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Dear Dish-it: Is My Boyfriend Too Controlling?

Controlled asks: My boyfriend won't let me walk to lunch with my friends or dance with other guys at school dances, and I'm not even a flirt. Is this normal? Or is he too controlling? Back to Article

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*itsmehurgirlunique*
*itsmehurgirlunique* wrote:
2013-02-09 15:28:01 -0800

My boyfirmy boyfriend darian is like this he not ocontrollin he just scared he might lose me so he's a little over protective but not all the time

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skittles00
skittles00 wrote:
2013-02-09 14:43:46 -0800

That is too controling, ima a huge flirt thats just a part of my personality

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crazycoco14
crazycoco14 wrote:
2013-02-07 10:46:52 -0800

Carry on till it gets really bad then if he still is dump the guy but don't do anything you don't want to.

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crazycoco14
crazycoco14 wrote:
2013-02-07 10:46:28 -0800

Carry on till it gets really bad then if he still is dump the guy but don't do anything you don't want to.

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crazycoco14
crazycoco14 wrote:
2013-02-07 10:46:11 -0800

Carry on till it gets really bad then if he still is dump the guy but don't do anything you don't want to.

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miki899
miki899 wrote:
2013-02-06 18:32:13 -0800

just break up with him hes just jelous then Frustrated

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MiMi All Day
MiMi All Day wrote:
2013-02-05 13:54:38 -0800

Okau if he controllung break up with him . He cute but conyrolling you got to break up with him . Dont ley mo boy walk over you. I beat yo p a lot of boys they dont mesz witj me anymore. Fight Back
Big Grin

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Makayla114
Makayla114 wrote:
2013-02-04 14:38:32 -0800

talk to him tell him what you feel and se if there is s gud reason he does that if not leave him

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palmtree5454
palmtree5454 wrote:
2013-01-29 12:32:38 -0800

Hmmmm.
Difficult issue.

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heyheyitsmelanie
heyheyitsmelanie wrote:
2013-01-28 17:36:32 -0800

To my opinion, he sounds controlling and abusive. If he can't stand you out of his sight for a second then that's a problem. You need to get out of this relationship.

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to_good_4_u
to_good_4_u wrote:
2013-01-27 16:38:33 -0800

yes he is being controlling but wait he is being protective and guys do that sometimes but that just says he is telling you he doesnt want anyone else loving u and saying he wants to be the last one u love

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boylikecrazy
boylikecrazy wrote:
2013-01-27 10:51:43 -0800

he just a clingy person thats what.

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obeyy manii
obeyy manii wrote:
2013-01-24 23:35:58 -0800

,Naa_He_Aint_Crazyy smile

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swag_boii
swag_boii wrote:
2013-01-24 23:24:29 -0800

what nevah

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obey_nevaeh
obey_nevaeh wrote:
2013-01-24 23:21:25 -0800

WP

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julian226
julian226 wrote:
2013-01-24 13:12:16 -0800

dear dish it my freind said lets go get laid what should i do

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FAVOUR
FAVOUR wrote:
2013-01-24 08:34:14 -0800

i tink he is being selfish, but there is still a chance that he cares...too much. Try talking to him. Get it out there. Don't be afraid to speak out. If u are, gv hm a song...im sure Taylor Swift has a song about this.lol

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nerdygirl1224
nerdygirl1224 wrote:
2013-01-23 14:04:39 -0800

if he makes you uncomfterbile or however u spell then that tell u right thier you need to leave him

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kei kei 123
kei kei 123 wrote:
2013-01-23 14:00:34 -0800

lol cuz then one of ur friends will tell u and u be like oh
REALLY then itz over just like tht lol

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nerdygirl1224
nerdygirl1224 wrote:
2013-01-23 13:58:04 -0800

lol how dnt u know if your boyfriend is to controlling.

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carolinewearsprada
WOW you r in  a really bad pickle. You no what i would do? well i would leave it up to the boy to decide the right path to go on. remember you have to let the guy chase after you . you cant  chase after him because boys do not like that you have to act like you are just friends and be cool around him and don't be flirty or awkward just be real people and be friends because he's  not gonna like you if you call him all the time or be clingy. and do not let that that girl get to you. you have to keep your chin up and hope for the best and follow my advice :)
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LadiiYellow
LadiiYellow posted in Friends:
the only problem im having now is this girl that wants to fight me for this boy who suppose to be her boyfren but he wants to like me so she mad at me because i said out loud that he is ugly and the only piece of #### he could get is what he has now which is her
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carolinewearsprada
yeah
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InfamouslyUnknown
Elementary school age is too young to have a cell phone, because young children will have a hard time with the responsibility (varies) and it's likely that their friends don't have phones so who do they have to talk to? Middle school is around the age that cell phones can be given. That's when they're realizing who they want as friends and socializing more. 12 should be the earliest age to have one imo. I got mine when I turned thirteen.
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Tomboy all the way. xD -Thumbs up all nerdy like- 
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