Dear Dish-It: My First Kiss

Pandabear asks: “My boyfriend wants to kiss me, but I’ve never kissed anyone before and he has. I'm scared that if I kiss him he won’t think I'm good at it. I’m really nervous and I don’t know what to do! Any advice?” Back to Article

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CuteMoo2 wrote:
2014-03-28 16:21:23 -0700

hehe awe muah ;* first kss is unforgettable(:

trackrunner wrote:
2014-03-25 20:45:00 -0700

Hey I'm was wundering sense your a girl I was wundering how would you like to be ask out because Teresa a chick in my grade I like

alleyjenny101 wrote:
2014-03-24 18:40:11 -0700

I have my first bf so idk whats gunna happen

imagination44 wrote:
2014-03-24 13:54:42 -0700

I have. (: It was not so romantic, but very sweet.

tay2cute4you_ wrote:
2014-03-22 14:36:12 -0700

i have

LUL__TT wrote:
2014-03-22 11:23:04 -0700

never had my first kiss

nanaswagg11 wrote:
2014-03-21 12:24:54 -0700

whoooooooooooo i love bubble gum lip balm thats that stuff

kitty_loves_u wrote:
2014-03-20 22:41:46 -0700

I HAVE NOT HAD ONE!!!!!!!!!!

Maddyroxjp wrote:
2014-03-20 14:53:43 -0700

You should wait if he dumps you just because you won't kiss him then he never deserved you you were just too good for him.

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football loving girl wrote:
2014-03-20 09:50:39 -0700

make sure you really like him/her before you kiss because when I did with my ex we broke up 'cos he's an idiot and then he told everyone we kissed and I got made fun ofm Frown Nose

arvindraj wrote:
2014-03-20 09:28:05 -0700

i didnt had still Frown

blond456 wrote:
2014-03-20 08:45:19 -0700

I had my first kiss when i was in kindergarden

Kera240 wrote:
2014-03-20 06:51:01 -0700


Bloodybear wrote:
2014-03-20 06:02:41 -0700

my first kiss was kinda special.. she was lil older than me.. and I was passive

warriorandman wrote:
2014-03-20 04:48:50 -0700

I had my first kiss when about 4 by some girl at my church

dixe1 wrote:
2014-03-20 04:46:52 -0700

never had my first kiss

clbo wrote:
2014-03-20 03:34:22 -0700

i had my first kiss with a boy who hates me

rip_my_heart_out wrote:
2014-03-20 02:06:30 -0700

have not had one

snapboogie435 wrote:
2014-03-19 19:52:08 -0700

Its ok if you haven't had your first kiss yet it takes time and maturity if your ready than do it if your not say your not ready and be honest with him

alleyjenny101 wrote:
2014-03-19 18:49:15 -0700

Dont worry i haven't had my first kiss either but its ok do it with someone you love but make sure they love you back smile

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The Right Time for Your First Kiss?

  • When you are in love with someone.
  • When you're 15.
  • Not until you've finished high school.
  • When you're playing truth or dare.

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