Dear Dish-It: Everyone Has a Boyfriend Except Me

Lover Girl asks: "I want a boyfriend because all my friends have one, but it’s the summer holidays now so it’s hard to find one. I tried looking for a boyfriend in a chat room, but there was no one my age. What should I do? How can I get a boyfriend?" Back to Article

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SHAYNA15 wrote:
2012-08-15 07:00:05 -0700

im so saddd

SHAYNA15 wrote:
2012-08-15 06:58:36 -0700

my ex boyfriend broke up with me and then dated this girl that was my bestfriend and we have the same last name and also he tried to claim i kissed someone elsee but then i said why and he said why does it matter then i said when he getss hit by a buss ill say thaatt but then i said ill actually cry my heartout and then later that dayy he brokeup with me he said he still loves and has feelings for me

roger2901s wrote:
2012-08-14 19:37:24 -0700

I have a Bf but I don't ever see him so don't even worry about it.

roger2901s wrote:
2012-08-14 19:35:35 -0700

Your a butt hole

sweetjellybean wrote:
2012-08-14 19:35:02 -0700

I'm alone too!

cutiegirlkatiek12 wrote:
2012-08-14 18:11:05 -0700

i feel like im forever alone lol

buggaboo32 wrote:
2012-08-14 13:15:42 -0700

just cause u don't have a boyfriend doesn't mean the world is going to end just be u you will find somebody who will like u for ur personallity not ur looks or how u dress

alyssa112234 wrote:
2012-08-14 11:22:38 -0700

just wait for school to start and pick someone u really like then ask if u can get to know each other and start a relationship from there. and work ur way up ok and then soon u will have a boyfriend. if tht doesnt work just pick ramdom cute boys tht are hint hint SINGLE and work on a relationship from there again welcome . p.s im only 10 and know all this stuff lol if u need anymore help just aks we anyone i can help u wt alot.

sorrcermickey wrote:
2012-08-14 11:18:57 -0700

sup can i

animalover1 wrote:
2012-08-14 10:56:27 -0700

wow thay sucks

007DEANNA wrote:
2012-08-14 10:02:40 -0700

(About the Dear Digh it thing!!)

Im single too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! its KILLING ME TOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

But look at the relation ship thing and look what I have put!!It might help!!


007DEANNA wrote:
2012-08-14 10:00:39 -0700

Okai..I have had two boyfriends and I am ten..


Okai how I got them was just talking to them
saying what there fav colour is and stuff like that but no personal stuff thats the best way for me!!!Try it!!Its best at schools!!


ADD ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

DivaCutie42 wrote:
2012-08-14 08:56:57 -0700

thats the same trobale i have!!! Frown

Euniqueamazing4527 wrote:
2012-08-13 18:15:53 -0700

This is not true for me but im single and its KILLING ME

prettygrlalways wrote:
2012-08-13 17:59:02 -0700

its ok 4 da grls dat dnt hav 1 u will find him

surfing247 wrote:
2012-08-13 13:55:59 -0700

i have a boy friend but hes shy 2 come 2 our neighbor hood. and he hits on other girls around me. i really like him but im starting to think he doesnt like me any more.

cutmisslonely wrote:
2012-08-13 12:25:03 -0700

me i jus dont need one @ ALL

lorelei2002 wrote:
2012-08-13 11:13:38 -0700

i dont have one either

zinger511 wrote:
2012-08-13 07:39:57 -0700

go get one girl

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visualize phantom_2222125 wrote:
2012-08-12 20:12:40 -0700

i broke up with my x, cause i found out he's cheating on me.. iam now single and i luv it.. feels great.. finally free.. he came back running to me begging on his knees 4 me to accept him... nah!!!, ain't got no time.. hahaha cheers..

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Would You Date Someone for Cash?

  • No way! I think that's low!
  • Not for cash, but maybe for front row tix to a concert or something.
  • Maybe, if I borderline-liked him/her anyway.

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What part of it are you scared of? Is it eating in public and around other people, or just eating in general?  What it might be, if it's eating in public you don't like, is social anxiety, or social phobia. You should ask your doctor to check, because if it is, they can offer you ways to help. For instance, they might recommend therapists or group sessions to help ease your fear.  Even if it's just a phobia or, in unlikelier circumstances, an eating disorder, you should still go to your doctor or a therapist so you can try to overcome it. Try doing things that calm you down before these situations as well, like exercise, reading or listening to music (I'm not sure what relaxes you but sometimes these help). Also, you should try to slowly get used to the situations. So don't force yourself to eat straight away when you're out, but slowly start doing so whenever your comfortable with doing so. Unlike your mum wants, you can't just "stop" being scared because that's not how it works.  But right now, please don't force yourself into any of these situations. It's not good for your mental health to be forced to face a phobia of yours often. 
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Dear Dish-It, Within the last few years I have felt a bit sick and shaky when we go out to eat. It's not so bad when it's a carvery lunch or something at a pub, but settling down for a chocolate brownie and a milkshake shakes me up. Don't get me wrong, I love going out with Mum, but it's just sitting down and taking a bite. I want to chuck it in the bin. I love eating brownies and stuff at home and I'm pretty healthy. But I refuse to go to the town before lunch in fear. Mum told me I got to stop this or I'm going to develop a terrible phobia.  Please help! ElfyKathy, worried
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She isn't jealous she is just dissappointed that you chose to get lessons when she did to get better . She had to get better to catch up to you so you can enjoyher as your best friend. Then you went ahead and got lessons as if you needed them. She is just upset that you showed off a talent that she didn't have. And she tried to get better to impress you but you got better as well. Which kept her at the stage she will always be at my best friend sings way betyer than me but I try. 
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It may be hard but break it down to them we aren't friends but we can be associates. It may leave them a bit dissappointed but tell them we aren't in the same category to be as close as friends. 
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