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Dear Dish-it: Help Me Get Over My Shyness

shy-as-a-deer asks: "I am a really shy girl. Whenever I have to present a presentation to the class, I always a bad job at it. AND, I don't really have the courage to talk to make friends. Can you help me get out of my shyness?" Back to Article

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Kateekins109
Kateekins109 wrote:
2014-01-22 13:32:56 -0800

At school im not shy at all but when im around a bunch of ppl that dont know me in public i get a little shy

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MonasYou
MonasYou wrote:
2014-01-20 21:06:27 -0800

I'm hardly shy, but sometimes I am

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HershyChocolate
HershyChocolate wrote:
2013-09-20 21:01:00 -0700

only shy if i do speeches in front of A LOT of people

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Astridx
Astridx wrote:
2013-02-06 21:33:32 -0800

Im shy around most ppl

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-butterflies;
-butterflies; wrote:
2013-01-30 07:00:01 -0800

I'm really shy if I don't know you, but later on if you get to know me I'm not that shy....♥

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Little_Miss_2000
Little_Miss_2000 wrote:
2013-01-22 15:21:10 -0800

I'm not shy Big Grin

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kagaya
kagaya wrote:
2013-01-08 06:55:32 -0800

I am not shy but not so straight forward

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thisgirl10
thisgirl10 wrote:
2013-01-08 02:35:21 -0800

im really shyFrustrated

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ayush1904
ayush1904 wrote:
2013-01-08 00:48:00 -0800

i am also getting shy sometimes

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Gingerkissx
Gingerkissx wrote:
2013-01-08 00:45:23 -0800

I'm really shy :P

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coolnam
coolnam wrote:
2013-01-08 00:41:18 -0800

i get shy too...only sometimes...

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wreastlingfan619
wreastlingfan619 wrote:
2013-01-07 16:53:04 -0800

i'm soooooooooooooo shy

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alyssia7710
alyssia7710 wrote:
2013-01-07 16:38:15 -0800

i hate this im so shy and have shyness i cant barely make friends at school but on here i can

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sabby2018
sabby2018 wrote:
2012-11-10 06:47:08 -0800

I get shy 2 i was so shy when i was little i never wanted 2 leave home but it will get betta

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alehjandra
alehjandra wrote:
2012-11-09 19:17:07 -0800

im so shy like talking to this one guy who's my friend and i like my other friend , and one asked me out and now my face gets red around them it used to be all okay

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catsrcute9
catsrcute9 wrote:
2012-11-08 15:01:19 -0800

in p.e. my face would go red(if it did)when i see my crush

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Cam:)
Cam:) wrote:
2012-11-08 14:56:36 -0800

I AM SOOOOOO SHY!!!! MY FACE GETS ALL RED WHEN I HAVE TO DO PRESENTAIONS...I HATE IT!!!Frown Nose

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catsrcute9
catsrcute9 wrote:
2012-11-08 14:55:08 -0800

don't worry it happens to me but i don't care

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muni4ever
muni4ever wrote:
2012-09-30 11:52:29 -0700

im to shy for auditions for a highschool i want to go to. Embarrassed

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mrs.pizzapie57pink
mrs.pizzapie57pink wrote:
2012-09-28 20:22:01 -0700

i am really shhy to but just talk to them because the other person could end up being your best friend but if none of u have the courage to talk to each other then u wont be abel to get to know them smile

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kaykay2002
kaykay2002 posted in Friends:
"Wooper1255" wrote:No. Just no. Mr. Face does not approve this. ._.Okay, okay, let's get serious.Your best friend BULLYING you? And loves it when you get mad? What the heck? SHE'S NOT EVEN YOUR FRIEND!You should have a talk with your best friend. No seriously, she doesn't have any friends cause she's a bully and no one likes to be friends with a bully...You should tell your best friend that she NEEDS to change her attitude! She needs to be more nicer to others also.Also, a best friend is: Caring, Kind, Loyal, Nice, Thoughtful, and will stand up for you against bullies, will be there if you're upset, maybe they'll even CRY with you!A best friend is totally NOT: Someone who bullies you, Someone who likes it when your madYou should ask her any of the following questions:Are you Okay?Why are you bullying me? You're my friend.Is something wrong like family issues?Questions like that are good because there may be a reason for bullying. She could be suffering from depression, or is confused or lonely. Just talk to her. Have a discussion with her. Also, you should talk to other people. Ask them why they aren't friends with your best friend. Then maybe, after they tell you what they don't like about her, you can go back to your best friend and tell her the things she needs to improve on. Also, if necessary, tell an adult like your mom, a teacher, consular, or her mom.Whatever you think will solve this conflict between you and your best friend well... just go for it. But think about the outcome too.Hope I helped, I might add some tips and suggestions to you. :3  your right and the only reason I have put up with her this long is because her dad died but I cant stand her anymore so but seriously I feel like there is another reason bcuz she has had people confront her saying "u know what I have put up wit this for a while and I have told u to stop and u don't listen and I know your dad died but that doesn't mean u can treat people like that "  but she still does it and for the past 3 yrs. I have put up with it but not anymore I will talk to her about it. Thanks.
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Wooper1255
Wooper1255 posted in Friends:
You NEED to tell your parents or HER parents about her attitude, this is abuse from your OWN best friend! Tell an adult, don't be afraid, it's not even SILLY to tell an adult, this is serious, she is HURTING you! Tell someone before things get out of hand and she REALLY hurts you! D=
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Wooper1255
Wooper1255 posted in Friends:
No. Just no. Mr. Face does not approve this. ._. Okay, okay, let's get serious. Your best friend BULLYING you? And loves it when you get mad? What the heck? SHE'S NOT EVEN YOUR FRIEND! You should have a talk with your best friend. No seriously, she doesn't have any friends cause she's a bully and no one likes to be friends with a bully... You should tell your best friend that she NEEDS to change her attitude! She needs to be more nicer to others also. Also, a best friend is: Caring, Kind, Loyal, Nice, Thoughtful, and will stand up for you against bullies, will be there if you're upset, maybe they'll even CRY with you! A best friend is totally NOT: Someone who bullies you, Someone who likes it when your mad You should ask her any of the following questions: Are you Okay? Why are you bullying me? You're my friend. Is something wrong like family issues? Questions like that are good because there may be a reason for bullying. She could be suffering from depression, or is confused or lonely. Just talk to her. Have a discussion with her. Also, you should talk to other people. Ask them why they aren't friends with your best friend. Then maybe, after they tell you what they don't like about her, you can go back to your best friend and tell her the things she needs to improve on. Also, if necessary, tell an adult like your mom, a teacher, consular, or her mom. Whatever you think will solve this conflict between you and your best friend well... just go for it. But think about the outcome too. Hope I helped, I might add some tips and suggestions to you. :3
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Boysrock50
Boysrock50 posted in Friends:
Yeah I had a friend in the same situation as you, he was too scared to say anything so we spoke for him. Now the 'friend' has changed and hes our mate. Just tell her straight and firmly, its the only way
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kaykay2002
kaykay2002 posted in Friends:
"Boysrock50" wrote:She is obviously NOT your best friend.I wouldn't even call her a friendShe is a bully who thinks she can have her own wayShe thinks she can control you like you're her follower because she the truth is she needs youBe smart and leave her because she's only going to keep you down and then one day she will find  friends just like her and she will just ignore you forever, thinking shes too cool for you.I would either:Tell her straight that she needs to make her own friends because you don't want to be friends anymoreor:Tell her that you don't like what she does and either she changes her ways and acts more like a friend, or you cant be friends anymore.I'm not trying to be harsh, I'm being wise and you should be wise too. Thanks I actually might try that but she is really stubborn and will not take no for an answer I have tried just ignoring her but he will kick, hit, or punch me to get attention. my parents also don't like her bcuz she is bossy. I also have to go to summer camp with her for the next 2 weeks and w have to be buddies for it so i think i might die
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