Dear Dish-It, I Have Sex Every Two Weeks

Dear Dish-It

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Dear Dish-It,
I am a 13 year-old gorgeous gal. I have sex every two weeks with my hottie b/f that is 19, but I met another guy who is 15 and I had sex with him. Now I am pregnant with his baby. What should I do?
Chillie

Dear Chillie,
It's funny, but you don't sound like a 13 year-old mom-to-be! You don't sound like you're scared about havin' a baby... or the possibility that multiple sex partners may result in you pickin' up an STD (sexually transmitted disease) I don't mean to freak ya out, but the fact is havin' a baby at any age is overwhelming. And STDs are scary and some, like AIDS, are deadly. I hope you're using condoms cuz if you're not (and it doesn't sound like you are) you're playin' with your life.

Check out last weeks article for the word on pregnancy. Peeps, one more thing, take your lives and your health seriously. Pregnancy's no jokin' matter. Be real! Be responsible! And if you have a serious issue, like pregnancy, don't face it alone. Talk to your 'Rents. They've been where you've been and felt the way you feel. If you expect the world to give you a chance and take you seriously... then give your world a chance. Take it seriously.

Dear Dish-It,
Click here to read iamcool0808's Dear Dish-It question.
You're only 12 and you're pregnant? You honestly need to talk to a close adult. Fast! Look gyrl, you really need to see a docta. Ok gyrl?!
kelandria

Dear Dish-It,
Click here to read iamcool0808's Dear Dish-It question.
Do your parents know? If I were you, I would get an abortion.
nyika

Dear kelandria and nyika, Thanks for your feedback... both of you. iamcool0808 has a big decision to make. And it might not be as simple as you think. Try and jump into her skechers... maybe iamcool0808 doesn't think abortion is an option cuz of her religious beliefs. Or maybe she is thinking about it. Teen pregnancy is a very difficult issue. What I do hear from all your feedback is iamcool0808 needs help from a trustworthy adult and that equals mom, dad, teacher, school nurse or doctor.

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So gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' about stuff like teen suicide, depression, sex, low self-esteem, boyfriends, girlfriends, losing old friends, bullying or peer pressure, but are too scared to ask the 'rents? Don't be scared to Dish-It. Just remember, if you hang out in chat with other Kidzworld members who know you by your nick, you might wanna use a secret nick when you write in. That way, no one will ever know it's you. Remember though, Dish-It gets tons of letters a day, so she can't answer 'em all. But keep checkin' the column cuz chances are, she'll be answering something very similar to your question soon. Thanks! Got some words of wisdom you wanna share? We'll dish them up too.