Dear Dish-It: Should I Disobey My Dad?

Dear Dish-It,

if you live with your father and no girls around and the guy you’ve crushed on for years asked you out friday nite and your father would kill you if he found out, what to do?????


Dear lkoolgirl,

If you’ve talked to your dad and he absolutely won’t let you date, then I’m afraid you’re stuck on this one. I wouldn’t advise you to go against your dad’s wishes – if you break his trust now it will be that much harder to earn it back and get him to let you go out on dates in the future, when you’re older.


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Calm down. Ignore her. You are YOU, don't let anyone change you. If someone hurts, cry a river and build a bridge over it cx
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EndlessDream posted in Friends:
Hmmm....Then she mustn't be necessarily "using" you, if she is not getting something in return ( As far as we know of). However, It does sound like she is being extremely unfair. That just might be how she is. Not exactly loyal to anyone. Well, try to talk to her about it and tell her how you feel. And, if it doesn't work out, then she might not be a great friend to hang around with, and maybe you will find someone else who enjoys your company. I hope this helps, and good luck :)
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XxIHateMathxX posted in Friends:
No not really. Like I said, one minute she's all smiley and then she doesn't even look at me. Most of the time I see her with Daniela and Andrea. Today she was asking me if I was going to hang out with her, Daniela, Andrea and Luisa during recess. When I told her that I was 'going to have to think' she was like, "Whatever." and ran off to catch up with the Threesome. Thanks. :)
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EndlessDream posted in Friends:
Is she asking you to do things for her? Like help with homework, carry her books and so on?
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