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Dear Dish-It: Should I Disobey My Dad?

Dear Dish-It,

if you live with your father and no girls around and the guy you’ve crushed on for years asked you out friday nite and your father would kill you if he found out, what to do?????

lkoolgirl


Dear lkoolgirl,


If you’ve talked to your dad and he absolutely won’t let you date, then I’m afraid you’re stuck on this one. I wouldn’t advise you to go against your dad’s wishes – if you break his trust now it will be that much harder to earn it back and get him to let you go out on dates in the future, when you’re older.


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Arenl
Arenl posted in Family Issues:
@Sophieeee I definitely agree with you.
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Sophieeee
 Loosing a parent is hard, your dad knows that and I'm sure that he misses your mom just as much as you do. Whether you explain to him how you are feeling or not, you should know that your Dad will always love you and admitting to him how you feel isn't going to change that. Although it is completely understandable how you feel, you need to let your dad move one eventually. It's not fair to him if he has to spend the rest of his life alone. Even though you might not see it, its a good thin that your dad is finally feeling comfortable enough to date. It doesn't mean that he is letting go of your mom or that he will forget about her, it means that he is moving on with his life. You lost your mother and he lost the love of his life. Dating other people will probably start off being just as hard for him as it is for you. My advice is that you talk to your dad. Let him know how you feel in the most gentle and understanding way that you can. Don't flat out say that you don't want him dating anyone, tell him that you still miss your mom and its hard to see him with other people. Let me know how it goes, good luck. :)
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