Dear Dish-It: Why Did He Dump Me?

L8 asks: “My BF recently dumped me for no reason, but we still see each other every day at school. When I asked if we could still be friends, he refused. What did I do wrong?” Back to Article

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purplezebra1235 wrote:
2012-04-23 04:07:16 -0700


Txtgrl wrote:
2012-04-22 16:37:15 -0700

smile lol

1prettyandmindless_2035459 wrote:
2012-04-22 16:36:30 -0700


1prettyandmindless_2035459 wrote:
2012-04-22 16:35:55 -0700

i got dumped yesterday but now i hav someone thats treat me an queen

Txtgrl wrote:
2012-04-22 16:32:52 -0700

But u know, im pretty sure a guy will dump me bcuz guys are just like that. I dont really know why but they just like dumping girls for no reason. And if he doesnt give a reason then that means he just dumped u for NO reason. Or his parents dont want him around you. Those are some 2 really good guesses.

Txtgrl wrote:
2012-04-22 16:29:49 -0700

I have never had a bf in my life. Im waiting for the right guy to come around. And when he does hopefully he wont dumb me at all. And if he does then my dad would have a serious chat with him bcuz my Dad is really protective over me. But even if we HAVE to break up bcuz long relationships dont last, then THAT wont disappoint me bcuz i would have known why.

Emma Girl
Emma Girl wrote:
2012-04-22 16:05:22 -0700

i literally ALWAYS do the dumping lol

143DracoMalfoy wrote:
2012-04-22 15:59:40 -0700

this is really good advice
ill def look back to this if i ever get dumped

BabyKayla11 wrote:
2012-04-22 15:59:28 -0700

She is actually 13

elephantsandcandy wrote:
2012-04-22 15:57:32 -0700

i luv xavier: Ur only 10 you act way older than you really are.

JFizzy wrote:
2012-04-22 15:56:55 -0700

i got dumped a couple weeks ago cause this girl told my ex if he didnt dump me then she would kick my @$$ Frown i miss him alot

angelkittykat11 wrote:
2012-04-22 15:55:29 -0700

Maybe the guy dumped you cuz your not pretty Anuff? Boys do Dat Sometimes. >->

i luv xavier
i luv xavier wrote:
2012-04-22 15:53:23 -0700

i got dumped Yesterday Big Frown im sad about it Big Frown

ParadiseHeart wrote:
2012-04-22 15:51:01 -0700

What a jerk he must of been :o
Don't worry, you're still young and it's not the end of the world, just move on girl! Big Grin
Don't put yourself down becuase of that guy!

isposeimawesome wrote:
2012-04-22 15:45:45 -0700

He dumped you cause he doesn't think you're void enough. I'm sure you're not bad and that you're good enough for a lot of other people. Don't bash yourself about it

i luv xavier
i luv xavier wrote:
2012-04-22 15:43:42 -0700

this article is meant 4 me ! happens alot 2 me Big Frown

CookieDough720 wrote:
2012-04-21 06:20:11 -0700

Sucks he broke up with you Frown He must be a jerk

Scilyr_Babez wrote:
2012-04-20 12:23:53 -0700

Princeton12345: even if his parents found out he wouldnt dump her

Hershey97 wrote:
2012-04-19 09:37:14 -0700

So true smile

Hershey97 wrote:
2012-04-19 09:36:26 -0700

umm... this girl just went through a breakup, so this isn't funny, this is serious, go somewhere else if u wanna "luaoo"

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