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Dear Dish-it: Is My Boyfriend Too Controlling?

Controlled asks: My boyfriend won't let me walk to lunch with my friends or dance with other guys at school dances, and I'm not even a flirt. Is this normal? Or is he too controlling? Back to Article

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Tyonnia Styles_2417899
Tyonnia Styles_2417899 wrote:
2013-04-06 15:50:16 -0700

I did not say ur controlling!
Frustrated
Lol....
I was just answer the crazy xoxo question!

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Andie_The_Great
Andie_The_Great wrote:
2013-04-06 15:49:05 -0700

Some guys are just to controlling grr it makes me mad to have a bf like that

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Jakey-boo
Jakey-boo wrote:
2013-04-06 15:47:45 -0700

Tyonnia I'm NOT controlling. im protective over u because I don't want too hurt u like I did before because I care about u!

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Tyonnia Styles_2417899
Tyonnia Styles_2417899 wrote:
2013-04-06 15:43:41 -0700

Yss there a article about BF cheating!!! GUess not!!!
smile b-u-m-m-e-r!!!!
Lmbo! well to answer the article Q i really dont knw!!! all that too welll i think so idk

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kkgirl0902
kkgirl0902 wrote:
2013-04-05 07:37:58 -0700

alot of boyfriends are way to controlling because their jealus ive been through it to

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kkgirl0902
kkgirl0902 wrote:
2013-04-05 07:37:26 -0700

alot of boyfriends are way to controlling because their jealusive been through it to

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Electronica
Electronica wrote:
2013-04-04 14:37:00 -0700

i read this book called The Year I Turned Sixteen, and in the 'Laurel' chapter, her new boyfriend, Jack, was way too clingy and almost never left her side. she eventually got annoyed and broke up with him. i think that you should talk with your bf and discuss the things that make you uncomfortable.

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country chick101
country chick101 wrote:
2013-03-28 19:46:57 -0700

if i were him trust me i would be at least a little mad you werent dancing with me just be more close to him and and not other boys

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lovebugsolver
lovebugsolver wrote:
2013-03-23 02:31:23 -0700

it sounds a bit like abuse. look at some videos of girls been abused in a relationship.

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SkinnyTee
SkinnyTee wrote:
2013-03-18 14:58:16 -0700

he is to controlled

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zackfan
zackfan wrote:
2013-03-18 14:51:52 -0700

cool

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seanfan97
seanfan97 wrote:
2013-03-18 14:39:53 -0700

i think him not wanting u to flirt with other guys is okay and not wanting u to dance with other guys is normal your with him and he just doesn't want u to fall for another guy

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kaboodleboo
kaboodleboo wrote:
2013-03-17 16:52:39 -0700

Eh yes! Grin

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Tyonnia Styles_2417899
Tyonnia Styles_2417899 wrote:
2013-03-16 15:15:42 -0700

HAhah he WASSSSSSSSS
Controling
no no he he wasnt i was kidding he was great!! most of the time!

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xXawesomeXx1000
xXawesomeXx1000 wrote:
2013-03-04 05:09:09 -0800

yes he is ch33ting on u so get a life. btw he iz cheetin on u wit me.

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Mamasboy16
Mamasboy16 wrote:
2013-03-02 13:07:28 -0800

No! I would never kill you. You're too nice and pretty to be killed.

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RMD118
RMD118 wrote:
2013-03-02 13:06:10 -0800

Mamasboy: -.- Kill me now why don't you?

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RMD118
RMD118 wrote:
2013-03-02 13:05:50 -0800

LOL

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Mamasboy16
Mamasboy16 wrote:
2013-03-02 13:05:49 -0800

Im the kinda boy who just likes to help people

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wreastlingfan619
wreastlingfan619 wrote:
2013-03-02 13:05:28 -0800

call the undertaker my bad

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...im not too sure what the brown stuff is,but since you said you have not done it,you should trust yourself.And talk about it to your mom!I'm sure she will give you the best of advices and stuff because she would have probably experienced it before.So,don't be afraid,and approach her when she's vacant!Good Luck!
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I'm not sure whether you have actual depression or not (Ask your doctor if you feel you do, they'll be able to help. ^^), but I'm really sorry you feel depressed. I've been there too, and it really does feel like no one cares.   I know you said it's awkward, but try talking to your dad about it. You said he's the only one who seems to listen, so I'm sure he will listen and try to understand. If you start feeling really depressed every day, try doing things to make you feel happier. I don't know what you like to do, but you should do things like relaxing, reading, talking to people and spending more time outside. Smiling more often can help relieve stress and make you happier as well. c: Try meeting new people too. It seems as though your current friends are bringing you down, so you can try to talk to them if you like or find more friends who'll listen and care about you (however, try to keep your old friends as well. They are your friends after all, and it's hard being lonely). You've got friends on here too. But please don't think about doing anything harmful to yourself. You might not be thinking like that now, but being depressed can lead people to this and it's really not the answer.  Good luck! ^u^  
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