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Dear Dish-it: Should I Risk My Friendship for Love?

sakotako asks: "I have this HUGE crush on this guy in my class. He’s been my friend for a really long time and I don’t want to ruin it. But he seems kinda into me and I know he used to like me. Should I go for it and ask him out?" Back to Article

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lostergrl
lostergrl wrote:
2013-05-13 21:36:18 -0700

I've been needing info like this! oh ari i know what to do!

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tbug01
tbug01 wrote:
2013-04-27 04:52:42 -0700

yeah!!! thats like me my best friend is a guy and we are close!!! I mean like BFFL!!! and I like him he likes me and we have been "talking" and I mean I dont want to ruin our friendship so... what do I do?

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QTpie14
QTpie14 wrote:
2013-04-12 12:11:21 -0700

This is so close to my situation...

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sweetlysweet100
sweetlysweet100 wrote:
2013-03-19 18:40:24 -0700

stay his friend till your 16! cuz my best friend went out with me then he left and now we cant even look at each other! its the most painful thing in the world

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ladivah2
ladivah2 wrote:
2013-01-22 15:46:12 -0800

i have a guy friend that i really like and im so scared to ask him outt, i do not know if he likes if u like me just friend me and mail me

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purplequeen118
purplequeen118 wrote:
2013-01-09 18:27:05 -0800

i meant if he says no

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purplequeen118
purplequeen118 wrote:
2013-01-09 18:26:33 -0800

um if i get my friend to ask out my crush for me, if he says know do u thnk it would work if she said that she was kidding anyway?

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SiaV112
SiaV112 wrote:
2012-12-11 19:41:19 -0800

I have a friend and last year, i told him That i liked him more than a friend but that was after he told me that he did too. He still likes me, but now I'm over him. But now that I see that hes with another girl and I'm developing feelings. Dont ruin your chances, but dont ruin a good relationship either.

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SiaV112
SiaV112 wrote:
2012-12-11 19:41:19 -0800

I have a friend and last year, i told him That i liked him more than a friend but that was after he told me that he did too. He still likes me, but now I'm over him. But now that I see that hes with another girl and I'm developing feelings. Dont ruin your chances, but dont ruin a good relationship either.

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swagismymiddlename
swagismymiddlename wrote:
2012-12-08 18:46:54 -0800

I asked out my guy friend let's just say it really
akward but we treat each other with respect like
always

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grease fan 123
grease fan 123 wrote:
2012-11-19 12:02:37 -0800

I am also in this situation. I don't know what to do and I think I might bug his bff as his friend has been bugging us to date so I'll see if he's said something to him

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ILMDGRL
ILMDGRL wrote:
2012-10-31 15:16:46 -0700

Don't ruin a good relationship, but if U can find a way to talk to one of his close friends and he like-likes U get the friend to make Ur guy friend ask U out.

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hotskock94
hotskock94 wrote:
2012-10-25 22:46:43 -0700

id would but i cant

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musicXisXmyXlife
musicXisXmyXlife wrote:
2012-09-19 03:13:48 -0700

I had a crush on my guy friend, and a few months ago, we were casually texting and then the next minute, we were talking about getting together. We had our one month anniversary about a week ago, and are happily together (:

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hotstove39
hotstove39 wrote:
2012-07-30 20:55:17 -0700

Well, I have some-what same situation... My best friend is a guy and everyone wants us to go out... I already have a boyfriend who I love more than life.... He gets so sad when people tell me to go out with my guy friend

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SamWolfchick
SamWolfchick wrote:
2012-07-24 13:29:42 -0700

i wouldnt! lol. but i would suggest taking the ris to anyone else!

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fighterchica101
fighterchica101 wrote:
2012-06-17 21:30:15 -0700

im in the same predicement except i dont have girls who are friends well not really close though well 1 but i have not talked 2 her in a while oh well

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Jerseyliciousgirl296
Jerseyliciousgirl296 wrote:
2012-06-14 11:49:42 -0700

totally my situation i think i might try it smile

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olieogirl7899
olieogirl7899 wrote:
2012-06-09 18:19:33 -0700

im dating my best guy friend and everything is working out perfectly so yeah i would.. smile goo luck with ur siteashun Blush

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zoya786
zoya786 wrote:
2012-06-08 07:21:23 -0700

i like my guy freind but he used to like my freind and my best freind and him r always fighting we decided to take t forward how shall we tell her

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