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Sindy's Blog - May 29, 2003

May 29, 2003

Yeah, so I don't even know what to say about my "date" with Dylan. Was it a date-thing? Did I totally read into something that wasn't there? I thought the crushing was a two way street, but now I'm not so sure. I mean, it's not like the night sucked or anything, but it definitely wasn't what I thought it was going to be. I know we were with lots of people and all that but you think he would've shown some interest.

I'm telling you it was so strange! One minute we're chattin', the next minute he's staring off into space, not saying a word. Dude! Oh and he didn't make one mention of the dance. Not even a casual, "Hey, you goin' to the dance?" Grrr! What's his deal? I have no idea what's going on. Maybe I'll be going solo to the dance...

The 'rents seem to have made some sort of truce these past few days. They're even talkin' family vacation. Ooooh... maybe I'll meet someone cute and foreign who will totally take my mind off Dylan and his mixed messages.

Wish Simon was here. Could really use a guy's opinion on this mess. I mean, maybe they have different ideas on what makes up a cool night out together and I am totally over-reacting or something. I'll have to email Simon.

Sindy

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    "classicalmusicisepic" wrote:my friends offline are having some relationship problems atm and there are just some things i want to mention on here, because i think they're relevant; some warning signs, etc and how to approach them.these not only apply to romantic relationships, but also friendships etc.physical harm - this might be an obvious one. but i just want to share some ways to approach the situation. this includes unwanted touching, hitting, kicking, etc. if your partner is doing this to you, you must report it to a trusted adult, teacher, counselor, close friend, or family member. this is one of the most serious abusive relationships- there are many resources online such as childline, etc, and hotlines you can call if you need to speak to someone about it. they may be able to help you get out of the relationship, and give you a shoulder to cry on.pressure into unwanted intimacy - this is also one of the big ones- your partner should never make you feel uncomfortable or otherwise. if they wish to stay with you, they will wait until you're ready to move onto that stage; if you even ever will be. if you feel pressured, or pushed into doing something you feel you'll regret, sit down and talk about it with your partner. you have a say in your relationship, too.control over your friends - if you feel like your partner has control over your friends- something is wrong. if they want you to dedicate every second of your life to them, with no other people, it's not right. your relationship not only affects the two people in it, (or more if it's polyamourous), but everyone around is affected by your relationship, too. again- you have a say in how your relationship is going, too!  criticizing you and your choices - relationships are about liking each other- if your partner is putting you down or demeaning you, it's a warning sign to get out of it. are they mocking you? or putting down your appearance, clothes, etc? Definite red flag; talk about it with him/her/them. other signs, include:-being doted and adored one day, and the next being pushed away and ignored,-you're afraid of your partner-they obsess over and call/text you constantly-you may find you've lost your confidence-many ups and downs in the relationship, constant roller coaster-you aren't yourself. you change and adapt for them, drop hobbies if they're not into them, etc.-something tells you you cant trust themagain, there are many resources out there if you need to talk. never be afraid to speak about it to someone- a family member, a teacher, a close friend, the police, a guidance counselor, etc.  I bolded that one part. The whole thread is great. And that one is a sign. But remember people with mental illness may also show signs like this to. If they have a good they they may spoil you and love you, and then the next day they're having a bad one. So they might push you away. They also may suddenly dote on you one day also to make up for a bad day. I'm not making an excuse, it's still a ver bad thing to do. I'm just putting it out there.
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