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Dear Dish-It: LOVE Quickies (10)

Dish-it gets so many questions, she doesn’t always have time to answer them all separately! Here are some quickie answers for some of the questions you asked about love, dating and relationships. Check to see if your question is answered here!


Iwas totally in love with this one guy and he was in love with me. But then we broke up and I cried for two weeks. Now we’re friends but I still love him as more than a friend. At the same time, I’m starting to really like my best guy friend, too. My first love says he still has some love for me but doesn’t know about getting back yet. Please help! – jole333

I think you should be patient and wait and see what happens with both guys. No need to do anything or ask anyone out – let one of them decide he wants to be with you and make the first move.


I really like this guy I met at camp. The only problem is he's going into Grade 7 and I’m in Grade 5. My sister told me he thinks about sex and, like all boys, will ask me to do it if we get together. Should I go for him or just leave him alone or be friends? – true2myself

First of all, not all guys are the same. Second, if there’s any concern or fear in your mind that this particular guy is going to ask you to do things you don’t want to do, then leave him alone. Otherwise you’re just setting yourself up for trouble.


There's this guy I really like and he's on my brother's soccer team. He doesn't really chat with me much but he smiles and looks at me a lot. He's a great player and sometimes I cheer him on though it's hard because I want to single him out but it might be awkward because nobody knows I like him. Well my brother had a game today and I watched it. After a game, the team high fives the parents. I went in the line and I saw that he lightly tapped everyone's hand. But when it came to me, he slapped it hard and didn't look back. Does that mean anything? – soccercutie

The only person that can tell you for sure is him. But try reading this articles – maybe there’s some good advice in them you could use: How Do I Know If He Likes Me?


I like this guy from school and I had my best friend (his cousin) ask him out for me but he said no. Should i ask him out again but this time in person? – crushergirl11

No, I’m afraid if he said no that means he doesn’t want to date you.


I like a guy in my class and he likes me. The problem is he’s my friend’s cousin and the two of them always bicker and pretty much hate each other. But he asked me out and, though I don’t want to hurt my friend’s feelings, I really like him. – caught in the middle

Sounds like a case of having to choose love or friendship. Luckily, there’s an article that may help you: Choosing Love Over Friendship.


There’s a guy who says he loves me and wants to marry me, but he’s my BFF’s brother. What do I do? – helovesme

You need to be honest with and talk to your BFF about this situation. Listen to what your BFF has to say and you can go from there.


If you've got a burning question, need some love advice or find yourself thinking about things like sex, depression, self-esteem, boyfriends, girlfriends, best friends, bullying or peer pressure, don't hesitate to Dish-It here. Send your questions to deardish@kidzworld.com. And if you hang out in the chat rooms with other Kidzworld members who know you by your username, just send in your secret question using a different nickname if you want to stay anonymous – we promise that no one will ever know it's you. Remember: Dish-It gets a load of letters every day so it may take a while to reply to yours. Keep checking back for her reply, or watch for answered Dish-It questions that are similar to your own.


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    labimba
    labimba posted in Style:
    Neko girl I have to get back in shape for September if u want we can be training buddies!  :)  
    reply about 4 hours
    animallover468
    animallover468 posted in Style:
    EndlessDream is right. Skipping breakfast and lunch can result in stomach ulcers and sudden weight gain (had personal experience...), ESPECIALLY skipping breakfast! You have to incorporate exercise in your daily routine. Stomach and body fat is mostly caused by lack of exercise, and maybe that means you need to do toning exercises. Try doing simple exercise videos like the 3-mile powerwalk on YouTube (trust me, I sweat like crazy when I do those workouts). Anything that gets you sweating, is the kind of exercise you need to do.  I hated working out when I first started my weight loss journey too. I would always start wheezing every time I started working out. But after pushing through everyday, I think working out is one of the best stress busters I've ever had!  If you want to lower your appetite though, I suggest eating a full lunch and breakfast and skipping your dinner. If you can't skip dinner, then at least try aiming for an early dinner, around 5:30 or 6:00. Your body needs time to digest at least 4 hours before you sleep. I started gaining weight around puberty when I was 12, it could be the same for you too.  But honestly, there's nothing wrong with having consciousness about your weight. Now starving yourself and dieting is BAD, but there's nothing wrong with changing your lifestyle in order to be fit. It's a good thing that kids start caring about their health, and the earlier you start, the better off you are. 
    reply about 5 hours
    EndlessDream
    EndlessDream posted in Style:
    You need breakfast and lunch. Starving yourself, even if you aren't hungry, makes you loose energy to the point you could pass out from not eating. Keep your diet healthy. For breakfast, at least have yogurt, fruit, and juice. Drink at least 4 full glasses of water a day. Trim down on the snacks. Everyone has different bodies and build. You may just be large-boned. And that's not bad! That makes you stronger and higher ability to gain muscle. Loosing weight doesn't happen over night. It can take months. 
    reply about 23 hours
    Nekogirl101
    Nekogirl101 posted in Style:
    For years my parents would tell me I'm skinny but compared to other people, my waist was bigger and I would always hide it. Though it was obvious I weighed more, I've only been doing this for a week and I didn't ever tell anyone what I was doing until my parents found out. I would skip lunch and breakfast and say I was full. I only ate a big dinner every night. Once my parents found out, they said it was unhealthy and if I didn't  stop, I would develop an eating disorder. I obviously listened to them, but I've tried as best as I can so far. I have barely lost any weight from exercise and my parents won't let me go on a diet because I already 'eat healthy enough'. I want to lose weight without exercising being 3/4s of my lifestyle. I know, I'm a lazy idiot for saying all this.
    reply about 24 hours
    rainbowpoptart
    Yes, purely for the fact that you should not "hate" your sister (or anyone, for that matter).  I'm guessing by "get in trouble for her", you mean she does something wrong and the blame is all put on you? Yeah, little siblings tend to do that a lot. My brother did for the longest time, until my parents found out how much a liar he is. She, hopefully, will grow out of this eventually. Either that, or your parent[s]/guardian[s] will eventually see through her. You lose your friends to her? By this do you mean your friends want to hang out with her and they want you to tag along and you don't? Or do you mean your friends chose your sister over you? If it's the latter, then perhaps you shouldn't have ever referred to those people as friends. You'll find friends who'll prefer you over your sister, I'm sure of it. The only thing I can tell you to do is try to get along with your sister. Every group of siblings has their cats and dogs moment in life, but they grow out of it (most of the time; there are, of course, circumstances where it doesn't work out that way). Please be grateful for your sister, even if you two fight a lot. You never know how much you need something until it's gone.
    reply 2 days