Dear Dish-It: Should I Date Him Ever Again?

love asks: "i like this boy and he was dating my friend. then he dumped her for me and i said yes. then he dumped me and went back to her. I really love him but it hurts when he does that. should i date him ever again?" Back to Article

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Lizzaybabyy wrote:
2012-07-17 01:24:32 -0700


sweetjaja21 wrote:
2012-07-17 01:20:52 -0700


tray boy
tray boy wrote:
2012-04-30 17:40:35 -0700

@summer yolo naw

summer yolo
summer yolo wrote:
2012-04-30 17:40:11 -0700

@tray get off of here

ChikkaSwaq wrote:
2012-04-30 17:39:38 -0700

Same here say no I was cheated on ........sad

summer yolo
summer yolo wrote:
2012-04-30 17:36:53 -0700

I would say no

tray boy
tray boy wrote:
2012-04-30 17:33:34 -0700

@mari917 y u out a thumbs down i thought u said u would neva date me again

BellePrincessxoxoHoran_2101630 wrote:
2012-04-20 01:39:56 -0700

He dont worth a girl like you!

Kel$eyKdogKK wrote:
2012-03-06 20:01:51 -0800

He thinks he can take advantage of you because he knows he can always come running back to you. Hun, you need to get over him and face the fact he dosen't like you and honestly you don't need to take that! Good Luck!

AdizzleA wrote:
2012-03-06 16:09:19 -0800

no cuz that means hes a player!!!!

mk50003 wrote:
2012-01-01 23:38:42 -0800

i think thats the smartest comment ive ever heard

RandomRawries wrote:
2012-01-01 23:34:14 -0800

Break your heart once: Shame on him.
Break your heart twice: Shame on you for being stupid enough to take him back.

niclau123_1921385 wrote:
2011-10-29 06:34:21 -0700

yea if u trust him

Japihi wrote:
2011-10-03 15:27:24 -0700

same 4 meh im gonna say yes cuz i love him

hey its lexi
hey its lexi wrote:
2011-08-05 15:51:18 -0700

no u guys well just break up again u should keep freindship

report wrote:
2011-07-12 08:20:00 -0700

Well, this guy that your talking about has something in comon with a guy i dated. he had always liked me n he asked me out then he broke up with me then he asked me out and he got together with a few of my friends and got back together with me...finally i decided thats it we are over n he hasnt talked to me since...sadly Frustrated

bribri234 wrote:
2011-03-04 12:00:58 -0800

i know how u feel me and my first bf went out for 6 months but i broke up with him because i figured out with my couz he didnt know we were couzins but now he wants me back i dont know what 2 do

kesha_blah wrote:
2010-06-07 01:12:01 -0700

ok i really like this boy and i have been dating him for a long time now and when we break up he always tell people that he is better with me and he chets on me all the time and one time i thought that he was going out with this 5th grader and he swear he

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What part of it are you scared of? Is it eating in public and around other people, or just eating in general?  What it might be, if it's eating in public you don't like, is social anxiety, or social phobia. You should ask your doctor to check, because if it is, they can offer you ways to help. For instance, they might recommend therapists or group sessions to help ease your fear.  Even if it's just a phobia or, in unlikelier circumstances, an eating disorder, you should still go to your doctor or a therapist so you can try to overcome it. Try doing things that calm you down before these situations as well, like exercise, reading or listening to music (I'm not sure what relaxes you but sometimes these help). Also, you should try to slowly get used to the situations. So don't force yourself to eat straight away when you're out, but slowly start doing so whenever your comfortable with doing so. Unlike your mum wants, you can't just "stop" being scared because that's not how it works.  But right now, please don't force yourself into any of these situations. It's not good for your mental health to be forced to face a phobia of yours often. 
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Dear Dish-It, Within the last few years I have felt a bit sick and shaky when we go out to eat. It's not so bad when it's a carvery lunch or something at a pub, but settling down for a chocolate brownie and a milkshake shakes me up. Don't get me wrong, I love going out with Mum, but it's just sitting down and taking a bite. I want to chuck it in the bin. I love eating brownies and stuff at home and I'm pretty healthy. But I refuse to go to the town before lunch in fear. Mum told me I got to stop this or I'm going to develop a terrible phobia.  Please help! ElfyKathy, worried
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She isn't jealous she is just dissappointed that you chose to get lessons when she did to get better . She had to get better to catch up to you so you can enjoyher as your best friend. Then you went ahead and got lessons as if you needed them. She is just upset that you showed off a talent that she didn't have. And she tried to get better to impress you but you got better as well. Which kept her at the stage she will always be at my best friend sings way betyer than me but I try. 
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It may be hard but break it down to them we aren't friends but we can be associates. It may leave them a bit dissappointed but tell them we aren't in the same category to be as close as friends. 
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