Kw-logo-smaller

Dear Dish-It: Should I Write Him A Note?

Love & Dating Advice
Love & Dating Advice

Dear Dish-It,

I want to ask this guy to the dance but I'm scared of what he will say.Should I write him a note or should I ask he?And idk if he would want to go with me. Thank you!

windgirl


Dear windgirl,


When it comes to asking a guy out, whether it’s on a date or to a school dance, the most important thing is to TALK TO HIM. NEVER use an indirect approach to ask a guy out, EVER! This includes notes, friends asking for you, etc. Most every guy prefers the direct approach. If you give a guy a note he doesn't know you or isn't sure who it's from he will most likely ignore it. If you have your friends ask him it's not only a turn off but can be very intimidating, especially when there girls and even more when they come up to him in a group (this normally is a sign of trouble for guys and he'll think he did something wrong). Unless he is desperate or you're drop-dead gorgeous he'll most likely turn you down. If you're too shy to ask him with your words, you can turn an indirect approach into a direct one, such as giving him a letter yourself. This is not recommended as a good idea but it's best if you're too shy, he just might understand that your shy and if he says no it will be more gentle. Although some guys might think shy girls are cute. The direct approach is always better, though.


>
>

readers voted!

Comments

BE_Jay_Prince

BE_Jay_Prince wrote:

Hmu if u want a tbh letter
commented: Mon Jul 21, 2014

Cutebutfataltiger41
i will certainly use this advice thanks! :) Xp :punk :angel :love ;) :devil :hippie :bl...
commented: Mon Dec 24, 2012

dgirl26

dgirl26 wrote:

no good adive
commented: Wed Aug 08, 2012

there are 25 more comments

Please login or register to add comments


like this article?
Sign up now to get more just like!

latest videos

Dn_140x100

Light vs. L - Who is the Hero?

  • Light, aka Kira, is the hero for getting rid of the criminals!
  • L is the hero - killing is wrong.
  • Naomi Misora is the hero!
  • There are no heroes, the story is too twisted.

related stories

Zero asks: "Last year I got a love note from some one. I know who it is. I don't know how to apro...

Dear Dish-It in the forums

Joer
Joer posted in Style:
"Kirsteeeeen" wrote:You're not allowed to give out website names here, sorry. Why not? :) I think it would be perfect if we could recommend websites we like ! 
reply about 1 hour
blackpearrl
blackpearrl posted in Style:
a red Cole t-shirt and a green short with bear cartoons on it :3
reply about 2 hours
Cutiebee12
Cutiebee12 posted in Style:
green t - shirt and green shorts.
reply about 2 hours
Charulata
both
reply about 2 hours
Pink_Kitty
I love my parents the same but I argue with my mom way more than my dad.
reply about 3 hours

play online games

Candy-100

A great online version of the famous Candy Crush. This is the best game launched...

Big_icon_(7)

Have you ever fancied being a ranger like those fantasy characters you love so m...

Big_icon_(4)

You run across the city in a car chase with the police officers.

Big_icon_(6)

The evil master kidnapped all of your friends!

Big_icon_(5)

Tic Tac Toe is back!