Dear Dish-It: Frenemies

Ask It Girl asks: “How do I make up with a friend?” Back to Article

Please login or register to add comments

kk108 wrote:
2011-08-21 14:10:01 -0700

is that when i started being friends wit nancy nd them bri didnt want me to cuz she thought i was takin her away nd then she started being mean to me so now shes apoligizing but shes been so mean to me u dont even know half of the story so the pint is idk wat to do

Miaa2001 wrote:
2011-08-21 14:04:44 -0700

i have a bff

kk108 wrote:
2011-08-21 14:02:30 -0700

well here is my sitiation well theres this gurl named bri nd i have my bff/sista her name is nancy nd like i wasnt there friends before when i wasnt there friends i tryed to help bri into havning a better friednship wit nancy cuz there was this other gurl alexis nd alexis wanted nancy as her bff so like alexis pulled nancy away once in a while nd bri got sad i saw her nd i asked if something was wrong nd like she said tht she was sad becuz of tht so i helped her nd gave her advice so the point

diamond and jr
diamond and jr wrote:
2011-08-19 16:51:50 -0700

i have lots of eneimies

Caitlin Love xD
Caitlin Love xD wrote:
2011-08-19 14:56:09 -0700


ethan_boy wrote:
2011-08-19 10:25:57 -0700

Even if you think you are right and your friend is wrong just walk right up to your friend give here a big hug and tell her your sorry.

TQKDK wrote:
2011-08-19 09:52:39 -0700

haha i dnt no wht to cinsiter my fren she eithr a frend or a enemy

KaciBaby200 wrote:
2011-08-19 09:21:04 -0700

omg that is how me and my other friend is i hate it cuzz he will e lik ugg i hate you so we just get over it and be frienimies

_Arianna_10 wrote:
2011-08-19 05:46:27 -0700

me and mii frend be gettin mad at each other but den in a couple of dayz we bac talkin and and chillen(:

Mizz_Mon3y wrote:
2011-08-18 10:19:16 -0700

i gotz a lotta fenemies

rockyrubyblossom180 wrote:
2011-08-16 16:14:46 -0700

me and my bff fight but after 3 mins. we're over eacothers house LOL so just 4give & 4get &Wink

daniela3447 wrote:
2011-08-16 10:27:21 -0700

girl do sweat it. me and my bffs end upfighting and guess wat we all ways get back 2gether ok btw at lesat every pair of bffs get in2 a fight duh smile Wink

Holley12 wrote:
2011-08-16 07:40:30 -0700

My friends and I usually get in fights, and make up a minute later because we realize we were acting completely ridiculous.

ximscenex wrote:
2011-08-16 05:28:59 -0700

I seemed to have a lot of 'frenemies' at my old school

Mimi-chan wrote:
2011-08-16 01:33:04 -0700

It's great to talk it out and it's always good to have someone older to help you talk it out. Me and my friend had a fight and all we needed was some advice from the teacher and an old personal thing between us and now we are best friends for life. I am very glad that my mother told the teacher after weeks of me telling her not too. So even if you don't want to, talk it out. It's the best thing to do.

eva11f wrote:
2011-08-15 21:44:23 -0700

i like it

XxXxHome_grlXxXx wrote:
2011-08-15 21:35:24 -0700

This is qood advice bt yhu cnt necessarily say tht eventually thinqs will qo bak 2 normal cause it dsnt aways happen lik tht. It jus depends on how one person still feels bou another!

FuledByRain wrote:
2011-08-15 20:50:55 -0700

its ok

CookieDevil wrote:
2011-08-15 11:44:51 -0700

Cool! New Dear-Dish-Its! smile

back to story

How do you know who is online?

  • Have a tab with the friends online and keep refreshing the page
  • Check whos online from the Who is Online Now on the boards
  • Look who is posting on the boards
  • Other

related stories

fallin apart asks: "I've been with my BFF since Pre-K. Now we're going into 5th grade and I'm los...
YoungAuthor asks: "At school, people think I'm weird. Even on Kidzworld, I only have but one frie...
confused asks: "I've liked this boy since the beginning of Grade 7 and I heard he liked me, too. ...

Dear Dish-It in the forums

XxIHateMathxX posted in Friends:
I like Harry Potter too.  :)
reply about 5 hours
young fee
young fee posted in Friends:
I think you can not be sure he likes you. take me as an example theres this girl in my class who i talk to everyday. Now i see her as a sister and i have and will go to lengths just to make sure shes okay and her boyfriend doesnt hurt her. This might be what is happening in your situation so i advice that you wait a bit longer because him loooking at you may mean that he likes you and is waiting for the right time to tell you. Meanwhile you can get closer to him and flirt once in a while to asure that him you also like him (that is if he isnt sure). And dont worry if he doesnt like you back its better to have a friend who cares about you than a boyfriend who doesnt like you that much and is dreaming about someone else.
reply about 5 hours
heyitsangel posted in Style:
reply about 13 hours
What part of it are you scared of? Is it eating in public and around other people, or just eating in general?  What it might be, if it's eating in public you don't like, is social anxiety, or social phobia. You should ask your doctor to check, because if it is, they can offer you ways to help. For instance, they might recommend therapists or group sessions to help ease your fear.  Even if it's just a phobia or, in unlikelier circumstances, an eating disorder, you should still go to your doctor or a therapist so you can try to overcome it. Try doing things that calm you down before these situations as well, like exercise, reading or listening to music (I'm not sure what relaxes you but sometimes these help). Also, you should try to slowly get used to the situations. So don't force yourself to eat straight away when you're out, but slowly start doing so whenever your comfortable with doing so. Unlike your mum wants, you can't just "stop" being scared because that's not how it works.  But right now, please don't force yourself into any of these situations. It's not good for your mental health to be forced to face a phobia of yours often. 
reply about 14 hours
Dear Dish-It, Within the last few years I have felt a bit sick and shaky when we go out to eat. It's not so bad when it's a carvery lunch or something at a pub, but settling down for a chocolate brownie and a milkshake shakes me up. Don't get me wrong, I love going out with Mum, but it's just sitting down and taking a bite. I want to chuck it in the bin. I love eating brownies and stuff at home and I'm pretty healthy. But I refuse to go to the town before lunch in fear. Mum told me I got to stop this or I'm going to develop a terrible phobia.  Please help! ElfyKathy, worried
reply about 14 hours