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Dear Dish-it: Is My Boyfriend Too Controlling?

Controlled asks: My boyfriend won't let me walk to lunch with my friends or dance with other guys at school dances, and I'm not even a flirt. Is this normal? Or is he too controlling? Back to Article

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peacegirl771
peacegirl771 wrote:
2013-04-27 10:53:10 -0700

add me ppl

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Mariah34521-MA
Mariah34521-MA wrote:
2013-04-13 23:42:22 -0700

Okay be like that I'm not staying on this I'm going to sleep have fun Frustrated

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Tyonnia Styles_2417899
Tyonnia Styles_2417899 wrote:
2013-04-13 23:39:52 -0700

WHO ARE U TALKING ABOUT !????!?? TEALLY?!? I MEAN RESLLY!!!

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Mariah34521-MA
Mariah34521-MA wrote:
2013-04-13 23:36:59 -0700

Who's he doing that with ??

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Tyonnia Styles_2417899
Tyonnia Styles_2417899 wrote:
2013-04-13 23:29:24 -0700

Huh?!?!
Ur confusing me....do u know who I'm talking about and it's not that person.......at least I dunno think so...

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ZACK MCGARRY
ZACK MCGARRY wrote:
2013-04-13 23:28:39 -0700

yes its alittle controlling but when a guy does that to his gf that sometimes means he cares about u so much he afraid that u will like someone else but if hes doing to a point where u want to leave him try to talk to him about it and if he cares that much about u he will listen

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Mariah34521-MA
Mariah34521-MA wrote:
2013-04-13 23:24:35 -0700

Sis why did jake do that ??

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Tyonnia Styles_2417899
Tyonnia Styles_2417899 wrote:
2013-04-13 23:21:31 -0700

Ummm!
Gosh!!
Saying u love someone else...saying u wanna cuddle with someone other than ur mate!!!
I'm pretty sure that is cheating!!!
Devil
I think I'm gonna be the devil towards HIM and his little so called cheating FRIEND!!!!! Angry

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KeegansXxXSis_2377008
KeegansXxXSis_2377008 wrote:
2013-04-06 15:53:16 -0700

I get The Part Of Danceing With Other Guys At The Dance But If They Were My Girls Bestfriend Then Yeah Sure Go And Dance With Them, him

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Tyonnia Styles_2417899
Tyonnia Styles_2417899 wrote:
2013-04-06 15:52:58 -0700

U GUYS SHOULD TALK TO MY SIS!

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Tyonnia Styles_2417899
Tyonnia Styles_2417899 wrote:
2013-04-06 15:52:35 -0700

K smile

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Jakey-boo_2384119
Jakey-boo_2384119 wrote:
2013-04-06 15:50:54 -0700

Oh, ok Big Grin

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Tyonnia Styles_2417899
Tyonnia Styles_2417899 wrote:
2013-04-06 15:50:16 -0700

I did not say ur controlling!
Frustrated
Lol....
I was just answer the crazy xoxo question!

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Andie_The_Great
Andie_The_Great wrote:
2013-04-06 15:49:05 -0700

Some guys are just to controlling grr it makes me mad to have a bf like that

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Jakey-boo_2384119
Jakey-boo_2384119 wrote:
2013-04-06 15:47:45 -0700

Tyonnia I'm NOT controlling. im protective over u because I don't want too hurt u like I did before because I care about u!

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Tyonnia Styles_2417899
Tyonnia Styles_2417899 wrote:
2013-04-06 15:43:41 -0700

Yss there a article about BF cheating!!! GUess not!!!
smile b-u-m-m-e-r!!!!
Lmbo! well to answer the article Q i really dont knw!!! all that too welll i think so idk

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kkgirl0902
kkgirl0902 wrote:
2013-04-05 07:37:58 -0700

alot of boyfriends are way to controlling because their jealus ive been through it to

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kkgirl0902
kkgirl0902 wrote:
2013-04-05 07:37:26 -0700

alot of boyfriends are way to controlling because their jealusive been through it to

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Electronica
Electronica wrote:
2013-04-04 14:37:00 -0700

i read this book called The Year I Turned Sixteen, and in the 'Laurel' chapter, her new boyfriend, Jack, was way too clingy and almost never left her side. she eventually got annoyed and broke up with him. i think that you should talk with your bf and discuss the things that make you uncomfortable.

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country chick101
country chick101 wrote:
2013-03-28 19:46:57 -0700

if i were him trust me i would be at least a little mad you werent dancing with me just be more close to him and and not other boys

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AlphaT
AlphaT posted in Style:
Wear bigger clothes. Heck, I wear a 2-3 X
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DisneyanimeLover
"ThunderSpirit" wrote:Wow. We have more in common than I thought.I had the same problem [except she was a little less mean] and this is the advice I was given. Don't exactly go up to her and say, "I don't wanna be friends," because although she is mean, she still might be hurt. Just don't really make it official, but slowly drift apart from her. Try to meet new people, maybe there's someone great you just haven't met yet. And maybe she's having problems of her own, not like that's an excuse. But in the end, if she does apologize to you, she might be a friend worth keeping, but those insults were pretty serious, not something best friends would do, and you probably wouldn't forgive her. I get that. Thanks for the good advice! I don`t see her often so drifting away is the smartest idea. Although I see her at family parties and stuff cause she is a family friend. I`ll try and drift away from her. If she gets better at being kind I`ll be her friend again most likely. Thanks! 
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ThunderSpirit
ThunderSpirit posted in Friends:
Wow. We have more in common than I thought. I had the same problem [except she was a little less mean] and this is the advice I was given. Don't exactly go up to her and say, "I don't wanna be friends," because although she is mean, she still might be hurt. Just don't really make it official, but slowly drift apart from her. Try to meet new people, maybe there's someone great you just haven't met yet. And maybe she's having problems of her own, not like that's an excuse. But in the end, if she does apologize to you, she might be a friend worth keeping, but those insults were pretty serious, not something best friends would do, and you probably wouldn't forgive her. I get that.
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DisneyanimeLover
I have this friend who has been my friend for 6 years. And she is so RUDE. She says mean things about me and MY MOTHER. Seriously she says really awful things about my mom like this: "Her IQ is high? Oh she must have took the IDIOT test." And tells me "Eww you wear Disney Princess shirts? Eww you are so messed up!" She always acts better than me whether we are alone or with people. She tries to make people hate me and she tries to act mature and she alway tells me "You should respect your mom and do what she tells you" She is awful. I wanna tell her she is mean and I dont wanna be friends. But I can`t! Its hard to do that when you know someone for 7 years. HELP!
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Kirsteeeeen
Kirsteeeeen posted in Style:
As the previous person said, look online. There are very cute clothes available in bigger sizes! Also when you go shopping take a look in popular stores as well as less popular that might look as if they're for older people. Often they follow very similar trends but have bigger sizes!
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