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Dear Dish-It, The Boys That Ask Me Out Are Ugly


Dear Dish-It, is here to whisper "ttyl after I've thought about this some more".


Dear Dish-It,

I've never had a boyfriend before. Three guys have asked me out before but they were all U-G-L-Y. What should I do? I'm too scared to ask someone out myself.
confused


Dear confused,

Slow down girl! You're still young - way too young to be stressin' about snaggin' a guy. If no one who's asked you out so far interests you, wait until you meet someone who does. I know that it can be weird when everyone but you seems to be hooking up with someone but believe me, it's not as horrible as it seems. The last thing you want to do is to go out with some doofus you really hate, just so you can say you've got a BF. What's wrong with chillin' with your friends, getting involved with extra-curricular activities or volunteering someplace like your local food bank? All of these activities will be far more rewarding and before you know it, you'll have met a super-cool dude who you have a ton of things in common with. Hang in there!


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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