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Sindy's Blog - November 13, 2003

November 13, 2003

It's so strange how fast things in your life can change. Just a couple months ago I was hanging out with a completely different crowd, my parents were still trying to work things out, and I actually thought Avril had some redeeming qualities. I'm so glad I've been making more friends through the play. These are definitely my people!

I'm headed to the mall with A.J. tomorrow. She's playing Juliet's nurse in the play, which isn't a crazy-huge part so when she's not on stage, she's helping out with costumes. She's also a huge supporter of my Kaelin crush and has been harassing me to make a move. I don't think it's a good idea for me to make the first move, though. I'd rather not have the chance to get together with him than risk having him laugh in my face.

Maybe that's not the bravest way to deal with my crush but I just can't take having my heart broken twice in such a short time. I still see Dylan roaming the halls. And sometimes I bump into Sara, and she tries to make small talk, but I don't have any time for her. They didn't even end up staying together, you know? Dylan and Sara broke up like a week after the big incident. So what was the point? I still don't get it.

I don't know... should I make a move on Kaelin? I'll have to weigh my pros and cons with A.J. and see what she thinks. I know she wants me to just get in there already, but I'm going to need some suggestions on how to do that. Any of you out there have any tips? I'm all ears! Oh... I guess I better get started on that English assignment I have to hand in tomorrow.

Peace Out,

Sindy

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    shae508 posted in Friends:
    "classicalmusicisepic" wrote:my friends offline are having some relationship problems atm and there are just some things i want to mention on here, because i think they're relevant; some warning signs, etc and how to approach them.these not only apply to romantic relationships, but also friendships etc.physical harm - this might be an obvious one. but i just want to share some ways to approach the situation. this includes unwanted touching, hitting, kicking, etc. if your partner is doing this to you, you must report it to a trusted adult, teacher, counselor, close friend, or family member. this is one of the most serious abusive relationships- there are many resources online such as childline, etc, and hotlines you can call if you need to speak to someone about it. they may be able to help you get out of the relationship, and give you a shoulder to cry on.pressure into unwanted intimacy - this is also one of the big ones- your partner should never make you feel uncomfortable or otherwise. if they wish to stay with you, they will wait until you're ready to move onto that stage; if you even ever will be. if you feel pressured, or pushed into doing something you feel you'll regret, sit down and talk about it with your partner. you have a say in your relationship, too.control over your friends - if you feel like your partner has control over your friends- something is wrong. if they want you to dedicate every second of your life to them, with no other people, it's not right. your relationship not only affects the two people in it, (or more if it's polyamourous), but everyone around is affected by your relationship, too. again- you have a say in how your relationship is going, too!  criticizing you and your choices - relationships are about liking each other- if your partner is putting you down or demeaning you, it's a warning sign to get out of it. are they mocking you? or putting down your appearance, clothes, etc? Definite red flag; talk about it with him/her/them. other signs, include:-being doted and adored one day, and the next being pushed away and ignored,-you're afraid of your partner-they obsess over and call/text you constantly-you may find you've lost your confidence-many ups and downs in the relationship, constant roller coaster-you aren't yourself. you change and adapt for them, drop hobbies if they're not into them, etc.-something tells you you cant trust themagain, there are many resources out there if you need to talk. never be afraid to speak about it to someone- a family member, a teacher, a close friend, the police, a guidance counselor, etc.  I bolded that one part. The whole thread is great. And that one is a sign. But remember people with mental illness may also show signs like this to. If they have a good they they may spoil you and love you, and then the next day they're having a bad one. So they might push you away. They also may suddenly dote on you one day also to make up for a bad day. I'm not making an excuse, it's still a ver bad thing to do. I'm just putting it out there.
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