i have lost my friend too, i rude with ndu.. hemant but now we are best friends again and i never shout on him again, he says if i do this again so i never find him around :sad not now, we are best friends ya
First - have a positive outlook on everything…you can't help feeling awkward or intimidated but it’s very easy to become more confident. You must be self-assured to approach new people/potential friends, they don't always come to you first.
Joining a club is the straightforward solution even if you don't wanna go...you might find that you enjoy it and it’s your best chance. I became more confident by forcing myself to walk past an acquaintance and say “hello” even if they were not in the same group. Once you say “hi”, it’s out. You can’t take it back and it’s easier the next time. If the person seems to look alone I'd sit next to them and force myself to make small talk. You will have to prepare yourself for rejection but not everyone is there to give you a hard time. Other people feel abandoned in the same position. You must feel good about yourself...About the way you talk, about the way you look, dress well, keep your gaze up, don’t let people shake you.
Most importantly...you'll get through it...Even if it is so hard it will be over before you know it. Just a problem of the past. Meanwhile stay strong. You can relish in the quiet. At least you don’t have to worry about anybody else. :o)
Get involved in an activity like dance or sports. That way you will be with people that have the same interest and you will hopefully make friends!
Just don't let it get to you that you don't fit in to this group or that group. You just gotta go out there and get involved with something you are interested in.
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I've completly lost all my friends.
I won't explain why because it's long, unnecesary and painful.
There is no way we will be friends ever again and I don't really want that.
I'm just scared because my school year is over in 4 days, and next year I'm in year 10. All the groups have formed, and I was in the group of 'leftovers'. I have no one to go to, I only had my little group because no one else likes me. I don't know what to do, I'm really shy and very awkward and easily intimidated and so many people judge me on sight. So I can't exactly make friends with the younger or older years, especially since my brother will be arriving next year.
I don't know what to do, I don't even know what advice I'm asking for.
I just don't want to be alone in school- I have out of school friends but now I have no one in school.
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"luvliampayne" wrote:she sounds like she might or might not but she sounds like she is just being your bff. but if she does than either tell her that you are not interested but you can still be friends. Or just ignore it until she gets the idea that your not interested. that is pretty much all I can say hope this helped!this ^^^^
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