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Dear Dish-it: There's A Hole Inside

silver wolf asks: "I know a lot of my friends have no BF or GF but i am SO lonely. All my life I've felt like there's a hole in my chest and I know now it's because I really want someone to give me the love I never had ... " Back to Article

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alexiarina123
alexiarina123 wrote:
2014-01-05 19:06:04 -0800

Dont worry these things take time to find that right person

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XxCryXx
XxCryXx wrote:
2014-01-05 19:01:35 -0800

Aww, sometimes I think Im just a shadow to people, just a black blur because I cant upload any pics of myself so all they see in me is a shadow.... Frown

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MewSilver
MewSilver wrote:
2014-01-05 18:59:49 -0800

I feel the same right now... Frustrated

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1D ONEZIES
1D ONEZIES wrote:
2013-01-09 14:39:25 -0800

I used to feel this way and then I asked out my ex and he said sure so now I don't feel THAT bad anymore.

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Swagger74_2286959
Swagger74_2286959 wrote:
2013-01-07 17:34:53 -0800

Lol

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smezzi_765_1816393
smezzi_765_1816393 wrote:
2011-07-22 15:39:07 -0700

Kutti:This Is Like Creepy O.o

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-Kutii-
-Kutii- wrote:
2011-07-22 15:33:04 -0700

smezzi: haha ikr

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smezzi_765_1816393
smezzi_765_1816393 wrote:
2011-07-22 15:20:53 -0700

Kutti: b4 i read some of it i was like now i know this is gonna b weird Tongue Out

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-Kutii-
-Kutii- wrote:
2011-07-22 15:19:12 -0700

smezzi: ain't it though

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smezzi_765_1816393
smezzi_765_1816393 wrote:
2011-07-22 15:04:22 -0700

this article sounds really weird

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cutie_bear32
cutie_bear32 wrote:
2011-07-22 14:55:15 -0700

-Kutti-: Haha ikr. (;

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-Kutii-
-Kutii- wrote:
2011-07-22 14:53:47 -0700

cutie-bear32: nah, they did that on purpose haha

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blackops777
blackops777 wrote:
2011-07-22 14:53:41 -0700

cool love dont joke its not a game hahahaha Confused

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cutie_bear32
cutie_bear32 wrote:
2011-07-22 14:52:14 -0700

-Kutti-: I thought I was the only who thought that (;

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-Kutii-
-Kutii- wrote:
2011-07-22 14:49:13 -0700

This article sounds dirty lol

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i love brandon
i love brandon wrote:
2011-07-22 13:13:17 -0700

sumtimes i feel alone but there is always sum1 out there to help mine is my bffl/sis AUTTUMN

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i love brandon
i love brandon wrote:
2011-07-22 13:12:51 -0700

sumtimes i feel alone
but there is always sum1 out there to help mine is my bffl/sis

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danni507
danni507 wrote:
2010-07-10 16:54:02 -0700

i feel pain.not physically but psychologically,it is not because i had a break up with a bf or something but it's because of my mom and dad's death,my pain all started when i was little....
i was young, but at the age of two i had to learn discipline,thro

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danni507
danni507 wrote:
2010-07-10 16:53:21 -0700

i feel pain.not physically but psychologically,it is not because i had a break up with a bf or something but it's because of my mom and dad's death,my pain all started when i was little....
i was young, but at the age of two i had to learn discipline,thro

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hinata245
hinata245 wrote:
2010-07-07 14:03:11 -0700

i feel the exact same way. i sent a dear dish it too its called "im still single". at first i felt a little better about hearing the advice, but then i found out that another one of my friends has a boyfriend and im still alone. my heart used to hurt a lo

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InternetOwl
What part of it are you scared of? Is it eating in public and around other people, or just eating in general?  What it might be, if it's eating in public you don't like, is social anxiety, or social phobia. You should ask your doctor to check, because if it is, they can offer you ways to help. For instance, they might recommend therapists or group sessions to help ease your fear.  Even if it's just a phobia or, in unlikelier circumstances, an eating disorder, you should still go to your doctor or a therapist so you can try to overcome it. Try doing things that calm you down before these situations as well, like exercise, reading or listening to music (I'm not sure what relaxes you but sometimes these help). Also, you should try to slowly get used to the situations. So don't force yourself to eat straight away when you're out, but slowly start doing so whenever your comfortable with doing so. Unlike your mum wants, you can't just "stop" being scared because that's not how it works.  But right now, please don't force yourself into any of these situations. It's not good for your mental health to be forced to face a phobia of yours often. 
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ElfyKathy
Dear Dish-It, Within the last few years I have felt a bit sick and shaky when we go out to eat. It's not so bad when it's a carvery lunch or something at a pub, but settling down for a chocolate brownie and a milkshake shakes me up. Don't get me wrong, I love going out with Mum, but it's just sitting down and taking a bite. I want to chuck it in the bin. I love eating brownies and stuff at home and I'm pretty healthy. But I refuse to go to the town before lunch in fear. Mum told me I got to stop this or I'm going to develop a terrible phobia.  Please help! ElfyKathy, worried
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NianiNaturallyNerdy3
She isn't jealous she is just dissappointed that you chose to get lessons when she did to get better . She had to get better to catch up to you so you can enjoyher as your best friend. Then you went ahead and got lessons as if you needed them. She is just upset that you showed off a talent that she didn't have. And she tried to get better to impress you but you got better as well. Which kept her at the stage she will always be at my best friend sings way betyer than me but I try. 
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NianiNaturallyNerdy3
It may be hard but break it down to them we aren't friends but we can be associates. It may leave them a bit dissappointed but tell them we aren't in the same category to be as close as friends. 
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