Dear Dish-It: My Girlfriend Puts Herself Down

TheBoyfriend asks: “My girlfriend is the most amazing ever: she’s smart, funny and treats people really well. But she always puts herself down and it’s driving us apart; what can I do?” Back to Article

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vampire159 wrote:
2012-04-19 17:24:11 -0700

I'm his gf. What do i say?

BellePrincessxoxoHoran_2101630 wrote:
2012-04-19 09:40:50 -0700

Just make everything to make her feel special & that she is the one and always support her and let her know u will be by her side!

Hershey97 wrote:
2012-04-15 16:26:10 -0700

As a boyfriend, it's ur job to make her feel confident, compliment her everyday to make her feel better

DeDe_ghott_swaqq wrote:
2012-04-14 13:20:36 -0700

i was here

Ali~Love~1234 wrote:
2012-04-14 13:18:10 -0700

My boyfriend says i put myself Down alot!

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xX*3p1c L0v3*Xx wrote:
2012-04-14 06:09:04 -0700

I think I put myself down. I don't think I am pretty. AT ALL!

azzirah wrote:
2012-04-13 22:45:49 -0700

The most best part show the person you cared ,support her and most importantly being honest to each others problem....

Swaggzqirl wrote:
2012-04-13 21:20:07 -0700

ugh i was gone say something else but it went to moderation and its way too long to retype

Swaggzqirl wrote:
2012-04-13 21:18:59 -0700

I'm cute most of the people I meet say I am, but i don't have the biggest butt in the world or the clearest face and I don't act bad and sluttish all day like they do so they call me lame, ugly, flat, etc. but I don't care because people gone talk about you all your life and it aint gone killl me all it gone do is make me stronger so when they grow up they'll understand that people gone talk and just cause you can fight don't mean nothing! you can't fight everyone that talk about you Raspberry

loveandjoy11 wrote:
2012-04-13 21:16:09 -0700

you are not ugly,don't ever say you wish you could die! you can not help the way you look but you are not ugly,

rockernova wrote:
2012-04-13 21:13:46 -0700

im too ugly i hate the way i look i wish i can die!!!!!!!

Zoe1998 wrote:
2012-04-12 17:43:06 -0700

me an my mate both have very low self-esteem as we are both single an i am Emo an she is scene so we don't fit in with any one at our school an boy's just make a full of us so i let they names get the better of me but ma mate try's an ignorer them..

rockernova wrote:
2012-04-12 17:32:25 -0700

im too ugly fat gross

pichachu wrote:
2012-04-12 10:40:54 -0700

hey try giving her flowers and choclates try giving her challenges if she fails just say great

narutogirl3_2070611 wrote:
2012-04-10 07:14:51 -0700

i have that propl some times

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Love Miley Cyrus101 wrote:
2012-04-10 04:31:31 -0700

This is all very true!
I normally get low - self esteem, thinking I am not good enough but I am starting to over come it so hopefully your girlfriend will to x

MZ.PRETTY21 wrote:
2012-04-09 13:27:35 -0700


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cherry is my name wrote:
2012-04-09 13:26:16 -0700

true true

CREEZ_1923282 wrote:
2012-04-09 13:18:23 -0700

That pic up there is actually true.. aint no one perfect

Captin Krista♥
Captin Krista♥ wrote:
2012-04-08 20:38:49 -0700

People shouldn't put theirself's down.
You have to think positive.
Your beautiful on the inside and outside.
If people call you horrible names like "Ugly" or "Fatty" their wrong.Think the positive of the negitive ♥

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