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Dear Dish-it: We're Always Fighting

confused asks: "I've liked this boy since the beginning of Grade 7 and I heard he liked me, too. We aren't going out and we're already fighting like we're a couple. We yell, hit and kick each other just so one of us can speak. I like him with all my heart , but i don't wanna fight all the time with him. I know that yelling and hurting each other is immature, but it's something we always do and have done." Back to Article

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secretagentman
secretagentman wrote:
2013-08-12 12:59:29 -0700

Shut

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wreastlingfan619
wreastlingfan619 wrote:
2013-08-12 12:12:11 -0700

give him a stunner lol

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miss ray
miss ray wrote:
2012-12-28 18:24:31 -0800

SHUT WAT

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obey_female
obey_female wrote:
2012-12-28 18:21:54 -0800

shut

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obey_female
obey_female wrote:
2012-12-28 18:18:47 -0800

what

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miss ray
miss ray wrote:
2012-12-28 18:15:01 -0800

FIGHTING?

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miss ray
miss ray wrote:
2012-12-28 18:09:41 -0800

LOL ALRIGHT

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obey_female
obey_female wrote:
2012-12-28 18:09:01 -0800

really what and stop sayin my last name llol

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miss ray
miss ray wrote:
2012-12-28 18:05:19 -0800

yea EXACTLY WAT IM SAYIN YOU CANT GET MAD BEACAUSE I SAY THT JANYIA COLLINS YOU REALLY CANT

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obey_female
obey_female wrote:
2012-12-28 18:03:53 -0800

im mad because u keep sayin kkkkkkkk omg tht makes me mad

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miss ray
miss ray wrote:
2012-12-28 18:02:05 -0800

exactly mad over nothing what you mad for

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obey_female
obey_female wrote:
2012-12-28 18:01:09 -0800

WHO SAID IM NOT UR FRIEND IM JUST MAD THT ALL LOL

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miss ray
miss ray wrote:
2012-12-28 17:58:23 -0800

really ur my bestfriend wernt u the one who said u had not best friend...right

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obey_female
obey_female wrote:
2012-12-28 17:49:06 -0800

me my bestie fight alll the time her name is nevaeh fight then we are friends again well today she is makin me mad because everytime i txt her she is always sayin k like she does;nt want to talk to me she does it on purpose wow

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lovely2128
lovely2128 wrote:
2012-11-02 17:28:16 -0700

im a fighter i stay fightin lol XD

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Prophey
Prophey wrote:
2012-10-31 20:36:08 -0700

I fight all the time with people compared to this though my fights are more....intense

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tickle
tickle wrote:
2012-06-28 10:48:07 -0700

You shuold ask him if you make better friends than couples. If he said friends then just be friends . If he said couples than sit down, have a talk,and try again

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$tyl3zGot$w@gg14
$tyl3zGot$w@gg14 wrote:
2012-04-11 16:01:30 -0700

Fight for wat u love I wuld just dnt end up in an abusive relationship or nun like dat buht ppl argue wit each other its normal or just craxii luv lolx

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june2300
june2300 wrote:
2011-12-13 17:23:41 -0800

thts jus away too..tlk to each other yea it might be dumb but its the truth Tongue Out

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aliyah2342
aliyah2342 wrote:
2011-09-18 12:09:07 -0700

it's like an old married couple...lolz XD

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Does fighting all the time mean you're in a good relationship?

  • Yes: It's natural to fight with other people a lot, even your boyfriend or girlfriend.
  • No: Healthy relationships means you work things out together, not get angry at each other all the time.
  • Maybe: Fighting a lot doesn't necessarily mean your relationship is bad or over, it just means you need to get some help or advice
  • I don't know

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reply about 5 hours
InternetOwl
What part of it are you scared of? Is it eating in public and around other people, or just eating in general?  What it might be, if it's eating in public you don't like, is social anxiety, or social phobia. You should ask your doctor to check, because if it is, they can offer you ways to help. For instance, they might recommend therapists or group sessions to help ease your fear.  Even if it's just a phobia or, in unlikelier circumstances, an eating disorder, you should still go to your doctor or a therapist so you can try to overcome it. Try doing things that calm you down before these situations as well, like exercise, reading or listening to music (I'm not sure what relaxes you but sometimes these help). Also, you should try to slowly get used to the situations. So don't force yourself to eat straight away when you're out, but slowly start doing so whenever your comfortable with doing so. Unlike your mum wants, you can't just "stop" being scared because that's not how it works.  But right now, please don't force yourself into any of these situations. It's not good for your mental health to be forced to face a phobia of yours often. 
reply about 6 hours
ElfyKathy
Dear Dish-It, Within the last few years I have felt a bit sick and shaky when we go out to eat. It's not so bad when it's a carvery lunch or something at a pub, but settling down for a chocolate brownie and a milkshake shakes me up. Don't get me wrong, I love going out with Mum, but it's just sitting down and taking a bite. I want to chuck it in the bin. I love eating brownies and stuff at home and I'm pretty healthy. But I refuse to go to the town before lunch in fear. Mum told me I got to stop this or I'm going to develop a terrible phobia.  Please help! ElfyKathy, worried
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NianiNaturallyNerdy3
She isn't jealous she is just dissappointed that you chose to get lessons when she did to get better . She had to get better to catch up to you so you can enjoyher as your best friend. Then you went ahead and got lessons as if you needed them. She is just upset that you showed off a talent that she didn't have. And she tried to get better to impress you but you got better as well. Which kept her at the stage she will always be at my best friend sings way betyer than me but I try. 
reply about 7 hours
NianiNaturallyNerdy3
It may be hard but break it down to them we aren't friends but we can be associates. It may leave them a bit dissappointed but tell them we aren't in the same category to be as close as friends. 
reply about 7 hours