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Dear Dish-It: My Girlfriend Puts Herself Down

TheBoyfriend asks: “My girlfriend is the most amazing ever: she’s smart, funny and treats people really well. But she always puts herself down and it’s driving us apart; what can I do?” Back to Article

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BeckyLooAtHerBut
BeckyLooAtHerBut wrote:
2012-02-19 15:35:00 -0800

Heeeelss No If My WiFE PUTS HR SELF DOWN I WILL TELL HER TO DO BETTER AND PUT HER SELF UPP!

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jellal
jellal wrote:
2012-02-19 05:00:23 -0800

hmm.... sounds like she needs some one to prove to her she is perfect have you ever told her what you think of her in a way she woud understand if i had a gf thats how i would do it but... thats me so

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crazyprincess!
crazyprincess! wrote:
2012-02-18 09:09:02 -0800

soo cute of this guy he cares so much for his girl aww

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lov3isfor3v3r
lov3isfor3v3r wrote:
2012-02-17 10:11:44 -0800

I have to agree cuz i do the same thing and he doesnt like it at all so what can i do to stop sayin stuff that are negative about me?

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babyboii
babyboii wrote:
2012-02-13 18:36:58 -0800

my girlfriend always says im not cute im fat when shes cute fine and all the above i wish she would stop puting herself down

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ms.princeton10
ms.princeton10 wrote:
2012-02-08 14:52:41 -0800

All you have to do is talk to her and her family about therapy and i assure you it will make her more happy each and everyday. It worked for me now i think of my self has a hot,sexy,babe-licious catch. It works

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ms.princeton10
ms.princeton10 wrote:
2012-02-08 14:50:30 -0800

well linanny you are crazy cause you aint no big bad wolf you just a girl so you still need help

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blackrose58
blackrose58 wrote:
2012-02-05 13:16:48 -0800

Well umm no offense but umm she needs to stop with her attitude besides if she ants to be like that then that's fine why r u stressing over it she needs to calm down

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mizzdreamen
mizzdreamen wrote:
2012-02-04 09:29:36 -0800

this is so me i always put my self down Worried

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AngelOfMine14
AngelOfMine14 wrote:
2012-01-30 18:43:24 -0800

Its very sweet how u care about your gf! Not alot of boys are like that smile

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pixie britney
pixie britney wrote:
2012-01-29 20:15:57 -0800

tell her that she is pretty no matter what other people say about her.

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kgargus
kgargus wrote:
2012-01-23 16:50:56 -0800

personally boys think im the hottest they always say that but they say shes the ugliest and she dosnt think shell ever become hot like me what do i do!

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GeekChic
GeekChic wrote:
2012-01-22 22:10:51 -0800

you are so sweet i think that you can talk to her tell her how you feel and tell her how you love her and how you wish she wasent so down on herself

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lil nanny
lil nanny wrote:
2012-01-22 14:10:15 -0800

not me i do things on my own that is y u dont ask for help

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MGJ4444
MGJ4444 wrote:
2012-01-22 12:11:17 -0800

me 2!

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jojodivaxxswagxx
jojodivaxxswagxx wrote:
2012-01-22 11:38:34 -0800

i have that issue to

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mrs.Galvan
mrs.Galvan wrote:
2012-01-22 09:58:20 -0800

tbh: i do that cuz my mom got me doing that...she pushes me way 2 hard... it stinks

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ace217
ace217 wrote:
2012-01-21 22:38:46 -0800

hate that

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shamar21
shamar21 wrote:
2012-01-21 22:38:09 -0800

maan i hate when my gurl does tha

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TiannaG0dsAng3l
TiannaG0dsAng3l wrote:
2012-01-21 21:39:51 -0800

I Dont Think Im All That Like All Dese Girlsxz Now Nd Days Im Not A Fast Lil Girl Either....

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SelenaGomezFanGirl
...im not too sure what the brown stuff is,but since you said you have not done it,you should trust yourself.And talk about it to your mom!I'm sure she will give you the best of advices and stuff because she would have probably experienced it before.So,don't be afraid,and approach her when she's vacant!Good Luck!
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SelenaGomezFanGirl
no you shouldn't!I bet, the friends that are pressuring you are girls only because they are jealous of your girl,because of her personality and style,and probably, most likely that they wanna be your girlfriend as well! ~~comment me back if you like!:)                                                          
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OptimisticJollygirl
You are perfect the way you are.
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InternetOwl
InternetOwl posted in Friends:
I'm not sure whether you have actual depression or not (Ask your doctor if you feel you do, they'll be able to help. ^^), but I'm really sorry you feel depressed. I've been there too, and it really does feel like no one cares.   I know you said it's awkward, but try talking to your dad about it. You said he's the only one who seems to listen, so I'm sure he will listen and try to understand. If you start feeling really depressed every day, try doing things to make you feel happier. I don't know what you like to do, but you should do things like relaxing, reading, talking to people and spending more time outside. Smiling more often can help relieve stress and make you happier as well. c: Try meeting new people too. It seems as though your current friends are bringing you down, so you can try to talk to them if you like or find more friends who'll listen and care about you (however, try to keep your old friends as well. They are your friends after all, and it's hard being lonely). You've got friends on here too. But please don't think about doing anything harmful to yourself. You might not be thinking like that now, but being depressed can lead people to this and it's really not the answer.  Good luck! ^u^  
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FloraTheWolf
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And you can add me as a friend if you want :D
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