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Dear Dish-It: I Like My BFF’s Crush

jojo asks: “My BFF has a huge crush on this cool and cute guy, but I think he likes me. I’m starting to crush on him, too, but I’m scared it will ruin my friendship with my BFF. I feel so guilty … what should I do? I need them both!” Back to Article

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NeverShoutDakota_2053324
NeverShoutDakota_2053324 wrote:
2012-03-07 18:05:02 -0800

If Sarah or Cielo started dating Izaih than i would say ok it's not worth it hes just a stupid boy i can always find another.

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ilovewolf
ilovewolf wrote:
2012-03-07 18:01:38 -0800

Never in a billion trillion years

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cutiequeen13
cutiequeen13 wrote:
2012-03-07 17:38:18 -0800

I WUD NEVER DO THT TEWW MII FRENDZZZ

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iSwaggatastic Abe.
iSwaggatastic Abe. wrote:
2012-03-07 17:36:47 -0800

I WOULDNT DARE DO DAT TO MY HOMEBOY

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n#1
n#1 wrote:
2012-03-07 17:32:41 -0800

i wouldnt do that to my best friend

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coolwhiskers15
coolwhiskers15 wrote:
2012-03-07 05:29:53 -0800

i sorta like my bff's crush but he teases me wid another guy who's sorta sweet too. i really dunno wat im supposed to do. i like both of them but i really think dat my bff's crush likes me cus he acts cool around me than wid my bff. the other guy has a crush on another gal in our class. i seriously dunno wat to do! pls help me guys. der r like sum 3-4 ppl in our class who like me. i am so confused! pls help me!!

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Lovely lil' Angel_2046329
Lovely lil' Angel_2046329 wrote:
2012-03-07 02:25:42 -0800

Sometimes it is better to follow your head, not your heart.
The heart is a strange thing when it comes to feelings, And
your head is a more reliable source when it comes to
thinking clearly.

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samantha01
samantha01 wrote:
2012-03-06 17:19:17 -0800

The same thing happened with my BFF and I but I just moved on and i'm with the best boyfriend anyone can ever have! So i would say just move on to someone else you will never regret it.

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millyelf
millyelf wrote:
2012-03-04 16:45:36 -0800

move on to someone else dont break your friendship and a persons heart

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Reese143
Reese143 wrote:
2012-03-04 16:01:19 -0800

I fell the same way with my BFF's boyfriend shunton

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fern048
fern048 wrote:
2012-03-03 10:08:08 -0800

ummm ask your bff's bf ok

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Lexii_Luvs_You(:_1851832
Lexii_Luvs_You(:_1851832 wrote:
2012-03-02 21:43:34 -0800

Yes!!(: I Know

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edith_is_crazy
edith_is_crazy wrote:
2012-03-02 21:41:02 -0800

yah i guess it would be like not nice because their suposed to be you bff not steal your bf you know?

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Lexii_Luvs_You(:_1851832
Lexii_Luvs_You(:_1851832 wrote:
2012-03-02 21:38:57 -0800

But Still!!

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edith_is_crazy
edith_is_crazy wrote:
2012-03-02 21:37:47 -0800

well love is love you cant do anything about it

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Lexii_Luvs_You(:_1851832
Lexii_Luvs_You(:_1851832 wrote:
2012-03-02 21:35:16 -0800

I Would Hate That If My Best Friend Likeed My Boyfriend!!):

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edith_is_crazy
edith_is_crazy wrote:
2012-03-02 08:44:29 -0800

idk?

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prodigy19
prodigy19 wrote:
2012-03-01 16:31:54 -0800

Tell your friend the truth

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Kjrora
Kjrora wrote:
2012-02-28 23:40:58 -0800

True friends share each others good sides and dark sides, tell your bff that you like her/his crush but also tell her that you really need them and you don't want to upset them at all.

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rocky3959
rocky3959 wrote:
2012-02-28 17:11:58 -0800

i have that same problem there is this HOT guy in my school, but he doesn't like me but he knows that i like him. so every time i talk to him he has this weird face on like he is scared of me

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samkitty214
samkitty214 posted in Friends:
i think the best way to settle that is to sit them down and talk to them and if girl2 wont stop asking ask her as calmly as you can to be quiet and listen to what you have to say. and explain to them how much you just want them to get along. second way to settle this is to put them in the same room together until they do get along.
reply 16 minutes
avatar-me
avatar-me posted in Friends:
Thanks guys. Thoses tips helped. They are getting almond better now.
reply 39 minutes
kaykay2002
kaykay2002 posted in Friends:
"Wooper1255" wrote:No. Just no. Mr. Face does not approve this. ._.Okay, okay, let's get serious.Your best friend BULLYING you? And loves it when you get mad? What the heck? SHE'S NOT EVEN YOUR FRIEND!You should have a talk with your best friend. No seriously, she doesn't have any friends cause she's a bully and no one likes to be friends with a bully...You should tell your best friend that she NEEDS to change her attitude! She needs to be more nicer to others also.Also, a best friend is: Caring, Kind, Loyal, Nice, Thoughtful, and will stand up for you against bullies, will be there if you're upset, maybe they'll even CRY with you!A best friend is totally NOT: Someone who bullies you, Someone who likes it when your madYou should ask her any of the following questions:Are you Okay?Why are you bullying me? You're my friend.Is something wrong like family issues?Questions like that are good because there may be a reason for bullying. She could be suffering from depression, or is confused or lonely. Just talk to her. Have a discussion with her. Also, you should talk to other people. Ask them why they aren't friends with your best friend. Then maybe, after they tell you what they don't like about her, you can go back to your best friend and tell her the things she needs to improve on. Also, if necessary, tell an adult like your mom, a teacher, consular, or her mom.Whatever you think will solve this conflict between you and your best friend well... just go for it. But think about the outcome too.Hope I helped, I might add some tips and suggestions to you. :3  your right and the only reason I have put up with her this long is because her dad died but I cant stand her anymore so but seriously I feel like there is another reason bcuz she has had people confront her saying "u know what I have put up wit this for a while and I have told u to stop and u don't listen and I know your dad died but that doesn't mean u can treat people like that "  but she still does it and for the past 3 yrs. I have put up with it but not anymore I will talk to her about it. Thanks.
reply about 15 hours
Wooper1255
Wooper1255 posted in Friends:
You NEED to tell your parents or HER parents about her attitude, this is abuse from your OWN best friend! Tell an adult, don't be afraid, it's not even SILLY to tell an adult, this is serious, she is HURTING you! Tell someone before things get out of hand and she REALLY hurts you! D=
reply about 16 hours
Wooper1255
Wooper1255 posted in Friends:
No. Just no. Mr. Face does not approve this. ._. Okay, okay, let's get serious. Your best friend BULLYING you? And loves it when you get mad? What the heck? SHE'S NOT EVEN YOUR FRIEND! You should have a talk with your best friend. No seriously, she doesn't have any friends cause she's a bully and no one likes to be friends with a bully... You should tell your best friend that she NEEDS to change her attitude! She needs to be more nicer to others also. Also, a best friend is: Caring, Kind, Loyal, Nice, Thoughtful, and will stand up for you against bullies, will be there if you're upset, maybe they'll even CRY with you! A best friend is totally NOT: Someone who bullies you, Someone who likes it when your mad You should ask her any of the following questions: Are you Okay? Why are you bullying me? You're my friend. Is something wrong like family issues? Questions like that are good because there may be a reason for bullying. She could be suffering from depression, or is confused or lonely. Just talk to her. Have a discussion with her. Also, you should talk to other people. Ask them why they aren't friends with your best friend. Then maybe, after they tell you what they don't like about her, you can go back to your best friend and tell her the things she needs to improve on. Also, if necessary, tell an adult like your mom, a teacher, consular, or her mom. Whatever you think will solve this conflict between you and your best friend well... just go for it. But think about the outcome too. Hope I helped, I might add some tips and suggestions to you. :3
reply about 16 hours