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Dear Dish-It: She Steals All My Friends!

Dear Dish-It,

There is a girl in my class and she is very posh and stuck up! I make a new friend and she ran over a stole her away from me. No literally - she ran over and grabbed her and pulled her away! I've tried telling a teacher but she says it never happened. All the teachers think she's a little miss goody good so does everyone in the school apart from me, obviously. And it leaves me friendless! What shall I do????


Dear Loner,

I think the only person you can talk to about this is "little miss goody" herself! This doesn't mean getting angry or in a fight with her - in fact, you may not even want to ask her directly about the things she does to take friends away from you. Why not "kill her with kindness" - meaning, try being friends with her yourself! She may not ever be a very close friend of yours, but as long as you're on good terms with her I imagine she won't try and take other friends away from you.


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drowning posted in Friends:
I've been there when I was still in school. I don't personally have many friends now that I'm graduated, but that's more because the people here aren't worth being friends with. Off topic, my bad- Anyways, just try being a nice person. Sit with the other kid that's alone during lunch, find someone who needs someone to talk too, be open. I realize this can be difficult to do if you're shy, believe me, I've been there as well. Just remember that you need to stay yourself. I've lost friends because they turned out to be someone totally different than how they made themselves out to be. It's not worth it to pretend you're someone else. If it doesn't happen naturally after a little while, then you just have to keep in mind that it's your turn to put yourself out there. Remember that, "hey, I put myself out there and I made a friend, that's pretty cool." But, also remember that, "hey, I put myself out there and I didn't make a friend, that's pretty okay too." If you put yourself out there and someone doesn't accept it, then that's okay. It just means they weren't meant to be your friend and someone else will come along much better for you.
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Powerslave posted in Friends:
If most people from this generation don't want to be friends with you, you are doing something right.
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Be yourself,do what you like to do and people who like the same things will/should be attracted to you. Don't take to much thought to people who want to change you so then you can be their friend. as i said before just be yourself and people will like you and want to be your friend! TRUST ME ON THIS! :D :D :D :D
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jordand08 posted in Friends:
Just be open, and talk to someone. I'm sure once someone starts talking to you they're find you cool, and other people might join in. (:
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