Kw-logo-smaller

Dear Dish-it: Boyfriend vs Cuter Guy

Apr 06, 2013

Dear Dish-it,

A boy asked me out, but I'm already going out with someone else. The new boy is cuter than my boyfriend, but if I say yes to the cuter one, I'd be cheating. My current boyfriend has anger issues so I have no clue how to tell him that it's over. Please help me!  

Love Triangle

Dear Love Triangle,

Here's the thing. When you're in a happy relationship, it means you really like your boyfriend. You shouldn't be swayed by a cuter boy. Looks aren't everything. The most important things in a relationship are that you can respect and trust each other. Dumping your boyfriend just so you can go out with a cuter boy isn't very trustworthy.

However, if you aren't happy in your relationship with your current boyfriend, you should either try to work on your issues, or get out of the relationship, not because of the cuter boy, but because you respect your current boyfriend enough not to string him along. Breaking up with him may hurt him, but in the end, you're doing him a favor by allowing him to find someone else.

Have You Say

Do you have any advice for Love Triangle? Tell us in our comment section below!

 

157 Comments

latest videos

F1109701531750

Best Way to Break Up With Someone?

  • Tell them face to face.
  • Get a friend to do it for you.
  • Send them an email or text message them.
  • Just ignore them. They'll get the message.

related stories

Micro_justin and selena-micro
This year had no shortage of celebs with crushes and celebs that got crushed (romantically that i...
Micro_deardish-boyfriendreputation-micro
Hesitant asks: I recently started going out with a boy from another school. He’s really nice and ...
Secret Nickname asks: I have no idea how to break up with my bf without hurting him. Any help??
Here’s Dish-It's advice for all those out there wondering about breaking up – and how to do it.

Dear Dish-It in the forums

krxcore
krxcore posted in Family Issues:
Dad and an older brother. funfunfun!
reply 9 minutes
XxbriibriixX
My Dad and my older Brother
reply about 2 hours
blakbutterfly
"brunostar" wrote:That's immature xD Ehh yeah, probably but it works every time, and I usually don't repeat the same mistake. Plus, I'm way too attached to my mom to be able to stand an hour without her talking to me or see her sad. 
reply about 4 hours
brunostar
"blakbutterfly" wrote:This is a pretty old post...Anyway, my mom's method most of the time is give me the silent treatment or a lecture until I feel guilty enough to not repeat my mistake! That's immature xD
reply about 4 hours
blakbutterfly
This is a pretty old post... Anyway, my mom's method most of the time is give me the silent treatment or a lecture until I feel guilty enough to not repeat my mistake!
reply about 4 hours

play online games