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Dear Dish-It: I’m Left Out

Dear Dish-it,

I’ve got two friends. They like to do stuff together and sometimes I feel really left out. They don’t pay much attention to me and I feel really lonely.

LonelyFriend

Dear LonelyFriend,

The solution to your problem is actually pretty simple. Instead of depending on just these two, it’s time to get up, get out, and make some new friends! Join a club, a sports team, the student council at your school – anything that will expose you to new peeps! Then all you have to do is be yourself, be friendly and make a bit of effort to get to know these new acquaintances; it won’t be long before they become your friends. And then it won’t even matter whether your two old ones include you in everything they do or not!

HAVE YOUR SAY: What do you think LonelyFriend should do? Do you have some good advice? Leave your comment below!

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Alois_Trancy_
Alois_Trancy_ posted in Friends:
"Rameza" wrote:My best friend just keeps back stabbing me.well to speak the truth we have been BFF's since 2nd Grade but when we reached into 5th grade she would talk all of these lies on me,once we had this big argument that we didn't speak to each other for 1 whole month.we forgived each other but now this group of girls would pick on me and #### ##### things about me behind my back.Now they treat me so nice and make all these jokes with me but at the end of the day it's the same routine over and over again.My mom tells me that their just jealous but it's making me drop back in my school work  now as usual I would probably say "kill them" but since this is correct grammar and punctuation I will take this seriously. Report them to the principal. Tell them how you feel. If it gets worse contact the police ( I've had to do this )
reply about 12 hours
jordand08
jordand08 posted in Friends:
When your friend starts to talk about you, and stabs you in the back. then maybe it's time to move on. In friendships, there will always be times when your friend hurt your feelings, but if it's being repeated, then maybe it's time to let go. Because some things aren't worth it.
reply about 12 hours
Alex227
Alex227 posted in Friends:
You should if you really want to, but I don't think it should matter the amount of knowledge you and your friends have, because friendship is merely friendship! :) Plus, when you tell them, it may come across as bragging and they would perceive you as a show-off. Hope this helps!
reply about 15 hours
hugebear
hugebear posted in Friends:
Congratulations on being gifted and getting all the opportunties what your getting :) You knows your friends better than any of us and how does you think they will react if you tell them?  Thinks about if one of your friends told you and how you would feel.  Be proud and enjoy your learning and you will meet other gifted people too in your classes and ask them their experiences too of how/if they told friends. If it was me then I probably wouldnt but thats just me personality. I wouldnt ever get in the gifted group anyway so I doesnt really have to think about this :)
reply about 21 hours
__dischic3__
__dischic3__ posted in Style:
today I got my hair down...chillin'
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