Dear Dish-It, My Boyfriend Dumped Me, Kind Of
Hello, I'm new here...and I wanted some help...well my boyfriend just dumped me, kind of. Well, it's been a month and I really, really miss him! And everytime I see him at skool I get so, well... sad and start to cry. Just seein' him... What can I do to stop these feelings I'm having for him? (The thing is, I love him so much! He's the one that said I love 1st..) Help...
Girl you're suffering from a major broken heart and I REALLY feel for ya! Unfortunately, that cheesy line "time heals all wounds" is true - especially broken hearts. Eventually, even though you sooo don't believe it now, you'll be over him. The quickest way to feel better is to make an effort at feelin' better. It sounds like you're wallowing in your own self-pity - and that's not a good start. Sure, it sucks but that's life sometimes. Just spend more time with your buds, with your fam - even with your dog. Rent some killer comedies, like Bring It On or Charlie's Angels, etc. Whatever you do, DO NOT listen to bad romantic songs and watch sad, bitter flicks. It'll only make the situation worse.
And what do ya mean he "kind of" broke up with you? Did he or didn't he? Don't let him play your heart like a bad guitar riff. If he's on-again, off-again with ya then he's a total player and BAD NEWS!
So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .