Dear Dish-it: My Mom's New Baby Replaced Me

The Other Daughter asks: My mom just had a new baby, and now she won't pay any attention to me. I feel like I've been replaced. What can I do so that I'm not forgotten? Back to Article

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lizy555 wrote:
2013-10-30 16:44:31 -0700

I totally agree smile my mom I think she's pregnant and I am afraid she'll replace me and forget about me Sad that's the reason I've been getting advice. I've been having nightmares about my mom having a baby and she forgot all about me and I had to live in my laundry room. Sad Sad Sad. but your advice has relay helped me. maybe I will come back to your chat advice you relay helped me out smile smile smile.

ps:i am ten 10

summerqueenj wrote:
2013-10-26 17:55:39 -0700

I know that feeling tooFrown Well, i don;t know how old u are but sometimes, you can be all grown up, and your mom needs to take care of your sister or brother. Or maybe try to talk about it to your mom. Good luck!smile

imjustgoingmyownway wrote:
2013-10-23 17:48:36 -0700

well every family goes through this..i went through it myself....three times, so i know. it is normal for grown-ups to spend a lot of time with their new baby. it happens. when babies are left unattended, they might get hurt, and your mom wants to keep the baby in her sight 24/7 right? ok, thats very normal. but if u feel like she is ignoring you constantly, wait until she is not busy with something, and tell her you feel ignored. no mom should make their children feel ignored.just tell her. smile

hadlie1 wrote:
2013-10-12 08:26:06 -0700

write a letter about how you feel

_hello_kitty_lover_ wrote:
2013-10-10 21:48:07 -0700

i think u should just confess ur mind nd maybe all three (baby, you, and mom) can make your relationship as a family better smile

sierrakitty907 wrote:
2013-10-10 18:43:00 -0700

I feel that way to Frown

Jelly3 wrote:
2013-10-09 02:25:28 -0700

I think the best way to deal with this is to help your mom or tell her your feelings. smile I'm sure she'd understand. smile

musicismylife789 wrote:
2013-10-08 13:41:16 -0700

ya just tell her how u feel... Hippie

waffle098 wrote:
2013-10-07 16:53:34 -0700

look just tell her how you feel just make sure not to express your feelings in a form of rage

essencetocute wrote:
2013-09-30 15:15:41 -0700


animefreakXD wrote:
2013-09-30 13:47:12 -0700

Same here....

Jordan wrote:
2013-09-30 13:41:57 -0700

@Jojo_21 there is a date on the article. April 30th

Jojo_21 wrote:
2013-09-30 13:37:59 -0700

For how long has this post been on here?

jblover567 wrote:
2013-09-28 10:38:06 -0700

Just volunteer to help out with the baby and
you'll have a lot of attention.

Pinky Pie12
Pinky Pie12 wrote:
2013-09-28 07:46:27 -0700

good advice! Big Grin

Pinky Pie12
Pinky Pie12 wrote:
2013-09-28 07:45:58 -0700

nice pro pic

Pinky Pie12
Pinky Pie12 wrote:
2013-09-28 07:44:34 -0700


Pinky Pie12
Pinky Pie12 wrote:
2013-09-28 07:43:55 -0700


Pinky Pie12
Pinky Pie12 wrote:
2013-09-28 07:43:13 -0700

Thats your opinon if you have younger siblings im sure you know deep down thats how you felt when they were born if not that you dont
younger siblings this is something that may not be as relateble.

Pinky Pie12
Pinky Pie12 wrote:
2013-09-28 07:37:35 -0700


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