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Dear Dish-It: Should I Disobey My Dad?

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Dear Dish-It,

if you live with your father and no girls around and the guy you’ve crushed on for years asked you out friday nite and your father would kill you if he found out, what to do?????

lkoolgirl


Dear lkoolgirl,


If you’ve talked to your dad and he absolutely won’t let you date, then I’m afraid you’re stuck on this one. I wouldn’t advise you to go against your dad’s wishes – if you break his trust now it will be that much harder to earn it back and get him to let you go out on dates in the future, when you’re older.


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wolfiegal

wolfiegal wrote:

No. Way. In. Heck. Should. You. Do. That.
commented: Wed Jul 16, 2014

MonasYou

MonasYou wrote:

He's you dad. So no.
commented: Wed Jul 16, 2014

lillyflower637
Don't disobey your dad. i learned that the hard way (after i tried five times) I'd say kiss up to him and then bring it up when he's in a really good mood, then come up with a compromise. And dating behind his back won't end well. you always get caught. No idea how parents do that.
commented: Fri Aug 09, 2013

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lawliet16
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Maybe your overrating her personality while underrating yourself. Girls extremely like confident men so start working on your self esteem first because it stimulates interest to get to know you more especially on the romantic context and don`t forget to just be yourself so that you will know if she accept you to who you are and don`t let the "ideal boy" standard of the society bring you down. Remember that real happiness can be achieve when you are true to yourself so don`t mind what other people think of you and stop comparing yourself to the boys around her. Embrace your imperfections and wash away your insecurities and maybe she`ll like you back ;)
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Considering your age, it is normal that your parents might not accept it in case he likes you and the feeling is mutual and you must understand them. This is time when you need to focus in your studies and prepare for your future career and not for your future husband. You are still very young and trust me, you are still emotionally unprepared for this one heck of a roller coaster ride of emotions. Know the difference between loving that person and loving the feeling that you are in love. ;)
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peace16 posted in Friends:
Well I am happy that you off of them. 
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UnknownPoster
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"peace16" wrote:Oh man, I feel bad for you. I will sugguest rest it.. and when the 6 weeks of up. you can do whatever you want too do. Thanks. I am already back in school, I no longer have crutches thankfully. Also, i'd like to point out that they don't have social media, or at least, i'm not aware of it and I am out of school for two weeks for Christmas. Crushes are annoying lol. I have never been in a relationship either which makes things so much worst. 
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peace16
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Oh man, I feel bad for you. I will sugguest rest it.. and when the 6 weeks of up. you can do whatever you want too do. Thanks.
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