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Dear Dish-It, Being Fat Is Ruining My Life

I feel like being fat is ruining my life. I'm trying to starve myself but it's so hard. I get so weak and I already lost 43 pounds but it's still not enough. I can't stop eating, what do I do? Back to Article

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vinyl
vinyl wrote:
2014-07-13 05:11:29 -0700

i dont like the second dear dish it advice

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vinyl
vinyl wrote:
2014-07-13 05:10:57 -0700

im fat and ugly! my face is all big and fat! and i just so ugly! eew!

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JesseWesse
JesseWesse wrote:
2014-04-15 17:43:05 -0700

Even*

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JesseWesse
JesseWesse wrote:
2014-04-15 17:42:56 -0700

Ben though I worked out last year

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JesseWesse
JesseWesse wrote:
2014-04-15 17:42:45 -0700

I hate being fat even tho I'm skinny I keep thinking that I'm fat but I'm not idk why but I'm gonna start working out

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Sheza
Sheza wrote:
2014-02-20 22:52:03 -0800

he dont be sooo mean And selfish

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sweetshay
sweetshay wrote:
2013-08-10 13:29:04 -0700

i think that you should love how you are because there no one like you and if you do not feel good about your weight try to eat more good food i do not know how you feel because i am skinny and if a boy do not like you because your big then let him go smile

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lil+cutie+nice=me
lil+cutie+nice=me wrote:
2013-03-14 18:06:30 -0700

yah lucky me im not fat smile Love

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singingstar25
singingstar25 wrote:
2013-03-14 18:00:13 -0700

Thanks soo much but truly the fact is that i am Frown .3.

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LWWY21
LWWY21 wrote:
2013-03-14 17:51:55 -0700

dont call yourself fat cause u really arent

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singingstar25
singingstar25 wrote:
2013-03-14 17:43:30 -0700

i am fat. i am 11 and i am 113 Frown i feel horrible.. i tried everything

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nitralsome
nitralsome wrote:
2013-03-13 16:15:36 -0700

Imma 78 or somethin Frustrated

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nitralsome
nitralsome wrote:
2013-03-13 16:15:31 -0700

Imma 78 or somethin Frustrated

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greenpig87
greenpig87 wrote:
2013-03-13 16:06:38 -0700

ha ha I'm 86 lbs. but actually I'm only that weight because I starved myself, i'm all better now though

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sweetjaja21
sweetjaja21 wrote:
2013-03-13 15:41:56 -0700

XD my lowest I have been is 61 pounds
O.o

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wreastlingfan619
wreastlingfan619 wrote:
2013-02-08 16:46:24 -0800

i'm just 117 pounds

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How Do You Stay Fit?

  • I like to play B-ball after school with my friends.
  • I just limit the junk food I eat.
  • I am at the gym everyday!
  • P.E. class is the extent of my physical activity.

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InternetOwl
What part of it are you scared of? Is it eating in public and around other people, or just eating in general?  What it might be, if it's eating in public you don't like, is social anxiety, or social phobia. You should ask your doctor to check, because if it is, they can offer you ways to help. For instance, they might recommend therapists or group sessions to help ease your fear.  Even if it's just a phobia or, in unlikelier circumstances, an eating disorder, you should still go to your doctor or a therapist so you can try to overcome it. Try doing things that calm you down before these situations as well, like exercise, reading or listening to music (I'm not sure what relaxes you but sometimes these help). Also, you should try to slowly get used to the situations. So don't force yourself to eat straight away when you're out, but slowly start doing so whenever your comfortable with doing so. Unlike your mum wants, you can't just "stop" being scared because that's not how it works.  But right now, please don't force yourself into any of these situations. It's not good for your mental health to be forced to face a phobia of yours often. 
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ElfyKathy
Dear Dish-It, Within the last few years I have felt a bit sick and shaky when we go out to eat. It's not so bad when it's a carvery lunch or something at a pub, but settling down for a chocolate brownie and a milkshake shakes me up. Don't get me wrong, I love going out with Mum, but it's just sitting down and taking a bite. I want to chuck it in the bin. I love eating brownies and stuff at home and I'm pretty healthy. But I refuse to go to the town before lunch in fear. Mum told me I got to stop this or I'm going to develop a terrible phobia.  Please help! ElfyKathy, worried
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