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Dear Dish-It: Trouble with Dad

bhla asks: "My dad hits me almost every day. I want to go back to my mom’s house but he says this is best for me. All my BFFs ask me what happened and I have to say I fell. But he chokes me, throws glass at my face and says I’m fat." Back to Article

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fantasy200194
fantasy200194 wrote:
2013-03-22 17:58:45 -0700

get away from him. GO TO THE COPS. I really think thats best. if he does that you dont need to be with him. Go to your mom. Anyone that can help just go to!

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kittykat33
kittykat33 wrote:
2013-03-13 13:56:35 -0700

Frown I'm so sorry!

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MadJak
MadJak wrote:
2013-02-04 22:12:19 -0800

I have the same thing happening Frown

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sibunann
sibunann wrote:
2013-01-09 07:34:16 -0800

I thought they were talking about kids taking advantage of there dads bc I sure do we ask him 4 ice cream at like 7:00 am and we say we will shut up if we get it so he gets us it and we still talk

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-Amazinq.Ashlee.x3.-
-Amazinq.Ashlee.x3.- wrote:
2012-11-11 15:48:33 -0800

My Dad, He's In My Life. But Good Article Thooo.

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R I S S A ;**♥
R I S S A ;**♥ wrote:
2012-11-11 15:39:43 -0800

@Danaee Yuup Yuup Miness Too , Useed To Staay Intoo Summ

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iSwaggatasticDanae♥
iSwaggatasticDanae♥ wrote:
2012-11-11 15:37:39 -0800

@Rissa My Mom Worked At My Elementary School ;P

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DanniCanCareLess;*
DanniCanCareLess;* wrote:
2012-11-11 15:32:01 -0800

Me&My Dad Didn't Really Get Along Back Then Because Im A "Bad Influence" To my Fraans And To My Little Sister...
But After My Mom Died About 5 Days Ago, We Got Along Pretty Well Because Now He Says " Danni You Remind Me Of Your Mother, Beautiful, Smart, Young, and Mature" So I Don't Really Have Troubles With My Father Anymore❤

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R I S S A ;**♥
R I S S A ;**♥ wrote:
2012-11-11 15:27:42 -0800

@Danaee , Well If It Makes U Feel Any Better , My Momma Work For Thee Schools , Thee School i Go Too ; |

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iSwaggatasticDanae♥
iSwaggatasticDanae♥ wrote:
2012-11-11 15:26:30 -0800

My Dad Is My Principal At School ... Thats A Problem . Loll .

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xo'marie
xo'marie wrote:
2012-11-11 15:22:09 -0800

My Dad Isnt In My Life Right Now .. He's Not Dead Doee .. I Really Miss Him ):

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R I S S A ;**♥
R I S S A ;**♥ wrote:
2012-11-11 15:09:47 -0800

Naa Uhh Baeee , U Bettaa Beaat Hiss Asss' Besst U Cann Back & ' Call The Police

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Tillymint99
Tillymint99 wrote:
2012-08-06 11:58:05 -0700

I feel really sorry for you,no one should be treated like that. Try and tell someone u trust. Maybe a close relative - grandma or grandad. Or if not, how about a teacher. Good luck xx

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quandra*bhadd
quandra*bhadd wrote:
2012-07-22 10:56:41 -0700

So Glad Im Oudda That Shidd

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♥lilem♥
♥lilem♥ wrote:
2012-05-01 00:30:32 -0700

HEEY

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BellePrincessxoxoHoran
BellePrincessxoxoHoran wrote:
2012-04-20 01:02:10 -0700

Cant u tell your mom about it? well talk with him! why is he doing that? why is that for ur best? if he dont understand that it hurts u (if u are +13) just go to your mom without getting permission from him!

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roy150002
roy150002 wrote:
2012-04-15 16:35:14 -0700

that has to hurt. amanda is this real does it happen to someone

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bps101
bps101 wrote:
2012-04-13 20:24:23 -0700

what is wrong with you???? don't u have a heart?????????

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bps101
bps101 wrote:
2012-04-13 20:22:56 -0700

shut up

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MeaghanTheBat
MeaghanTheBat wrote:
2012-04-07 10:01:34 -0700

:c ouch....Ask someone for help, or talk to someone you trust. maybe that will help.

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