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Dear Dish-It: I'm A Loner

For most of my school life, I have been a loner. In Grade 3 I became friends with someone just so I wouldn't be lonely. But she wasn’t as loyal to me as a true friend should be, leaving me alone at recess almost all the time and then asking if she could Back to Article

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cuteerzascarlet
cuteerzascarlet wrote:
2014-07-05 09:35:45 -0700

and i have had suicidal thoughts before because of my lonliness and what happend in my past also what people said to me before when they were making fun of me

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cuteerzascarlet
cuteerzascarlet wrote:
2014-07-05 09:32:03 -0700

and i know how you feel -SkittleBaby- because it's the same way with me

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cuteerzascarlet
cuteerzascarlet wrote:
2014-07-05 09:30:17 -0700

to get more people to like you

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cuteerzascarlet
cuteerzascarlet wrote:
2014-07-05 09:29:27 -0700

this advice is isn't good at all in fact the whole wording in this articale makes me mad i have been shy all my life so i'm techinally a loner nobody usally talks to me and i barally have any friends and all my life i've been shy for a reason because people have betrayed me so many times that i just got tired of it and also because of my last so this whole articale basically explains my whole life and you shouldn't have to change who you are just to get more people to like, have more friends, or

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Tkayz
Tkayz wrote:
2014-07-04 04:53:41 -0700

oooooh: that's so nice wish i could get one

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tina_payne03
tina_payne03 wrote:
2014-07-02 22:36:26 -0700

I only have one friend in real life, but she's my bestie smile

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queenmaria
queenmaria wrote:
2014-07-02 08:26:04 -0700

my are 1 or 2 and not soo gud

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Akki_inLove
Akki_inLove wrote:
2014-07-02 00:32:52 -0700

Friends .. !! I have a garage of 'em .. Wink

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tobygamesfan
tobygamesfan wrote:
2014-07-01 18:03:14 -0700

i have thousands of friends in real life

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CuteMoo2
CuteMoo2 wrote:
2014-07-01 17:43:36 -0700

People are so boring tbh anyway cx

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CuteMoo2
CuteMoo2 wrote:
2014-07-01 17:43:06 -0700

People are so boring tbh anyway cx

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The_Gentlemen_Prince
The_Gentlemen_Prince wrote:
2014-07-01 17:40:49 -0700

Being only because my mind is inclosedd and my brain consoles me

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princessi
princessi wrote:
2014-07-01 16:26:44 -0700

I like to be alone

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JesseWesse
JesseWesse wrote:
2014-07-01 16:03:18 -0700

0_0

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GlimmeringSky16
GlimmeringSky16 wrote:
2014-07-01 16:02:08 -0700

Lol if seventh graders r being nice to u, they're doing it out of loyalty. If it was fake, then it would probably not last as long.

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JesseWesse
JesseWesse wrote:
2014-07-01 15:52:10 -0700

Ima Loner...

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JesseWesse
JesseWesse wrote:
2014-06-11 16:18:28 -0700

I hide in the dark

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JesseWesse
JesseWesse wrote:
2014-06-11 16:18:14 -0700

Ima loner for life and for good ):

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monkeys231
monkeys231 wrote:
2014-04-18 09:53:31 -0700

Wats that suppose to mean

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monkeys231
monkeys231 wrote:
2014-04-18 09:40:19 -0700

My bf broke up wid me for the new pretty girl he left me thinking am i not pretty is that y so now im,lonly

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Are You A Loner?

  • No way! I have millions of friends.
  • No - I'm usually hangin' with my best bud.
  • Sometimes I prefer to be by myself.
  • Yeah. I can't pay people to be my friends.

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kaykay2002
kaykay2002 posted in Friends:
"Wooper1255" wrote:No. Just no. Mr. Face does not approve this. ._.Okay, okay, let's get serious.Your best friend BULLYING you? And loves it when you get mad? What the heck? SHE'S NOT EVEN YOUR FRIEND!You should have a talk with your best friend. No seriously, she doesn't have any friends cause she's a bully and no one likes to be friends with a bully...You should tell your best friend that she NEEDS to change her attitude! She needs to be more nicer to others also.Also, a best friend is: Caring, Kind, Loyal, Nice, Thoughtful, and will stand up for you against bullies, will be there if you're upset, maybe they'll even CRY with you!A best friend is totally NOT: Someone who bullies you, Someone who likes it when your madYou should ask her any of the following questions:Are you Okay?Why are you bullying me? You're my friend.Is something wrong like family issues?Questions like that are good because there may be a reason for bullying. She could be suffering from depression, or is confused or lonely. Just talk to her. Have a discussion with her. Also, you should talk to other people. Ask them why they aren't friends with your best friend. Then maybe, after they tell you what they don't like about her, you can go back to your best friend and tell her the things she needs to improve on. Also, if necessary, tell an adult like your mom, a teacher, consular, or her mom.Whatever you think will solve this conflict between you and your best friend well... just go for it. But think about the outcome too.Hope I helped, I might add some tips and suggestions to you. :3  your right and the only reason I have put up with her this long is because her dad died but I cant stand her anymore so but seriously I feel like there is another reason bcuz she has had people confront her saying "u know what I have put up wit this for a while and I have told u to stop and u don't listen and I know your dad died but that doesn't mean u can treat people like that "  but she still does it and for the past 3 yrs. I have put up with it but not anymore I will talk to her about it. Thanks.
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Wooper1255
Wooper1255 posted in Friends:
You NEED to tell your parents or HER parents about her attitude, this is abuse from your OWN best friend! Tell an adult, don't be afraid, it's not even SILLY to tell an adult, this is serious, she is HURTING you! Tell someone before things get out of hand and she REALLY hurts you! D=
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Wooper1255
Wooper1255 posted in Friends:
No. Just no. Mr. Face does not approve this. ._. Okay, okay, let's get serious. Your best friend BULLYING you? And loves it when you get mad? What the heck? SHE'S NOT EVEN YOUR FRIEND! You should have a talk with your best friend. No seriously, she doesn't have any friends cause she's a bully and no one likes to be friends with a bully... You should tell your best friend that she NEEDS to change her attitude! She needs to be more nicer to others also. Also, a best friend is: Caring, Kind, Loyal, Nice, Thoughtful, and will stand up for you against bullies, will be there if you're upset, maybe they'll even CRY with you! A best friend is totally NOT: Someone who bullies you, Someone who likes it when your mad You should ask her any of the following questions: Are you Okay? Why are you bullying me? You're my friend. Is something wrong like family issues? Questions like that are good because there may be a reason for bullying. She could be suffering from depression, or is confused or lonely. Just talk to her. Have a discussion with her. Also, you should talk to other people. Ask them why they aren't friends with your best friend. Then maybe, after they tell you what they don't like about her, you can go back to your best friend and tell her the things she needs to improve on. Also, if necessary, tell an adult like your mom, a teacher, consular, or her mom. Whatever you think will solve this conflict between you and your best friend well... just go for it. But think about the outcome too. Hope I helped, I might add some tips and suggestions to you. :3
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Boysrock50
Boysrock50 posted in Friends:
Yeah I had a friend in the same situation as you, he was too scared to say anything so we spoke for him. Now the 'friend' has changed and hes our mate. Just tell her straight and firmly, its the only way
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kaykay2002
kaykay2002 posted in Friends:
"Boysrock50" wrote:She is obviously NOT your best friend.I wouldn't even call her a friendShe is a bully who thinks she can have her own wayShe thinks she can control you like you're her follower because she the truth is she needs youBe smart and leave her because she's only going to keep you down and then one day she will find  friends just like her and she will just ignore you forever, thinking shes too cool for you.I would either:Tell her straight that she needs to make her own friends because you don't want to be friends anymoreor:Tell her that you don't like what she does and either she changes her ways and acts more like a friend, or you cant be friends anymore.I'm not trying to be harsh, I'm being wise and you should be wise too. Thanks I actually might try that but she is really stubborn and will not take no for an answer I have tried just ignoring her but he will kick, hit, or punch me to get attention. my parents also don't like her bcuz she is bossy. I also have to go to summer camp with her for the next 2 weeks and w have to be buddies for it so i think i might die
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