Dear Dish-It: Fearing Puberty

Fearful asks: I’m a guy, and I’m afraid of going through puberty. I don’t know how to tell my dad because I’m afraid of getting “the talk.” What should I do? Back to Article

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JennyD wrote:
2013-07-07 13:33:47 -0700


Un-thinkableImaginary:3 wrote:
2013-07-07 12:07:22 -0700

Wow really? Alot of people dont want to go through that but we have to some time. Its part of growing up. I dont know why people fear it. Its not going to hurt or anything

21inkiepielover wrote:
2013-07-07 09:52:31 -0700


brunostar wrote:
2013-07-07 09:40:38 -0700


donteatcarrots wrote:
2013-07-07 09:30:31 -0700

Seriously? Try being me for a day!

PinkSunset wrote:
2013-04-19 17:25:58 -0700

Your worried? You should try being a girl! Do some research!

Jelly3 wrote:
2013-04-07 04:11:15 -0700

U are worried?Seriously!!Ur changes are hardly something to be worried about! Girls changes are worse!!

Lizzaybabyy wrote:
2013-02-23 18:59:53 -0800

worser? LOL

cooltony15 wrote:
2013-02-06 20:01:16 -0800

even though i am a 12 year old dude it dosent mean anything ok in my class there is a 13 year old girl who just started growing..hard to say this but she just started with her brest growing anda 11 year old girl who started at 9 in a half

kerilover123 wrote:
2013-01-19 11:46:27 -0800

All of my old friends are starting to grow breasts except for me. Am I an early bloomer? Or is there something? Wrong with me. There is this girl in my class, I'm older than her and she's already growing breats!

luv pink
luv pink wrote:
2013-01-06 08:48:26 -0800

Well boys don't have to worry about that girls are even worser for girls there's can start at the age 9 and up well I'm 9 turning 10 in April but you don't have to worry about it!

2012-12-27 21:37:57 -0800

are u inline

buggalove wrote:
2012-12-27 11:44:13 -0800

who talk about periods you sick

Cjarq320052 wrote:
2012-12-27 11:21:18 -0800

U have nothin to be afraid of. Girls are worse

sarah8101 wrote:
2012-12-09 16:15:51 -0800

Boys have NOTHING to be afraid of...its so much worse forgirls -_-

saff1232 wrote:
2012-12-01 22:42:45 -0800

wen will i get my period is it normal i mean im 11 iam the only one that hasnt got it and its weird

babystyles wrote:
2012-11-27 07:47:14 -0800

i know sister..i know D:

babyzayn wrote:
2012-11-26 12:28:51 -0800

i have not got mine to! and...........dont even start AAAAAAA

cece luv
cece luv wrote:
2012-11-22 19:36:33 -0800

its much worser for girls

Your friend141
Your friend141 wrote:
2012-11-19 10:27:42 -0800

I have had "The Talk" A million times... Ugh sucks like fck

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