for a doctors apointment. Then my frends give me an idea - call her, and say it's raining and just tell her you don't want to wait in the rain, just pick me up at home. So I called the 1 time - no answer. The second time she picked up, I told her. She said, "Oh I got your message... So I thought cool, I'm free and said my goodbyes. Well, my dad confronted me later that day. He grounded me the whole two weeks of x-mas break. Even x-mas, I was mad I thought for sure one of...
CaliforniaTeen6


Dear CaliforniaTeen6,

One of your what... Hey girl what happened? How did your dad catch you? No dis girl, but you can't afford to miss a day of school. It took me a long time to translate that letter and correct the spelling. I think the least you can do is tell me how it ended. So write in and let me know where you were goin' with that story. Holla back now.


Dear Dish-It,

My little sister is always taking things out of my PRIVATE! bedroom and keeping them. I've tried to guilt her into returning them, I also asked her for it and (promised her) she could get ice cream. I told her so many times that I want it back. She knows when she steals something I am going to say "Give it for some ice cream?" It is so hard to deal with school, rude people, life, and everything else, that this is just the stick that will harden the mud.
Britfan761


Dear Britfan761,

The stick that will harden the mud? I've never heard that expression before but I love it. You're right Britfan - it is hard to deal with everything that life throws at us... and majorly so when you throw school into the mix. But challenges can be fun so keep workin' at it... and don't let the rude people get to you (their rude cuz life is even harder for them!) As for your sis - she sounds pretty annoying. Younger sibs usually are. But try to understand, if she's goin' into your room and takin' your stuff all the time, it's probably cuz she thinks you're the bee's knees! She probably thinks you rock, and have all the tough stuff like school, friends, style, (and the other life stuff,) covered. I'd guess she wants to be just like you... so considered yourself flattered girl.


Dear Dish-It,

(Click here to read Liar's Dear Dish-It question.)
I think you should talk to your man and tell him that if he doesn't talk straight to his parents that you are his girl, you will kick his sorry behind to the curb!!!
Anon


Dear Anon,

You go girl.


Dear Dish-It,

(Click here to read Sweet's Dear Dish-It question.)
2 be dump is very painful. I see how you feel. But if you are a gurl you should be dumping the boy, and if you are a gurl getting dumped you ain't got skill.
Princess01450


Dear Princess1450,

Princess, I suggest you lose last century's stereotype - being dumped isn't a reflection of either of the two peeps in the relationship. It says more about the relationship itself - for one reason or another it isn't going to work out, so someone calls it quits. Watch yourself, ain't nothin' that says you too couldn't be dumped one day... I wonder if you'll have a different attitude then.


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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    "SatanslilDemon" wrote: Ok so I have a dilemma. I really, and I mean really like this guy. He's considerate of my mental wellbeing and health, plus he's really funny and sweet. He's respectful, loyal, and his hugs are the best ever(he's like a foot and 4 inches taller than me). the dilemma is, he'stwentyandI'mfifteenturningsixteensoon.... I'm not gonna even ask about dating him until i'm sixteen but I've called him in total anxiety attack crying my eyes out and he calmed me down and made me laugh, and I invited him to come see a choir performance so he spent the day with me... My mom ships us... but I'm a little worried because of the age difference  and experience difference and just, I don't want to miss the chance of being with him because of it. ​  any advice??? It's really nice that your mother supports it, that always helps!! I'm glad that your family enjoys his company as well. Being 16 while he's 20 is alright. It's a slight odd age gap. But, I think as long as you both are ready, it's alright. Make sure you're mature and safe with your choices though. Personally, I think you should wait until you're closer to at least, 17. But, as long as you two are smart about what you're doing, it should be alright when it come around to it.
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    "Shygirl15" wrote:I really like this boy in my second period class but i dont know how to tell him because he knows that im transgender do whatever makes you feel comfortable or just wing it and tell him and if he tells you something because you're trans forget about him! He doesn't deserve you. But it's totally okay if you want to play it safe and not go up to him. You do you. :3 
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    "SatanslilDemon" wrote: Ok so I have a dilemma. I really, and I mean really like this guy. He's considerate of my mental wellbeing and health, plus he's really funny and sweet. He's respectful, loyal, and his hugs are the best ever(he's like a foot and 4 inches taller than me). the dilemma is, he'stwentyandI'mfifteenturningsixteensoon.... I'm not gonna even ask about dating him until i'm sixteen but I've called him in total anxiety attack crying my eyes out and he calmed me down and made me laugh, and I invited him to come see a choir performance so he spent the day with me... My mom ships us... but I'm a little worried because of the age difference  and experience difference and just, I don't want to miss the chance of being with him because of it. ​  any advice??? i suggest you wait i mean you are going to be 16 that's way too young to be dating someone who is 4/5 years older than you,no? You can still talk to him when it comes to your anxiety attacks and all of that because I have those too every night so I know how it feels, but maybe you should wait. But at the end of the day it's your decision I'm just here to give advice 
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    SatanslilDemon
    Ok so I have a dilemma. I really, and I mean really like this guy. He's considerate of my mental wellbeing and health, plus he's really funny and sweet. He's respectful, loyal, and his hugs are the best ever(he's like a foot and 4 inches taller than me). the dilemma is, he'stwentyandI'mfifteenturningsixteensoon.... I'm not gonna even ask about dating him until i'm sixteen but I've called him in total anxiety attack crying my eyes out and he calmed me down and made me laugh, and I invited him to come see a choir performance so he spent the day with me... My mom ships us... but I'm a little worried because of the age difference  and experience difference and just, I don't want to miss the chance of being with him because of it. ​  any advice???
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    SmartSunnyShadow
    I feel like that too. My best friend will always hang out with her 'new friends' that I have a really bad opinion about. My friend will treat me rudely all the time and sometimes make fun of me with her friends. But, when I needed her the most in my life, she was there for me, and I told her how I felt. She says that she just wants to hang out with more people and apologized, people can be a little teasy at times.  Also, after seeing each other for a long time, people make new friends and start hanging out with them more, it doesn't mean that she doesn't like you.  This may be different for you, but just tell her about it, she will have to know you feelings at one point.  Hope I helped you. 
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