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Dear Dish-It: My Brother Is More Popular Than Me

Lonely asks: I feel like no one likes me. On Kidzworld, I have less than 30 friends, while my brother has over 100. At school I’m invisible, and my brother’s so popular. All the girls like him and he has a girlfriend. But when I tried to ask a girl out, she laughed in my face. The friends I do have think I’m really fun and cool to hang out with, but I don’t have many. My brother is a jerk, too. Whenever his friends are around, he completely ignores me, but people still like him. Why? I feel so alone. Back to Article

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*SharkySoTatted*_2241198
*SharkySoTatted*_2241198 wrote:
2012-11-20 17:08:11 -0800

im popular then my bro and im younger then him

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coco9087
coco9087 wrote:
2012-10-19 17:01:31 -0700

It seems alot tht my little sis is more popular than me. But i think thts because she is alot more you know pretty i look like a guy in my opinion. But a guy i like keeps comparing everythink i do to everything she does and it tiks me off if i do something she does better he will give me a weird look Annoyed

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awesome-dr
awesome-dr wrote:
2012-10-07 16:20:03 -0700

hey, "Lonely",
i have one friend on here. im not popular nor have i ever asked anyone out. i dont have a popular sister but she does have more friends than me. i get scared, i feel left out, but somethimes, it helps to tell yourself that life is going to be that way and find things to help.

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Star League
Star League wrote:
2012-10-06 19:36:46 -0700

anlugre thats mean!

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gokussj326
gokussj326 wrote:
2012-10-02 15:58:29 -0700

think about this. in a couple of years he won't be so popular and if you just be your self and make good grades you'll have a lot more than him. and when your applying for a job, who do you think is gonna get the job?the kid who WAS popular in school or the kid who didn't care if they where popular or not and kept doing good in school who do you think is gonna get the job? and if it makes you feel any better i'll be you friend.

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monelively
monelively wrote:
2012-09-28 18:58:35 -0700

more popular means he's just desperste for attention you on the other hand isn't ....more patient+awesome grades=dont worry the time will comehe's eager your not which is good

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klojo0208
klojo0208 wrote:
2012-09-15 20:46:37 -0700

Ive gone through that like 7 times!lol!But its life
youll get over it!!!!

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ilyxxxx
ilyxxxx wrote:
2012-09-12 01:28:21 -0700

just be urself, dont change urself
people need to like u for urself smile

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EJ12a
EJ12a wrote:
2012-09-08 23:41:19 -0700

YER I KNOW WAT U MEAN MY BRO IS HOTTER THEN ME SO HE GETS ATTENION FROM GIRLS SO MY BFS HANG WITH ME JUST TO HIS BEST FRIEND SO SAD

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Izzy19
Izzy19 wrote:
2012-09-06 12:35:45 -0700

omg i dont have bro i have a bff like a bro who has every girl crushin on him he is my unisaur

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Aserel
Aserel wrote:
2012-09-06 12:19:05 -0700

Try to be yourself.I don't care about if someones popular or not, but if someone is negative or acts tough I don't really want to make really good friends with them.Other girls think that way as well.

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sam1995_2084320
sam1995_2084320 wrote:
2012-09-05 13:16:33 -0700

hey lonely don't feel bad

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sassyrocs
sassyrocs wrote:
2012-09-05 10:16:43 -0700

just be you thats all that counts boy...... believe in urself

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Ginger Leilani Star
Ginger Leilani Star wrote:
2012-09-02 19:20:07 -0700

hey you are a good person in that or is that not a good thing. do something that makes someone notice you.

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The Custard Kid
The Custard Kid wrote:
2012-09-02 08:41:17 -0700

Hey just be confident with someone you like and try to make it seem like it's not a big deal if she says no, then it will make her think she will be missing out

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gomules1273
gomules1273 wrote:
2012-09-01 14:42:08 -0700

dude im a girl i would look for someone like you instead of yor brother you sound really nice you just need to be you and let god do his work!!!! if you wanna talk im gomules1273

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asiajade101
asiajade101 wrote:
2012-08-30 23:48:11 -0700

At least your not a jerk like your brother. Sometimes you have to stay the way you are and that' the way it was meant to be

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CrazyGirl14581
CrazyGirl14581 wrote:
2012-08-27 10:53:31 -0700

hey dont let ur brother let ur guard down. u seem like a good person and dont let anyone deny that. if people ignore u, then dont be afraid to let out the truth. how they should treat u. dont let people make u think u r a nobody. if they think that, than they are crude people who dont think of anyone but themselves. u need to be confident in who u r, and dont let anyone change u. Wink keep a happy face.

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cool-kill
cool-kill wrote:
2012-08-26 16:48:10 -0700

Are u talented at anything????

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beautiful_chica
beautiful_chica wrote:
2012-08-26 16:18:26 -0700

HEY DONT FEEL BAD LIKE THAT OK.smile JUST BE YOUR SELF AND BE CONFINDENT ABOUT YOURSELF OKsmile OH AND KEEP YOUR HEAD UP SOME GIRL WILL LIKE YOU FOR YOU NOT BECAUSE YOUR POPULAR smile smile Love Wink

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