Kw-logo-smaller

Comments

Dear Dish-It, Should I Dump My Guy?

I don't know what to do about my boyfriend. He acts like my father. He tells me what kind of music to listen to and he never lets me do what I want. Should I dump him? Back to Article

Please login or register to add comments

Keekeow
Keekeow wrote:
2013-12-01 09:59:20 -0800

Dump him DUDE. NUH UH BRO. NUH UH.

report
brendaluvroc
brendaluvroc wrote:
2013-12-01 09:55:33 -0800

yes

report
JennyD
JennyD wrote:
2013-09-20 16:03:34 -0700

dump him no one wants two fathers lolz

report
kenzeebee
kenzeebee wrote:
2013-09-19 16:47:59 -0700

I would never let my guy do that. If he ever does bye bye.

report
sugarpetals
sugarpetals wrote:
2013-09-19 16:34:26 -0700

he sounds like some idiot mabye u should jus follow ur heart

report
lilbabychantel
lilbabychantel wrote:
2013-06-10 13:11:27 -0700

i agree with ayyee yoo cece pretty

report
star81
star81 wrote:
2013-06-10 11:30:43 -0700

just follow your heart, and if you think it's time to let him fly away then, let him go, but follow your heart

report
ayyee yoo cece pretty
ayyee yoo cece pretty wrote:
2013-06-10 10:34:02 -0700

heckz nawl dnt let him
chnge u. i would let him go n a second heckz nawl

report
ayyee yoo cece pretty
ayyee yoo cece pretty wrote:
2013-06-10 10:33:36 -0700

heckz nawl dnt let chnge u. i would let him go n a second heckz nawl

report
lilsweet21
lilsweet21 wrote:
2013-06-10 10:28:28 -0700

dump him why did u got him in the first place

report
100starchick
100starchick wrote:
2013-06-10 09:50:27 -0700

Dump him I'm never let a boy change me and my ways of how I do things smile

report
Emo_Dinosaur
Emo_Dinosaur wrote:
2013-06-10 09:39:43 -0700

Get rid of that guy. He is not worth it. KICK HIM TO THE KIRB!!!

report
lilmiss kayla 101
lilmiss kayla 101 wrote:
2013-06-10 09:37:40 -0700

So true

report
LadiiYellow
LadiiYellow wrote:
2013-06-10 09:35:58 -0700

dump him. dnt never let a guy thimk thets hes in controll when he says to do something you should do the next...........you need to be the one to govern him

report
Zombi3zOMG
Zombi3zOMG wrote:
2013-05-12 08:27:32 -0700

Obviously, he's not worth your time. Us guys can be unpredictable sometimes.. Let him know how you feel and then if it takes a turn for the worst you know it wasn't meant to be. To be in a relationship it means to be equal with one another, some guys just don't understand this because their 'ego' is blocking that. Also their head is probably in their #&%. Don't spend so much time obsessing over this.

report
Zombi3zOMG
Zombi3zOMG wrote:
2013-05-12 08:27:32 -0700

Obviously, he's not worth your time. Us guys can be unpredictable sometimes.. Let him know how you feel and then if it takes a turn for the worst you know it wasn't meant to be. To be in a relationship it means to be equal with one another, some guys just don't understand this because their 'ego' is blocking that. Also their head is probably in their #&%. Don't spend so much time obsessing over this.

report
kalvin
kalvin wrote:
2013-04-24 13:00:22 -0700

same i miss mine so much

report
mb lov
mb lov wrote:
2013-04-13 11:10:39 -0700

i go with wat LaurenM10 is saying

report
KittyBoop
KittyBoop wrote:
2013-04-08 13:36:55 -0700

yeah, I agree. do what you think is right for both of you.

report
xoxomygirlcute
xoxomygirlcute wrote:
2013-04-08 13:12:44 -0700

no its not our daddy make sure we are okay that's why i wish i have my daddy but he not hear right now

report
back to story
F1122316517328

Have You Ever Been Dumped?

  • Yes - it sucks.
  • No - I'm always the one doing the dumping.

related stories

I am a 14 year-old guy and I feel I can make my own decisions. I have had long hair ever since 7t...

Dear Dish-It in the forums

kaykay2002
kaykay2002 posted in Friends:
"Wooper1255" wrote:No. Just no. Mr. Face does not approve this. ._.Okay, okay, let's get serious.Your best friend BULLYING you? And loves it when you get mad? What the heck? SHE'S NOT EVEN YOUR FRIEND!You should have a talk with your best friend. No seriously, she doesn't have any friends cause she's a bully and no one likes to be friends with a bully...You should tell your best friend that she NEEDS to change her attitude! She needs to be more nicer to others also.Also, a best friend is: Caring, Kind, Loyal, Nice, Thoughtful, and will stand up for you against bullies, will be there if you're upset, maybe they'll even CRY with you!A best friend is totally NOT: Someone who bullies you, Someone who likes it when your madYou should ask her any of the following questions:Are you Okay?Why are you bullying me? You're my friend.Is something wrong like family issues?Questions like that are good because there may be a reason for bullying. She could be suffering from depression, or is confused or lonely. Just talk to her. Have a discussion with her. Also, you should talk to other people. Ask them why they aren't friends with your best friend. Then maybe, after they tell you what they don't like about her, you can go back to your best friend and tell her the things she needs to improve on. Also, if necessary, tell an adult like your mom, a teacher, consular, or her mom.Whatever you think will solve this conflict between you and your best friend well... just go for it. But think about the outcome too.Hope I helped, I might add some tips and suggestions to you. :3  your right and the only reason I have put up with her this long is because her dad died but I cant stand her anymore so but seriously I feel like there is another reason bcuz she has had people confront her saying "u know what I have put up wit this for a while and I have told u to stop and u don't listen and I know your dad died but that doesn't mean u can treat people like that "  but she still does it and for the past 3 yrs. I have put up with it but not anymore I will talk to her about it. Thanks.
reply about 3 hours
Wooper1255
Wooper1255 posted in Friends:
You NEED to tell your parents or HER parents about her attitude, this is abuse from your OWN best friend! Tell an adult, don't be afraid, it's not even SILLY to tell an adult, this is serious, she is HURTING you! Tell someone before things get out of hand and she REALLY hurts you! D=
reply about 4 hours
Wooper1255
Wooper1255 posted in Friends:
No. Just no. Mr. Face does not approve this. ._. Okay, okay, let's get serious. Your best friend BULLYING you? And loves it when you get mad? What the heck? SHE'S NOT EVEN YOUR FRIEND! You should have a talk with your best friend. No seriously, she doesn't have any friends cause she's a bully and no one likes to be friends with a bully... You should tell your best friend that she NEEDS to change her attitude! She needs to be more nicer to others also. Also, a best friend is: Caring, Kind, Loyal, Nice, Thoughtful, and will stand up for you against bullies, will be there if you're upset, maybe they'll even CRY with you! A best friend is totally NOT: Someone who bullies you, Someone who likes it when your mad You should ask her any of the following questions: Are you Okay? Why are you bullying me? You're my friend. Is something wrong like family issues? Questions like that are good because there may be a reason for bullying. She could be suffering from depression, or is confused or lonely. Just talk to her. Have a discussion with her. Also, you should talk to other people. Ask them why they aren't friends with your best friend. Then maybe, after they tell you what they don't like about her, you can go back to your best friend and tell her the things she needs to improve on. Also, if necessary, tell an adult like your mom, a teacher, consular, or her mom. Whatever you think will solve this conflict between you and your best friend well... just go for it. But think about the outcome too. Hope I helped, I might add some tips and suggestions to you. :3
reply about 4 hours
Boysrock50
Boysrock50 posted in Friends:
Yeah I had a friend in the same situation as you, he was too scared to say anything so we spoke for him. Now the 'friend' has changed and hes our mate. Just tell her straight and firmly, its the only way
reply about 4 hours
kaykay2002
kaykay2002 posted in Friends:
"Boysrock50" wrote:She is obviously NOT your best friend.I wouldn't even call her a friendShe is a bully who thinks she can have her own wayShe thinks she can control you like you're her follower because she the truth is she needs youBe smart and leave her because she's only going to keep you down and then one day she will find  friends just like her and she will just ignore you forever, thinking shes too cool for you.I would either:Tell her straight that she needs to make her own friends because you don't want to be friends anymoreor:Tell her that you don't like what she does and either she changes her ways and acts more like a friend, or you cant be friends anymore.I'm not trying to be harsh, I'm being wise and you should be wise too. Thanks I actually might try that but she is really stubborn and will not take no for an answer I have tried just ignoring her but he will kick, hit, or punch me to get attention. my parents also don't like her bcuz she is bossy. I also have to go to summer camp with her for the next 2 weeks and w have to be buddies for it so i think i might die
reply about 4 hours