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Dear Dish-It, The Boys That Ask Me Out Are Ugly

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        Teen Advice On Dating

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Dear Dish-It,

I've never had a boyfriend before. Three guys have asked me out before but they were all U-G-L-Y. What should I do? I'm too scared to ask someone out myself.
confused


Dear confused,

Slow down girl! You're still young - way too young to be stressin' about snaggin' a guy. If no one who's asked you out so far interests you, wait until you meet someone who does. I know that it can be weird when everyone but you seems to be hooking up with someone but believe me, it's not as horrible as it seems. The last thing you want to do is to go out with some doofus you really hate, just so you can say you've got a BF. What's wrong with chillin' with your friends, getting involved with extra-curricular activities or volunteering someplace like your local food bank? All of these activities will be far more rewarding and before you know it, you'll have met a super-cool dude who you have a ton of things in common with. Hang in there!


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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Dear Dish-It in the forums

Its_skylar1
Hey love , I do the exact same thing as you , you aren't alone... if you ever need anyone , I am here , okay? 
reply about 2 hours
jordand08
Talk to someone, anyone you trust.
reply about 3 hours
jordand08
I don't see that being an "issue" also, you can't always get what you want. AND, it's VERY close to Christmas.
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Brianna09
I get told NO all the time by my mom.
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kitcat165
kitcat165 posted in Friends:
well this is kind of a long story but ill try to make it as short as possible. so it all started about 4 years ago. this new boy came to my school. he was super cute and all the girls had a crush on him. at first i did not like him in a crush way but after a while feelings started growing. we started talking and he seemed to like me to. after elementary was done we ended up going to the same middle school.fast forward to this year me and him are in the same class. while i was in 6th grade i found my best friend me and her been bffs since then. she is also in the same class. ever since the begging of this year they grew really close. they are always talking and it seems like she like him and vice versa. every time they are together i feel this overwhelming since of jealousy and anger. like is she better than me or??? the thing that really gets to me is that she knew i liked him. omg i need advice like what should i do :mad
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