Kw-logo-holiday

Big Boob Blues

Dear Dish-it,


My boobs are way bigger than all the other girls my age, and guys tease me and say mean things. Is there any way to make my boobs look smaller or stop growing? What do I do?


bra-full


Dear bf,


Most well-endowed women (translation: women with large breasts) have grown to appreciate their curves, and you will probably feel the same way one day when you're a bit older. In fact, tons of girls with smaller boobs are probably going to be jealous of YOU in a few years!


Unfortunately, there's no way to make them smaller at the moment - unless you've got a serious problem, like your breasts are so large that your shoulders and back ache. If that's the case, then you should talk to your mom and ask her to make an appointment for you with your doctor, who can discuss something called breast-reduction surgery with you and talk to you about some of your other options to deal with the pain that having very large breasts can sometimes cause.


As for the guys that tease you, just smile at them, say “I like my body,” and walk away.


Oh, and a very important thing is to remind yourself that every time an immature guy makes a comment about your chest, it’s because he’s in awe of it. But if this continues to be a problem, consider talking to a school counselor about it - no one has the right to tease you or make you feel bad or self-conscious just for being who you are!


Related Stories
>

readers voted!


like this article?
Sign up now to get more just like it!

latest videos

F1141858282609

Do You Know Someone With Breast Cancer?

  • Yes, I know someone who has breast cancer.
  • I've known someone in the past who had it.
  • I don't know anyone personally, but my friends do.
  • No, I don't know anyone who has had breast cancer.

related stories

Micro_breasts_micro
Dance_chick101 asks: "My breasts - they are both different sizes. The right one is bigger and the...
I'm having this dilemma of whether or not to play sport. When I run, I feel so ashamed of ...
I don't like to participate in P.E. because I get embarrassed with all the boys staring at...

Dear Dish-It in the forums

wellhereweareagain12
There is someone in my class and she makes a comment about everything the teacher says and she always feels the need to make everything about her. I can't stand her. I hope I won't have any classes with her next year.
reply 4 minutes
UMadOrNaw
I would reccoment getting in touch with a family theripist and have him/her come over to your house and talk with your family.
reply 9 minutes
samkitty214
samkitty214 posted in Friends:
Dear UnknownPoster,     Hello, hope you're enjoying your day! i suggest you step up to the home plate and ask," is there chemistry in this so called relationship"? let her answer, if it is yes. than build a STRONG relationship. if its NO than just say "sorry i asked" and say that you'd like to continue as friends!!!!                                                         -best of luck 
reply about 2 hours
JezDaNerd
Dear Dish-It, My little sister, Sydney, ruins EVERYTHING! She spills secrets, messes up auditions, and even feeds bits of homework, to the FISH!  Once, my crush came over while my parents weren't home. I was babysitting Sydney when I forgot we had to finish a school project, me and my crush. When he got to my house, My sister told him about how i use to have BRACES and a bright pink TEDDY BEAR! How can i try to cooperator with her, when i just want to strangle her! (my crush still is friends with me by the way) From, Jez {}
reply about 3 hours
rebelfeminist
rebelfeminist posted in Style:
Well you won't want to volunteer because that's unpaid.  Your profile says you're 11 which means you can't get a real job but you can babysit (you'll need first aid training for this), or you can pet sit or do yard work. Those are good jobs to have at your age.
reply about 7 hours

play online games

Hour-of-code-tumb

Codey the troll is lost! Help him avoid obstacles and get back into the computer...

Candy-quest-feature

Your troll is lost! Help it avoid obstacles and get back into the computer.

Fo...

Dragon-dash

Your dragon must return to guard the treasure! Help it gather lost coins and avo...

_thumb_100x100

Shoot blobs with different properties to merge yellow blobs. Your blobs can be r...

1005_cc_kidz_100x100_vlh

Candy's got her candies into a terrible mess, can you help her to sort them out?

Candy-100

A great online version of the famous Candy Crush. This is the best game launched...

_thumb_100x100

Bloons 2 is here! A worthy and awesome sequel at last to our original Bloons gam...

Frostbox_100x100

Explore the world or hang out with friends in your own condo. Get a unique look,...