Dear Dish-It: My Best Friend's An Attention Seeker

Overlooked asks: My best friend has become such an attention seeker. She tries to act overly confident and wears revealing clothes. One minute she’ll be my friend, and as soon as there are boys around, it’s like I don’t even exist. I try to talk to her and she only pretends to listen while looking over my head at the boys behind me. What should I do? Back to Article

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sapphire_blue_stone wrote:
2012-12-02 05:12:43 -0800

i hv the same probs too

sarah8101 wrote:
2012-11-30 17:17:13 -0800

A true friend sticks by ur side

teddyfluff wrote:
2012-11-30 17:09:48 -0800

Well she probably Dosen't want you snooping in her things and embarrisng her.When you first start getting into a friendsship you guys don't fully trust each other Mad

surfer chicks12 12
surfer chicks12 12 wrote:
2012-11-29 04:20:17 -0800

i had the same problem till today

Cahlessia wrote:
2012-11-28 16:28:09 -0800

my bff do dat all da time she talk real loud in da classroom n she be sittin at da table wit all da blak boys in da class!!!!!!!!! she flirt wit dem 2 n she got a bf i juss b smh at her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! -.-

GuppiiPond_2316015 wrote:
2012-11-28 12:46:34 -0800

It's probably because she has "daddy issues"... girls tend to aim for mainly man attention when they don't get enough love from their dad... or they could be like me and just hate alot of girls at school because they start drama... Frustrated

Kasjloves *-_2308042
Kasjloves *-_2308042 wrote:
2012-11-28 11:55:00 -0800

Why He Took It c; ?

JustADream :
JustADream : wrote:
2012-11-28 11:49:09 -0800

He Is Omgahhh Drop Stunning But He Mean ; [

Kasjloves *-_2308042
Kasjloves *-_2308042 wrote:
2012-11-28 11:47:27 -0800

He's Beautiful I Miss Him '/

JustADream :
JustADream : wrote:
2012-11-28 11:44:17 -0800

Ghasseto Took My Phone ;/

Kasjloves *-_2308042
Kasjloves *-_2308042 wrote:
2012-11-28 11:41:49 -0800

Text Mhee ?.'

JustADream :
JustADream : wrote:
2012-11-28 11:39:10 -0800

Smh Aha Suree Lil Kiddo W.e I Still Love You ; ]

Kasjloves *-_2308042
Kasjloves *-_2308042 wrote:
2012-11-28 11:37:00 -0800

I'm Kiddinqq Wee Both Likk Datt Baa Booskiee c;

JustADream :
JustADream : wrote:
2012-11-28 11:28:14 -0800

Shhh Lmaooo ; x Biqq Mouth

Kasjloves *-_2308042
Kasjloves *-_2308042 wrote:
2012-11-28 11:24:06 -0800

Oh Noo Shudd Upp That's Youu! '/

JustADream :
JustADream : wrote:
2012-11-28 11:18:06 -0800

Omgahhh Thisss Wluld Be Kas ; o

Alexswaggirl wrote:
2012-11-28 10:57:32 -0800

your friend is only acting that way around boys because she feels insecure and feels like she needs a lot of attention. just be honest with her and tell her that sometimes you feel left out

Lnvjessiej wrote:
2012-11-26 20:06:30 -0800

Dont keep acting along with her just tell her
straight up when there are no boys around we
cant be friends anymore if your gonna let boys
get in between our friendship.

bootslouise500 wrote:
2012-11-25 16:16:33 -0800

i have a friend just like that too and i told her that u might be getting sum attention from boys but not your friends like me and my other friends that are girls and she gets googy when the boy she likes comes around but he doesnt like attention seekers i hope u can try to handle it like i did but now a week or 2 ago shes been starting again omg i have to try again lol love,boots Big Grin

theboysthatlovegirlsrock wrote:
2012-11-25 10:00:26 -0800

I. Have a friend just like her just say you don't ca she does it for your attention don't react to it

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What's Sure to Get His Attention?

  • Smile and giggle at all his jokes.
  • The bend-and-snap technique from Legally Blonde.
  • Follow him home from school every day - even though you live on the other side of town.
  • What's with the games? Just ask him out and stop playin' around already!

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