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Dear Dish-It: Making the First Move

Cookie asks: “How do I make the first move when it comes to chatting with my crush? I’m craving conversation with him, but I'm too shy!” Back to Article

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ThisChickRocks
ThisChickRocks wrote:
2014-03-06 15:54:05 -0800

Aww... That's cute

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JesseWesse
JesseWesse wrote:
2014-03-06 15:52:39 -0800

i always get nervous when i talk to girls i cant do it its makes me embarresed when im hyper yea its crazy but i cant do it il be shy

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Jennifer24
Jennifer24 wrote:
2014-01-24 18:29:50 -0800

Sacary

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kilean
kilean wrote:
2014-01-05 11:02:36 -0800

Im scaerd to ask this boy called kilean im so in love with him

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Dean_my_love3
Dean_my_love3 wrote:
2013-12-10 08:58:39 -0800

I always do

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JennyD
JennyD wrote:
2013-09-10 18:47:51 -0700

Great advice xD

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singingstar25
singingstar25 wrote:
2013-09-10 17:05:22 -0700

I wish I could talk to my crush.. I can't even say Hi without blushing. :c

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MiniMunch88
MiniMunch88 wrote:
2013-09-10 16:15:11 -0700

I always talk to my crush...

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Tamia2013
Tamia2013 wrote:
2013-08-27 15:56:09 -0700

I wanna try and start a conversation with my crush but I get shy too

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XX_PrettyGurlSwag_XX
XX_PrettyGurlSwag_XX wrote:
2013-07-25 20:19:56 -0700

im always nervous and shy around my crushes

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Liyah_Mahone
Liyah_Mahone wrote:
2013-07-22 14:29:06 -0700

I'm way too shy it takes me some time too get comfortable with that dude before i can actually make the first move

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cuttie1123
cuttie1123 wrote:
2013-07-14 13:32:22 -0700

i think u can go up to them but dont be nervouse

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wreastlingfan619
wreastlingfan619 wrote:
2013-03-19 13:20:01 -0700

why a lot of Article's are about dating?

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racecar44
racecar44 wrote:
2013-03-19 13:18:23 -0700

u should make the first move always

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wreastlingfan619
wreastlingfan619 wrote:
2013-03-19 13:17:13 -0700

XD

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-CamrynT-
-CamrynT- wrote:
2013-03-19 13:16:39 -0700

Ya I'm shy around my crush sometimes...

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me4evakisses
me4evakisses wrote:
2013-03-10 16:10:34 -0700

very good 4u

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me4evakisses
me4evakisses wrote:
2013-03-10 16:09:31 -0700

when I read it I said okay i'll do that i am like no i cannot do it when he found out i like him he stared for a couple seconds then kinda turned away

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cheetagurl101
cheetagurl101 wrote:
2013-01-30 16:00:11 -0800

just be your self walk up to him smile and chat about stuff he likes

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amnesiagirl
amnesiagirl wrote:
2013-01-03 13:45:12 -0800

i agree with dish-it too and well im shy and i decided to ask him out and he said yes

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  • I blush big-time!
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kaykay2002
kaykay2002 posted in Friends:
"Wooper1255" wrote:No. Just no. Mr. Face does not approve this. ._.Okay, okay, let's get serious.Your best friend BULLYING you? And loves it when you get mad? What the heck? SHE'S NOT EVEN YOUR FRIEND!You should have a talk with your best friend. No seriously, she doesn't have any friends cause she's a bully and no one likes to be friends with a bully...You should tell your best friend that she NEEDS to change her attitude! She needs to be more nicer to others also.Also, a best friend is: Caring, Kind, Loyal, Nice, Thoughtful, and will stand up for you against bullies, will be there if you're upset, maybe they'll even CRY with you!A best friend is totally NOT: Someone who bullies you, Someone who likes it when your madYou should ask her any of the following questions:Are you Okay?Why are you bullying me? You're my friend.Is something wrong like family issues?Questions like that are good because there may be a reason for bullying. She could be suffering from depression, or is confused or lonely. Just talk to her. Have a discussion with her. Also, you should talk to other people. Ask them why they aren't friends with your best friend. Then maybe, after they tell you what they don't like about her, you can go back to your best friend and tell her the things she needs to improve on. Also, if necessary, tell an adult like your mom, a teacher, consular, or her mom.Whatever you think will solve this conflict between you and your best friend well... just go for it. But think about the outcome too.Hope I helped, I might add some tips and suggestions to you. :3  your right and the only reason I have put up with her this long is because her dad died but I cant stand her anymore so but seriously I feel like there is another reason bcuz she has had people confront her saying "u know what I have put up wit this for a while and I have told u to stop and u don't listen and I know your dad died but that doesn't mean u can treat people like that "  but she still does it and for the past 3 yrs. I have put up with it but not anymore I will talk to her about it. Thanks.
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Wooper1255
Wooper1255 posted in Friends:
You NEED to tell your parents or HER parents about her attitude, this is abuse from your OWN best friend! Tell an adult, don't be afraid, it's not even SILLY to tell an adult, this is serious, she is HURTING you! Tell someone before things get out of hand and she REALLY hurts you! D=
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Wooper1255
Wooper1255 posted in Friends:
No. Just no. Mr. Face does not approve this. ._. Okay, okay, let's get serious. Your best friend BULLYING you? And loves it when you get mad? What the heck? SHE'S NOT EVEN YOUR FRIEND! You should have a talk with your best friend. No seriously, she doesn't have any friends cause she's a bully and no one likes to be friends with a bully... You should tell your best friend that she NEEDS to change her attitude! She needs to be more nicer to others also. Also, a best friend is: Caring, Kind, Loyal, Nice, Thoughtful, and will stand up for you against bullies, will be there if you're upset, maybe they'll even CRY with you! A best friend is totally NOT: Someone who bullies you, Someone who likes it when your mad You should ask her any of the following questions: Are you Okay? Why are you bullying me? You're my friend. Is something wrong like family issues? Questions like that are good because there may be a reason for bullying. She could be suffering from depression, or is confused or lonely. Just talk to her. Have a discussion with her. Also, you should talk to other people. Ask them why they aren't friends with your best friend. Then maybe, after they tell you what they don't like about her, you can go back to your best friend and tell her the things she needs to improve on. Also, if necessary, tell an adult like your mom, a teacher, consular, or her mom. Whatever you think will solve this conflict between you and your best friend well... just go for it. But think about the outcome too. Hope I helped, I might add some tips and suggestions to you. :3
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Boysrock50
Boysrock50 posted in Friends:
Yeah I had a friend in the same situation as you, he was too scared to say anything so we spoke for him. Now the 'friend' has changed and hes our mate. Just tell her straight and firmly, its the only way
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kaykay2002
kaykay2002 posted in Friends:
"Boysrock50" wrote:She is obviously NOT your best friend.I wouldn't even call her a friendShe is a bully who thinks she can have her own wayShe thinks she can control you like you're her follower because she the truth is she needs youBe smart and leave her because she's only going to keep you down and then one day she will find  friends just like her and she will just ignore you forever, thinking shes too cool for you.I would either:Tell her straight that she needs to make her own friends because you don't want to be friends anymoreor:Tell her that you don't like what she does and either she changes her ways and acts more like a friend, or you cant be friends anymore.I'm not trying to be harsh, I'm being wise and you should be wise too. Thanks I actually might try that but she is really stubborn and will not take no for an answer I have tried just ignoring her but he will kick, hit, or punch me to get attention. my parents also don't like her bcuz she is bossy. I also have to go to summer camp with her for the next 2 weeks and w have to be buddies for it so i think i might die
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