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Dear Dish-it: Is My Boyfriend Too Controlling?

Controlled asks: My boyfriend won't let me walk to lunch with my friends or dance with other guys at school dances, and I'm not even a flirt. Is this normal? Or is he too controlling? Back to Article

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preciousc10
preciousc10 wrote:
2013-06-24 08:11:12 -0700

im too young to but i had 3 bfs in real life before

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tastycupcakes
tastycupcakes wrote:
2013-06-21 07:26:51 -0700

i have a boyfriend but we hold hands no kissing unless the cheek counts.

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diyarocks
diyarocks wrote:
2013-06-17 16:24:42 -0700

i am single... i am so happy!!! Well v r 2 young to had a bf right now... maybe after 18...

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Its_jade(:
Its_jade(: wrote:
2013-06-15 17:16:52 -0700

This why I'm happy im single

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Tyonnia Styles_2417899
Tyonnia Styles_2417899 wrote:
2013-06-15 17:11:02 -0700

Your telling me they or they DID act like they controlled almost everything...But hey ill woop him jk

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patricia1
patricia1 wrote:
2013-06-08 09:35:11 -0700

probaly but tell him how you feel and if he yells at you punch him or if he says he is trying to protect you with his love kiss him

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owlsowlsowls
owlsowlsowls wrote:
2013-06-04 14:20:12 -0700

your boyfriend is probably just scared that he will lose you, and he is too scared to risk it. If you are getting mad at him, talk about it and don't be afraid to ASK!

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-ZeroHero-
-ZeroHero- wrote:
2013-05-19 02:58:02 -0700

jealousy is a useless emotion. your bf is too strict .-.

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caitlin0504
caitlin0504 wrote:
2013-05-02 12:26:04 -0700

GGGGLLLLIIIITTTTEEEEERRRRR

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Tyonnia Styles_2417899
Tyonnia Styles_2417899 wrote:
2013-04-27 19:33:05 -0700

Skylar......... Clown smile Angel

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MR_SKINNY_JEANS
MR_SKINNY_JEANS wrote:
2013-04-27 19:28:14 -0700

HIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII

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Tyonnia Styles_2417899
Tyonnia Styles_2417899 wrote:
2013-04-27 19:24:42 -0700

Lol Brandon!!!!
Hahaha ur so slow but true true true!!!
Yeah he is one and she is too!

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emo guy 101
emo guy 101 wrote:
2013-04-27 16:19:17 -0700

Ahhh I don't need to dill with it lol

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MILAHLAH_2114879
MILAHLAH_2114879 wrote:
2013-04-27 14:10:57 -0700

I really don't have to deal with this because I date mostly girls

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msprettymama
msprettymama wrote:
2013-04-27 14:02:18 -0700

Wish avnother boy wud try n control me he gone have a hammer to his head

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You'reMineForever ❤;
You'reMineForever ❤; wrote:
2013-04-27 13:59:48 -0700

XD Jake is a cheating ays H to the O to the E and he is very controlling

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Tyonnia Styles_2417899
Tyonnia Styles_2417899 wrote:
2013-04-27 13:57:22 -0700

I wanna forget the RECENT BF......... Controlling....No I dunno....
Frown

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peacegirl771
peacegirl771 wrote:
2013-04-27 10:53:10 -0700

add me ppl

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Mariah34521-MA
Mariah34521-MA wrote:
2013-04-13 23:42:22 -0700

Okay be like that I'm not staying on this I'm going to sleep have fun Frustrated

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Tyonnia Styles_2417899
Tyonnia Styles_2417899 wrote:
2013-04-13 23:39:52 -0700

WHO ARE U TALKING ABOUT !????!?? TEALLY?!? I MEAN RESLLY!!!

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young fee
young fee posted in Friends:
I think you can not be sure he likes you. take me as an example theres this girl in my class who i talk to everyday. Now i see her as a sister and i have and will go to lengths just to make sure shes okay and her boyfriend doesnt hurt her. This might be what is happening in your situation so i advice that you wait a bit longer because him loooking at you may mean that he likes you and is waiting for the right time to tell you. Meanwhile you can get closer to him and flirt once in a while to asure that him you also like him (that is if he isnt sure). And dont worry if he doesnt like you back its better to have a friend who cares about you than a boyfriend who doesnt like you that much and is dreaming about someone else.
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InternetOwl
What part of it are you scared of? Is it eating in public and around other people, or just eating in general?  What it might be, if it's eating in public you don't like, is social anxiety, or social phobia. You should ask your doctor to check, because if it is, they can offer you ways to help. For instance, they might recommend therapists or group sessions to help ease your fear.  Even if it's just a phobia or, in unlikelier circumstances, an eating disorder, you should still go to your doctor or a therapist so you can try to overcome it. Try doing things that calm you down before these situations as well, like exercise, reading or listening to music (I'm not sure what relaxes you but sometimes these help). Also, you should try to slowly get used to the situations. So don't force yourself to eat straight away when you're out, but slowly start doing so whenever your comfortable with doing so. Unlike your mum wants, you can't just "stop" being scared because that's not how it works.  But right now, please don't force yourself into any of these situations. It's not good for your mental health to be forced to face a phobia of yours often. 
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ElfyKathy
Dear Dish-It, Within the last few years I have felt a bit sick and shaky when we go out to eat. It's not so bad when it's a carvery lunch or something at a pub, but settling down for a chocolate brownie and a milkshake shakes me up. Don't get me wrong, I love going out with Mum, but it's just sitting down and taking a bite. I want to chuck it in the bin. I love eating brownies and stuff at home and I'm pretty healthy. But I refuse to go to the town before lunch in fear. Mum told me I got to stop this or I'm going to develop a terrible phobia.  Please help! ElfyKathy, worried
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