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Dear Dish-It: My Girlfriend Puts Herself Down

TheBoyfriend asks: “My girlfriend is the most amazing ever: she’s smart, funny and treats people really well. But she always puts herself down and it’s driving us apart; what can I do?” Back to Article

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CantBeGood
CantBeGood wrote:
2012-02-19 15:46:19 -0800

My Girl Never Puts Her Self Down If She Does I Tell Her Your Perfect No Matter What, And I Love Her Just The Way She Is

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princessfunny
princessfunny wrote:
2012-02-19 15:36:46 -0800

If a girl does that its gonna lead to mental health issue.

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BeckyLooAtHerBut
BeckyLooAtHerBut wrote:
2012-02-19 15:35:00 -0800

Heeeelss No If My WiFE PUTS HR SELF DOWN I WILL TELL HER TO DO BETTER AND PUT HER SELF UPP!

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jellal
jellal wrote:
2012-02-19 05:00:23 -0800

hmm.... sounds like she needs some one to prove to her she is perfect have you ever told her what you think of her in a way she woud understand if i had a gf thats how i would do it but... thats me so

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crazyprincess!
crazyprincess! wrote:
2012-02-18 09:09:02 -0800

soo cute of this guy he cares so much for his girl aww

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lov3isfor3v3r
lov3isfor3v3r wrote:
2012-02-17 10:11:44 -0800

I have to agree cuz i do the same thing and he doesnt like it at all so what can i do to stop sayin stuff that are negative about me?

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babyboii
babyboii wrote:
2012-02-13 18:36:58 -0800

my girlfriend always says im not cute im fat when shes cute fine and all the above i wish she would stop puting herself down

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ms.princeton10
ms.princeton10 wrote:
2012-02-08 14:52:41 -0800

All you have to do is talk to her and her family about therapy and i assure you it will make her more happy each and everyday. It worked for me now i think of my self has a hot,sexy,babe-licious catch. It works

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ms.princeton10
ms.princeton10 wrote:
2012-02-08 14:50:30 -0800

well linanny you are crazy cause you aint no big bad wolf you just a girl so you still need help

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blackrose58
blackrose58 wrote:
2012-02-05 13:16:48 -0800

Well umm no offense but umm she needs to stop with her attitude besides if she ants to be like that then that's fine why r u stressing over it she needs to calm down

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mizzdreamen
mizzdreamen wrote:
2012-02-04 09:29:36 -0800

this is so me i always put my self down Worried

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AngelOfMine14
AngelOfMine14 wrote:
2012-01-30 18:43:24 -0800

Its very sweet how u care about your gf! Not alot of boys are like that smile

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pixie britney
pixie britney wrote:
2012-01-29 20:15:57 -0800

tell her that she is pretty no matter what other people say about her.

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kgargus
kgargus wrote:
2012-01-23 16:50:56 -0800

personally boys think im the hottest they always say that but they say shes the ugliest and she dosnt think shell ever become hot like me what do i do!

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GeekChic
GeekChic wrote:
2012-01-22 22:10:51 -0800

you are so sweet i think that you can talk to her tell her how you feel and tell her how you love her and how you wish she wasent so down on herself

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lil nanny
lil nanny wrote:
2012-01-22 14:10:15 -0800

not me i do things on my own that is y u dont ask for help

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MGJ4444
MGJ4444 wrote:
2012-01-22 12:11:17 -0800

me 2!

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jojodivaxxswagxx
jojodivaxxswagxx wrote:
2012-01-22 11:38:34 -0800

i have that issue to

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mrs.Galvan
mrs.Galvan wrote:
2012-01-22 09:58:20 -0800

tbh: i do that cuz my mom got me doing that...she pushes me way 2 hard... it stinks

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ace217
ace217 wrote:
2012-01-21 22:38:46 -0800

hate that

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"ThunderSpirit" wrote:Wow. We have more in common than I thought.I had the same problem [except she was a little less mean] and this is the advice I was given. Don't exactly go up to her and say, "I don't wanna be friends," because although she is mean, she still might be hurt. Just don't really make it official, but slowly drift apart from her. Try to meet new people, maybe there's someone great you just haven't met yet. And maybe she's having problems of her own, not like that's an excuse. But in the end, if she does apologize to you, she might be a friend worth keeping, but those insults were pretty serious, not something best friends would do, and you probably wouldn't forgive her. I get that. Thanks for the good advice! I don`t see her often so drifting away is the smartest idea. Although I see her at family parties and stuff cause she is a family friend. I`ll try and drift away from her. If she gets better at being kind I`ll be her friend again most likely. Thanks! 
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Wow. We have more in common than I thought. I had the same problem [except she was a little less mean] and this is the advice I was given. Don't exactly go up to her and say, "I don't wanna be friends," because although she is mean, she still might be hurt. Just don't really make it official, but slowly drift apart from her. Try to meet new people, maybe there's someone great you just haven't met yet. And maybe she's having problems of her own, not like that's an excuse. But in the end, if she does apologize to you, she might be a friend worth keeping, but those insults were pretty serious, not something best friends would do, and you probably wouldn't forgive her. I get that.
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