Dear Dish-It: My Boyfriend Has A Bad Reputation

Hesitant asks: I recently started going out with a boy from another school. He’s really nice and sweet to me, but I found out that he has a really bad reputation at his school. People call him a druggy and apparently he’s been in a lot of fights. He tells me the stories aren’t true, but I don’t know what to believe. Should I break up with him? Back to Article

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2013-02-23 22:33:58 -0800

My husband andrew has a bad reputation it sucks

anderjac013 wrote:
2013-02-23 22:27:52 -0800

i am that bf...i got the bad reputation..i worked hard to get

lovablejade wrote:
2013-02-23 15:29:14 -0800

my bf just got expelled and i really miss him

stori03 wrote:
2013-02-23 07:15:20 -0800

yu should do wat yur heart says lik if its tru then confront him sorry that all I can give yu

heyhataz222 wrote:
2013-02-23 06:58:53 -0800

dont break up with him dont listen to what people say if u love him then stay with him

Zoe31998 wrote:
2013-02-23 02:33:41 -0800

I had the same problem not to worry is the biggest thing and ask him straight to his face

MissIndependent587 wrote:
2013-02-22 18:59:31 -0800

I had this problem be4. Just ignore what people say about him, and love him for who he really is. It'll all work out.

anderjac013 wrote:
2013-02-14 21:57:23 -0800

i am this bf

beatlesRock wrote:
2013-01-31 12:15:58 -0800

Here's my advice, if you really love him, your gut will really tell you wether to break up with him or not

musicgirlx3 wrote:
2013-01-27 11:26:55 -0800

Ok, let me tell you this. If he starts to act weird, let him go. If he starts to take drugs when your with him, let him go. Ask one of his personal friends, even his parents! Get the proof before you regret it. Don't let him make you take drugs (if he does) save yourself before you save him. Let him know the truth! TELL HIM WHAT YOU HEARD!

musicgirlx3 wrote:
2013-01-27 11:26:44 -0800

Ok, let me tell you this. If he starts to act weird, let him go. If he starts to take drugs when your with him, let him go. Ask one of his personal friends, even his parents! Get the proof before you regret it. Don't let him make you take drugs (if he does) save yourself before you save him. Let him know the truth! TELL HIM WHAT YOU HEARD!

lacy-1213_2367706 wrote:
2013-01-23 17:06:38 -0800

rlly wtf what do you belive let me ask that again. WHO do you belive your bf or others? trust yourself

timeout444 wrote:
2013-01-23 16:32:17 -0800

i used to go out with a guy who did drugs but he started abusing me so i left him

princessjewel2027 wrote:
2013-01-21 12:05:44 -0800

No and don't accuse him unless u have proof people lie

3lysia;* wrote:
2013-01-20 12:14:42 -0800

I like bad boys! Not liers

Lollipop@03 wrote:
2013-01-19 17:48:10 -0800

I just have to say this happened to me too. I decided to break up with him.

Coolswag59 wrote:
2013-01-14 04:14:48 -0800

Ask him about it

ladywolves35 wrote:
2012-12-31 15:39:25 -0800

i want someone i can trust not to lie, so IDK. My bf is sweet and sincere and when my EX got paddled by my mom, I broke it off. I guess i dont prefer the "BAD_BOY" type. I need some one that keeps my nerves calm cause i get excited and jumpy.

izzy09 wrote:
2012-12-28 19:20:14 -0800

-_-....... thats why ill wait for Niall Horan... -_-

lilmama_1246 wrote:
2012-12-28 15:36:15 -0800

I Like Bad Boys But To The Point Where I Am In Danger .... Bad Boys Make Me Feel IDK More Alive... Just TRY To Work It Out And If It Ant Working Then Say Goodbye

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  • He does drugs.
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  • He gets jealous when I talk to other guys.
  • He lies to me.

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