Dear Dish-It: Should I Disobey My Dad?

Dear Dish-It,

if you live with your father and no girls around and the guy you’ve crushed on for years asked you out friday nite and your father would kill you if he found out, what to do?????


Dear lkoolgirl,

If you’ve talked to your dad and he absolutely won’t let you date, then I’m afraid you’re stuck on this one. I wouldn’t advise you to go against your dad’s wishes – if you break his trust now it will be that much harder to earn it back and get him to let you go out on dates in the future, when you’re older.


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