Dear Dish-It: My Best Friend's An Attention Seeker

Overlooked asks: My best friend has become such an attention seeker. She tries to act overly confident and wears revealing clothes. One minute she’ll be my friend, and as soon as there are boys around, it’s like I don’t even exist. I try to talk to her and she only pretends to listen while looking over my head at the boys behind me. What should I do? Back to Article

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neon baby
neon baby wrote:
2012-12-28 16:28:03 -0800

same thing use to happen to me with my best freind but dont talk to her anymore

X Wolf X
X Wolf X wrote:
2012-12-26 15:23:56 -0800

If she didn't have boys noticing her before like in years lower she is prob just excited so she is making sure everyone knows because no one noticed before but if she keeps ignoring you- you need to make sure she really is listing invite her out down shopping and tell her properly maybe down the café make sure she is looking and listing and there are no boys and maybe she will actually realise what she is doing. smile

Mz Beautiful
Mz Beautiful wrote:
2012-12-15 09:33:30 -0800

Don't give them any attention they'll stop

HaylaB wrote:
2012-12-13 16:53:58 -0800

she's probally just ignoring u to get a boy to notice her

Lariciouse wrote:
2012-12-12 08:51:30 -0800

i think you should talk to her about it and tell her how you really feel!

swagged_out_princess wrote:
2012-12-09 18:03:30 -0800

my friends she dont like them and she told me we need to just keep i said no cause she can be fake at times and try to show off untill i put her back in check

swagged_out_princess wrote:
2012-12-09 18:03:26 -0800

my friends she dont like them and she told me we need to just keep i said no cause she can be fake at times and try to show off untill i put her back in check

swagged_out_princess wrote:
2012-12-09 18:01:46 -0800

mabe because she feels you get all the attention and she is jealous my best friend is my fake sister and she is at times funny and irritating because its a girl name chinell and for some reson she just cant tell her she dont like her so when we have projects and chinell writes about her she erases my name and puts her name then when chinell done reading it she put my name back so i told her she not about to be doing that cause i have friends that i can be with cause her friends i dont like them

-Call-Me-Tori- wrote:
2012-12-08 12:43:45 -0800

too sneaky

XXAngel ChloeXX
XXAngel ChloeXX wrote:
2012-12-08 10:11:19 -0800

1. say your name ten times.
2. say your mom's name five times.
3. say your crushes three times♥.
...4. paste this to five other groups
.........................................................If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday.
But if you read this and do not paste this, then you
will have very bad luck

Miss_Me_Bhadddd wrote:
2012-12-07 15:12:41 -0800

tht fake tht is not a ture friend

tearica1 wrote:
2012-12-05 15:08:45 -0800

if someone do that hey are fake

lucy loves union j
lucy loves union j wrote:
2012-12-03 06:43:16 -0800

dont get it

poohbear143567 wrote:
2012-12-03 06:33:25 -0800

don't like this storysmile

marceldaryl1 wrote:
2012-12-02 16:39:49 -0800

It's just a faze every girl go's through it and somtimes even boys

quandra*bhadd_2021551 wrote:
2012-12-02 12:15:43 -0800

Greedy Hoës These Daess !!

R I S S A ;**♥
R I S S A ;**♥ wrote:
2012-12-02 11:55:19 -0800

Loll Trueee-

LoveAerielle♥ wrote:
2012-12-02 11:52:59 -0800

She Just Thirsty , Cdfuu Give Ha Some Water , Swerve The Chick.

9bella wrote:
2012-12-02 10:34:48 -0800

i have the same problem

sapphire_blue_stone wrote:
2012-12-02 05:12:43 -0800

i hv the same probs too

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What's Sure to Get His Attention?

  • Smile and giggle at all his jokes.
  • The bend-and-snap technique from Legally Blonde.
  • Follow him home from school every day - even though you live on the other side of town.
  • What's with the games? Just ask him out and stop playin' around already!

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