Dear Dish-It: Making the First Move

Cookie asks: “How do I make the first move when it comes to chatting with my crush? I’m craving conversation with him, but I'm too shy!” Back to Article

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aly122 wrote:
2012-12-23 09:00:29 -0800

Im torn between 2 guys and i dont know what to do...plz help me

cheekylouis wrote:
2012-10-27 14:09:07 -0700

i have a crush on sombody whatshould i do

Alsia wrote:
2012-08-21 20:09:49 -0700

i agree with dish-it.

Purplex wrote:
2012-07-30 07:30:29 -0700

i agree to lovetodance101. i think boys should make the first move

emma2468 wrote:
2012-07-25 02:17:56 -0700

shyness is never the answer say you have a crush and if u dont tell him that then how will he know to make the first move he is the one thats scared to mess it up so just try even if he says no dont let it bring u down

aintnowayaroundit wrote:
2012-07-24 12:14:03 -0700

i think da boii should mke da 1st move

lovetodance101 wrote:
2012-07-21 23:50:34 -0700

I think boyys should makee the first movee

Beerocker1030 wrote:
2012-06-28 17:59:07 -0700

~ i think that if a girl wanna ask a guy out they can it dosent matter bout tradition of guys askin girls out whoever wants to ask someone out should be able to ~

YaBoiiTy_2177721 wrote:
2012-06-28 17:55:31 -0700

@-MarieeBeautyful- Thank You Some1 Agree

princesszb1999 wrote:
2012-06-28 17:53:18 -0700

-girlz should neva mak dah first mov dat som dumb stuff

-MarieeBeautyful- wrote:
2012-06-28 15:50:40 -0700

- Dhaat Shidd Ainnt Gudd '

-MarieeBeautyful- wrote:
2012-06-28 15:50:10 -0700

- Donnt Evaa Evaa Neverr Makee Thaa Firsst Moeee Girlss '

iiTouchable x3
iiTouchable x3 wrote:
2012-06-28 15:47:14 -0700

Hmmm -_-

siittles_chick wrote:
2012-06-28 15:47:03 -0700

id tha chick desperte she gonna make tha first move

iiTouchable x3
iiTouchable x3 wrote:
2012-06-28 15:45:40 -0700

@YaBoiiTy Som times a gurh do make a first mov if da guy is Hmmm -_- yhu knoe

poodie_bear15_2093457 wrote:
2012-06-28 15:45:33 -0700

dhats ryte i juss flirt alot nd make them make the first move LMAO!

YaBoiiTy_2177721 wrote:
2012-06-28 15:42:21 -0700

Girls Don't Make Tha 1st Move If He Want You He
Gone Come !!

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barbie gurl 14 wrote:
2012-06-28 15:40:23 -0700

how do imake the first move

pretty_in_pink11 wrote:
2012-06-25 20:29:59 -0700

okay just get a friend and tell her to talk to him about who he likes and what he likes and just hang around but act cool!!!!

Zey wrote:
2012-06-14 12:47:17 -0700

I dint finish so to be continued: My crush is the cutest boy in the entire grade. Weve talked a little because my friends are good friends with him so does anyone have advice?

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no you shouldn't!I bet, the friends that are pressuring you are girls only because they are jealous of your girl,because of her personality and style,and probably, most likely that they wanna be your girlfriend as well! ~~comment me back if you like!:)                                                          
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You are perfect the way you are.
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InternetOwl posted in Friends:
I'm not sure whether you have actual depression or not (Ask your doctor if you feel you do, they'll be able to help. ^^), but I'm really sorry you feel depressed. I've been there too, and it really does feel like no one cares.   I know you said it's awkward, but try talking to your dad about it. You said he's the only one who seems to listen, so I'm sure he will listen and try to understand. If you start feeling really depressed every day, try doing things to make you feel happier. I don't know what you like to do, but you should do things like relaxing, reading, talking to people and spending more time outside. Smiling more often can help relieve stress and make you happier as well. c: Try meeting new people too. It seems as though your current friends are bringing you down, so you can try to talk to them if you like or find more friends who'll listen and care about you (however, try to keep your old friends as well. They are your friends after all, and it's hard being lonely). You've got friends on here too. But please don't think about doing anything harmful to yourself. You might not be thinking like that now, but being depressed can lead people to this and it's really not the answer.  Good luck! ^u^  
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FloraTheWolf posted in Friends:
And you can add me as a friend if you want :D
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FloraTheWolf posted in Friends:
I know what its like to feel depressed. And its hard to get out of it. Try thinking of good things, and if you are feeling lonely and have no friends around then you can talk to me if you want :3 When you start feeling depressed, try doing things you like, going out to a park or somewhere to be alone and just relax. Maybe go on walks once in a while. And even if people don't seem to care about you, I do :) So if you start feeling worse you can chat with me. Try not to think of dangerous things like suicide or cutting yourself or even running away though because it may sometimes seem like it could be the answer but it really isn't it'll make your life worse and more messed up. I hope you feel better soon! :D
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