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Dear Dish-It, The Boys That Ask Me Out Are Ugly


Dear Dish-It, is here to whisper "ttyl after I've thought about this some more".


Dear Dish-It,

I've never had a boyfriend before. Three guys have asked me out before but they were all U-G-L-Y. What should I do? I'm too scared to ask someone out myself.
confused


Dear confused,

Slow down girl! You're still young - way too young to be stressin' about snaggin' a guy. If no one who's asked you out so far interests you, wait until you meet someone who does. I know that it can be weird when everyone but you seems to be hooking up with someone but believe me, it's not as horrible as it seems. The last thing you want to do is to go out with some doofus you really hate, just so you can say you've got a BF. What's wrong with chillin' with your friends, getting involved with extra-curricular activities or volunteering someplace like your local food bank? All of these activities will be far more rewarding and before you know it, you'll have met a super-cool dude who you have a ton of things in common with. Hang in there!


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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Talk to your parents about it. Tell them you didn't like your Christmas gift, and don't let your brother boss you around. Your parents can, your brother can't. Your parents gave you life, sorry to tell you but they can do anything they want if it's legal. But your brother can't. Let your parents know that you shouldn't have gotten in trouble for the stuff he doesn't. Tell them he makes you feel really awful and you don't like it. If they're good people they'll understand.
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HannahG posted in Friends:
I would stop being friends with her. I mean she should understand that it'd be mean to do that. It's hard to help your friend get through a breakup when you're dating the same person. Plus you don't even know if she was trying to break you guys up so she could be with him.
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HannahG
HannahG posted in Friends:
You want to know if he likes you or not? Just ask him. It's not as bad as people say-I mean, it's a question. It looks like he does, so he probably does. It's not that big of a deal.
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HannahG
HannahG posted in Friends:
Talk to your friend. Tell her that this is the first guy that's ever liked you but you don't want her to get mad at you for stealing him from her. But understand she likes him too so don't get mad if she doesn't want you dating him. Nicely decide which of you should get him instead of the other. Chances are she might be thinking the same thing.
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Nisya- posted in Style:
messy bun. :3
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