Dear Dish-It: Am I Still in Love With My Ex?

Confused asks: I have a new boyfriend who I like very much. But when I’m with him, I can’t help comparing everything he does to my ex-boyfriend. Is this normal? Does it mean I’m still in love with my ex? Back to Article

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Blind Faith
Blind Faith wrote:
2013-06-23 19:43:59 -0700

@AlphaT: Yeah this is a pretty boring article.

100pigy wrote:
2013-06-23 19:43:15 -0700

my ex was sweet intill he broke my hart

AlphaT wrote:
2013-06-23 19:42:53 -0700


Blind Faith
Blind Faith wrote:
2013-06-23 19:38:20 -0700

I didn't even like my ex in the first place ._.

-Beccaisme wrote:
2013-06-23 19:32:28 -0700

i want to go out with my ex again. but he keeps on going back to the night that i dumpd him because so many people were telling me he was cheating and he wasent answering me so i assumed... i regret it so much! he was cheating..

MyaTewPretty wrote:
2013-06-23 19:27:54 -0700

I still love my ex

lilshianti wrote:
2013-06-23 19:26:49 -0700

I'm going back out with my ex

PrideInWastedYouth_2297646 wrote:
2013-06-23 19:26:08 -0700


R I S S A ;**♥
R I S S A ;**♥ wrote:
2013-06-23 19:24:02 -0700

nah , i'm good . he'll be fine . ♥

Kaykaysgonecraycray wrote:
2013-06-23 19:23:43 -0700

Me and my ex still like eachother. A lot. :T

Its_Whats_Her_Name wrote:
2013-06-23 19:20:52 -0700

._. I Still Like Mine.

PrideInWastedYouth_2297646 wrote:
2013-06-23 19:18:53 -0700

I hate my ex.

cherry2 wrote:
2013-06-23 19:16:24 -0700

me too

Tyonnia Styles_2417899
Tyonnia Styles_2417899 wrote:
2013-06-23 19:00:52 -0700

Big time!!! I am!

SuperManIsHere wrote:
2013-06-23 18:59:54 -0700

I'm still inlove with him ....

YoursTruelyGaven wrote:
2013-06-23 18:59:16 -0700

Im still in love

isisash121 wrote:
2013-06-23 18:57:40 -0700

I still have feelings for x-bf

Miss_Me_Bhadddd wrote:
2013-05-06 12:56:59 -0700

Some times it mean that you still love him and you still care about him no matter what happen together or not I'll always love my ex and we do talk maybe you guess should talk and maybe that will help you know what you want

beautiful mimi!!!
beautiful mimi!!! wrote:
2013-04-02 14:57:12 -0700

Im still in love

lilmiss kayla 101
lilmiss kayla 101 wrote:
2013-03-24 00:37:49 -0700

I ask my self tha same question

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I think you can not be sure he likes you. take me as an example theres this girl in my class who i talk to everyday. Now i see her as a sister and i have and will go to lengths just to make sure shes okay and her boyfriend doesnt hurt her. This might be what is happening in your situation so i advice that you wait a bit longer because him loooking at you may mean that he likes you and is waiting for the right time to tell you. Meanwhile you can get closer to him and flirt once in a while to asure that him you also like him (that is if he isnt sure). And dont worry if he doesnt like you back its better to have a friend who cares about you than a boyfriend who doesnt like you that much and is dreaming about someone else.
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What part of it are you scared of? Is it eating in public and around other people, or just eating in general?  What it might be, if it's eating in public you don't like, is social anxiety, or social phobia. You should ask your doctor to check, because if it is, they can offer you ways to help. For instance, they might recommend therapists or group sessions to help ease your fear.  Even if it's just a phobia or, in unlikelier circumstances, an eating disorder, you should still go to your doctor or a therapist so you can try to overcome it. Try doing things that calm you down before these situations as well, like exercise, reading or listening to music (I'm not sure what relaxes you but sometimes these help). Also, you should try to slowly get used to the situations. So don't force yourself to eat straight away when you're out, but slowly start doing so whenever your comfortable with doing so. Unlike your mum wants, you can't just "stop" being scared because that's not how it works.  But right now, please don't force yourself into any of these situations. It's not good for your mental health to be forced to face a phobia of yours often. 
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Dear Dish-It, Within the last few years I have felt a bit sick and shaky when we go out to eat. It's not so bad when it's a carvery lunch or something at a pub, but settling down for a chocolate brownie and a milkshake shakes me up. Don't get me wrong, I love going out with Mum, but it's just sitting down and taking a bite. I want to chuck it in the bin. I love eating brownies and stuff at home and I'm pretty healthy. But I refuse to go to the town before lunch in fear. Mum told me I got to stop this or I'm going to develop a terrible phobia.  Please help! ElfyKathy, worried
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