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Dear Dish-It: I Like My BFF’s Crush

jojo asks: “My BFF has a huge crush on this cool and cute guy, but I think he likes me. I’m starting to crush on him, too, but I’m scared it will ruin my friendship with my BFF. I feel so guilty … what should I do? I need them both!” Back to Article

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liltwirler2009
liltwirler2009 wrote:
2012-02-19 17:30:11 -0800

What I do is i just stay calm and don't bother the relation ship

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jasmine121
jasmine121 wrote:
2012-02-19 15:06:46 -0800

i like my bff's crush but i started liking him first

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worldqweencc
worldqweencc wrote:
2012-02-19 11:04:23 -0800

um ya well im done with boys one allmost killed me once

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Cassie Has Swag, Brah.(:
Cassie Has Swag, Brah.(: wrote:
2012-02-19 08:24:39 -0800

A best friend comes way before a guy. And if your really like him be the bigger person let your friend have him, there's other fish in the sea. Try other guys, I bet they will be better then that guy.

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Kayla31
Kayla31 wrote:
2012-02-18 20:30:38 -0800

OMG! i have the same problem only my friend likes these 2 guys named rich and lucas (rich and lucas are best friends) but i have a huge crush on both of them especialy Rich Frustrated

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fawnetta
fawnetta wrote:
2012-02-18 20:24:40 -0800

me too i have the ame problem

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Hannah The Awesome
Hannah The Awesome wrote:
2012-02-18 11:06:00 -0800

Same here.

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Alyssa.Awesomness.weird
Alyssa.Awesomness.weird wrote:
2012-02-17 20:10:43 -0800

i have the samme thing happening

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pookiemjb
pookiemjb wrote:
2012-02-17 18:17:09 -0800

Sista's before Mista's!

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Tay luvs ya!
Tay luvs ya! wrote:
2012-02-17 15:06:43 -0800

friends ALWAYS before guys smile)) learned from history...but we're friends againa nd the boy is LOOONG GONE!

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SHAYLA LOVE
SHAYLA LOVE wrote:
2012-02-17 13:36:38 -0800

WELL IFF DTZ YA BESTFRNDND U LOVE HERR DNT DO ITT CSS YA FRND AWLWYZ CUM FIRST BE 4 A BOI

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Intentalo.R.A_1963196
Intentalo.R.A_1963196 wrote:
2012-02-14 16:41:40 -0800

best thin 4 yu do do is jus be yur friends friend nd leave her/ his bf/gf alone cuz i would be piss if my friend b tlkin to my girl nd yea dnt tlk to they love

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toxic girl
toxic girl wrote:
2012-02-14 10:04:17 -0800

Well i had the same situation smile josh Love he was the cutest guy in the school i loved him soooooooooo much i could kill my self for him..

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Tyga4000
Tyga4000 wrote:
2012-02-14 09:41:04 -0800

Well i hav a crush on this girl whoes the same age as me called softballbaby54 Dazed

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membershipgirl
membershipgirl wrote:
2012-02-14 09:22:24 -0800

Well I mostly have celebrity crushes or crushes who I keep to myself as a secret.

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EmilyUser
EmilyUser wrote:
2012-02-14 08:09:33 -0800

-Kat-: How do you know? :o

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no frends aany where
no frends aany where wrote:
2012-02-14 07:48:20 -0800

omg i dk what u must do

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-Kat-
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-Kat- wrote:
2012-02-14 07:23:17 -0800

I think I know who posted this, and I think you should stick with the one who will stick with you no matter what.

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Do Your Crushes Always Crush Back?

  • Yeah, my crushes always crush back.
  • Most of my crushes have felt the same way about me.
  • No - my crushes hardly ever feel the same way about me.
  • I've never really crushed on anyone.

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I think you can not be sure he likes you. take me as an example theres this girl in my class who i talk to everyday. Now i see her as a sister and i have and will go to lengths just to make sure shes okay and her boyfriend doesnt hurt her. This might be what is happening in your situation so i advice that you wait a bit longer because him loooking at you may mean that he likes you and is waiting for the right time to tell you. Meanwhile you can get closer to him and flirt once in a while to asure that him you also like him (that is if he isnt sure). And dont worry if he doesnt like you back its better to have a friend who cares about you than a boyfriend who doesnt like you that much and is dreaming about someone else.
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InternetOwl
What part of it are you scared of? Is it eating in public and around other people, or just eating in general?  What it might be, if it's eating in public you don't like, is social anxiety, or social phobia. You should ask your doctor to check, because if it is, they can offer you ways to help. For instance, they might recommend therapists or group sessions to help ease your fear.  Even if it's just a phobia or, in unlikelier circumstances, an eating disorder, you should still go to your doctor or a therapist so you can try to overcome it. Try doing things that calm you down before these situations as well, like exercise, reading or listening to music (I'm not sure what relaxes you but sometimes these help). Also, you should try to slowly get used to the situations. So don't force yourself to eat straight away when you're out, but slowly start doing so whenever your comfortable with doing so. Unlike your mum wants, you can't just "stop" being scared because that's not how it works.  But right now, please don't force yourself into any of these situations. It's not good for your mental health to be forced to face a phobia of yours often. 
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ElfyKathy
Dear Dish-It, Within the last few years I have felt a bit sick and shaky when we go out to eat. It's not so bad when it's a carvery lunch or something at a pub, but settling down for a chocolate brownie and a milkshake shakes me up. Don't get me wrong, I love going out with Mum, but it's just sitting down and taking a bite. I want to chuck it in the bin. I love eating brownies and stuff at home and I'm pretty healthy. But I refuse to go to the town before lunch in fear. Mum told me I got to stop this or I'm going to develop a terrible phobia.  Please help! ElfyKathy, worried
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