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Dear Dish-it: There's A Hole Inside

Jun 13, 2010

Dear Dish-it,


I know a lot of my friends have no BF or GF but i am SO lonely. All my life I've felt like there's a hole in my chest and I know now it's because I really want someone to give me the love I never had ...


silverwolf


Dear SW,


I’m really sorry that you’re feeling this way. It must be tough dealing with your situation, especially when you’re not even sure why you’re feeling these things. It’ll take some time to sort through your emotions, but there are always places and people you can turn to for help.


Parental Love

First and foremost, you definitely should talk to your parents. Your parents know you the best and because they truly care for you, they’re going to hear you out no matter what. The next chance you get, let them know what’s going on in your life. Explain to them everything that you feel so that they can really grasp how you’re feeling. They will be concerned and that’s a good start because then they’ll try to help you even more.


Get Some Counsel

Another person you can turn to? Counselors. Now, it may seem weird to talk away your thoughts and feelings to a total stranger and expect them to help you, but whatever the case is, pros and pros. In other words, they’ve dealt with similar situations before and have knowledge bout what might be causing you to feel blue, what options you got to fight it off, and so on. It’ll feel totally awkward at first to open yourself up, but even doing that will help tremendously. Let it all out!


You're Not Alone

Lastly, as you meet and talk with different people,/b> to get rid of that depressing mood,/b>, there are a few more things you should know: 1) you’ll never be alone and 2) you’re not the only one. There will always be people who care about you and will be with you throughout everything. And because there are people who have been through your sitch, you’ll definitely find a solution to your worries. Promise!


Sound Off

Have you ever felt the way silverwolf is feeling, like there's a hole inside that you don't know how to fill or get rid of? How did you handle it? Have your say by leaving a comment below this story!


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carolyna_03
carolyna_03 posted in Friends:
Dear dish it, plz help my friends treat me like a third wheel everyday I'm happy but then I'm ether getting left out pushed to the curb or something like that. I want to ditch them but I don't have anyone else to talk to or hang with, I was lonely at school because they weren't there help! Wat do I do
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Flamesword15
Flamesword15 posted in Friends:
Friends are hard to find, I will say that, but it's easy to make new friends:)<3
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Colorpaw
Colorpaw posted in Family Issues:
  "Colorpaw" wrote: God yes! My mom would kill me if she found me on this site! -.- It gets annoying sometimes. My dad is strict too, but maybe not as much. I have to keep sites where I have any kind of interaction with people I haven't met face to face a secret, and it gets hard sometimes because I'm on quite a few roleplay sites which obviously involve chatting/interacting with people. I trust everybody on those sites though, but try telling my mom that.     My parents have gotten a lot better since then, but they're still strict about the chat sites and all. My mom is still very strict, but not nearly as much as then. I guess it's because I've gotten older. I'll be 13 in a few days. c: ALSO. If any of you saw my other post, pretend you didn't xD For some reason I thought I'd posted the original forum post. xDD I guess that's what happens when you haven't been on a site in a couple of years, you start forgetting things.  
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tweenblogger
Thanks so much.  :love
reply about 16 hours
Shannyboo3
I know exactly how you feel.  I'm going through the same thing. The thing to know is none of it's your fault.  And you can visit your mom or your dad.  You can try to get your mind of it by hanging out with your friends at school.  I feel your pain.   And I feel bad that this kind of stuff happens in life.  But god will make everything better. :)
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