Dear Dish-It: My Girlfriend Puts Herself Down

TheBoyfriend asks: “My girlfriend is the most amazing ever: she’s smart, funny and treats people really well. But she always puts herself down and it’s driving us apart; what can I do?” Back to Article

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CREEZ_1923282 wrote:
2012-04-09 13:18:23 -0700

That pic up there is actually true.. aint no one perfect

Captin Krista♥
Captin Krista♥ wrote:
2012-04-08 20:38:49 -0700

People shouldn't put theirself's down.
You have to think positive.
Your beautiful on the inside and outside.
If people call you horrible names like "Ugly" or "Fatty" their wrong.Think the positive of the negitive ♥

lil shaun1
lil shaun1 wrote:
2012-04-08 20:33:51 -0700

big butts???

emopage wrote:
2012-04-08 20:30:15 -0700

Uqqh IMeant Sme.........Wuht Yeww Tlkinqq Boutt......Aht My Skewl EveryBoy Lyks Biqq Buttsz.....OMFG....!!!Danqq

miss.realchika' wrote:
2012-04-08 20:26:54 -0700

i dc who yu are iff yu downin yo self how you gone make it through ne thing ,ne young lady or entle men who bring they self down shold try alot harder and tlk to someone about it cuase i'll be danged if i dwn my self nor ne one else just sayin.. Love myself

liberty1410 wrote:
2012-04-08 20:24:00 -0700


lil shaun1
lil shaun1 wrote:
2012-04-08 20:22:36 -0700

shxt dnt wrk-__-

Mr.Historian wrote:
2012-04-08 20:22:31 -0700

me, not all men are like that u know

emopage wrote:
2012-04-08 20:20:21 -0700

Uqqh Wuht Knd Of Dudde Dnt Lyk Butts'sz....All Duh Man'sz Doo Ha '

liberty1410 wrote:
2012-04-08 20:17:44 -0700

i agree w/ Emosky490

Mr.Historian wrote:
2012-04-08 20:13:18 -0700

i dont like big butts. i dont care wht size it is bc i dont depend my decision upon how a girl looks but how they are personality wise not physically

2012-04-08 18:47:21 -0700

big buttz rgood

Emosky490 wrote:
2012-04-02 20:45:25 -0700

@Mimi thats stupid men love big butts XD

-Ayooo Dora!-
-Ayooo Dora!- wrote:
2012-04-02 20:42:59 -0700

@Mimi- Thats terrible.! Big butts are good .! lol

mimi386224 wrote:
2012-04-02 20:41:16 -0700

My Gurlfriend Puts Hersel Down. Just Cuz Her Butts Really Big

dj hothead
dj hothead wrote:
2012-03-27 20:38:24 -0700

i love my girlfriend so much but haters just want to stop us why people

elephantsandcandy wrote:
2012-03-26 19:03:04 -0700

I used to put myself down when I was 10! I almost considered suicide. But when My go-to friend (who is a boy) lifted me up, I found my voice. I started building up confidence and I could tell off bullies. Now I have a advice collum in girls only and I'm going to be a journalist. She's not alone

gen.e1234_1748482 wrote:
2012-03-26 07:29:05 -0700

my gf dosent think shes hot but everyone thinks she is. her mom calls her a loser and all kinds of stuff....

HarrypotterluverDemigodluver wrote:
2012-03-23 14:07:04 -0700

i agree with justicegiorl, everyone is pretty in their own way.

LiZzY8 wrote:
2012-03-23 07:45:10 -0700

i am so not pretty...i guess i have a very low self esteem

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