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Dear Dish-It, Girls Say I'm Ugly


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Dear Dish-It,

I like this girl at my school, but I don't know if any of the girls at my school like me. They say I'm ugly, but my sister's high school friends say I look good. What do y'all think?
LilIverson2009


Dear Lillverson2009,

I think that it doesn't matter what any of the gurls at your school think about your looks. It only matters what that one special gurl thinks. It's nice that your sister's friends think you're a hottie, but that don't matter much either cuz they're not the gurl you're into. Have you been chattin' her up? Have you been dialing her digits? Hangin' with her? That will help you figure out if she thinks you're a hottie, if she's interested in dating you and all that stuff. So get to know her and ask her out. Even if she's not interested, it doesn't mean you're ugly. It just means she's got different taste. No big - I'm sure you don't think every gurl out there is a hottie either.


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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