Dear Dish-It: Making the First Move

Cookie asks: “How do I make the first move when it comes to chatting with my crush? I’m craving conversation with him, but I'm too shy!” Back to Article

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aly122 wrote:
2012-12-23 09:00:29 -0800

Im torn between 2 guys and i dont know what to do...plz help me

cheekylouis wrote:
2012-10-27 14:09:07 -0700

i have a crush on sombody whatshould i do

Alsia wrote:
2012-08-21 20:09:49 -0700

i agree with dish-it.

Purplex wrote:
2012-07-30 07:30:29 -0700

i agree to lovetodance101. i think boys should make the first move

emma2468 wrote:
2012-07-25 02:17:56 -0700

shyness is never the answer say you have a crush and if u dont tell him that then how will he know to make the first move he is the one thats scared to mess it up so just try even if he says no dont let it bring u down

aintnowayaroundit wrote:
2012-07-24 12:14:03 -0700

i think da boii should mke da 1st move

lovetodance101 wrote:
2012-07-21 23:50:34 -0700

I think boyys should makee the first movee

Beerocker1030 wrote:
2012-06-28 17:59:07 -0700

~ i think that if a girl wanna ask a guy out they can it dosent matter bout tradition of guys askin girls out whoever wants to ask someone out should be able to ~

YaBoiiTy_2177721 wrote:
2012-06-28 17:55:31 -0700

@-MarieeBeautyful- Thank You Some1 Agree

princesszb1999 wrote:
2012-06-28 17:53:18 -0700

-girlz should neva mak dah first mov dat som dumb stuff

-MarieeBeautyful- wrote:
2012-06-28 15:50:40 -0700

- Dhaat Shidd Ainnt Gudd '

-MarieeBeautyful- wrote:
2012-06-28 15:50:10 -0700

- Donnt Evaa Evaa Neverr Makee Thaa Firsst Moeee Girlss '

iiTouchable x3
iiTouchable x3 wrote:
2012-06-28 15:47:14 -0700

Hmmm -_-

siittles_chick wrote:
2012-06-28 15:47:03 -0700

id tha chick desperte she gonna make tha first move

iiTouchable x3
iiTouchable x3 wrote:
2012-06-28 15:45:40 -0700

@YaBoiiTy Som times a gurh do make a first mov if da guy is Hmmm -_- yhu knoe

poodie_bear15_2093457 wrote:
2012-06-28 15:45:33 -0700

dhats ryte i juss flirt alot nd make them make the first move LMAO!

YaBoiiTy_2177721 wrote:
2012-06-28 15:42:21 -0700

Girls Don't Make Tha 1st Move If He Want You He
Gone Come !!

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barbie gurl 14 wrote:
2012-06-28 15:40:23 -0700

how do imake the first move

pretty_in_pink11 wrote:
2012-06-25 20:29:59 -0700

okay just get a friend and tell her to talk to him about who he likes and what he likes and just hang around but act cool!!!!

Zey wrote:
2012-06-14 12:47:17 -0700

I dint finish so to be continued: My crush is the cutest boy in the entire grade. Weve talked a little because my friends are good friends with him so does anyone have advice?

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BadwolfDW posted in Friends:
So i  agree with miley15 i think you guys should all meet up and tell them they can't leave or interrupt each other untill the issue is resolved let girl 2 know that the more she askes the less girl 1 will want to be her friend , also tell girl 1 that she shouldn't just run away.  Girl 1 is trying to be friends with girl2 but  i mean they dont need to bff's but they should not make a big deal of each other. 
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ahaaaa...that's sorta confusing and annoying at the same time...but don't u think if they were really your friends they would listen to u? if they are really interested in being friend with u so tell em that u cannot stand this situation anymore and ask them politely but firmly to try to understand each other...or ur friendship will be ruined...i'm sure talking always solves any problems...
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Ok here's what's going on. Girl1 (my best friend) can't stand girl2 (my other friend). And girl2 wants to be friends with girl1 but girl1 doesn't want to be friends with girl2. And girl2 keeps messaging girl1 and girl1 keeps telling her she doesn't want to be her friend. got you confused yet?  So this is what is making me write this. My best friend said that if I keep hanging around my other friend she will try to be nice. But every time those two are in the same place girl2 asks girl1 why they can't be friends and that just sets girl1 off. And then I have to stop it. I love how my best friend is willing to hang around my other friend for me but I hate how my other friend won't stop bringing up why the two of them can't be friends. No matter how much girl1 and I tell her that girl1 doesn't want to be her friend she keeps asking. I like hanging out with both of them but not at the same time and when I hang out with one and not the other they ask why and I spending more time with the other one then with them. I can't take it anymore!!!  Please help me me before I loose it,              avatar-me
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