-
x

Meet New Friends!

Recommended friends are based on your interests. Make sure they are up to date.

Friends
Kidzworld Logo

Dear Dish-It, Should I Beat Him Up?


Dear Dish-It, is here to whisper "ttyl after I've thought about this some more".


Dear Dish-It,

I have a friend who's a girl. I'm a guy. We've been friends for a year and a half now. We've hugged once. Anyway, she's goin' out with someone. I like her. I've seen them hug and kiss in front of me. They do that all the time in front of me! When I see it, I get REALLY mad. I wanna beat him up. Should I?
ps2fan


Dear ps2fan,

If you would like to continue your friendship with this girl, I suggest you avoid beating up her boyfriend. Girls can be weird about stuff like that and will often take offense to their over-protective, jealous friends beating up their boyfriends. Beating up the guy who she's seeing will only make her closer to him and more distant from you. If you truly care about her, you'll stick it out as her friend, be there when she needs you and maybe, just maybe, you'll have a shot with her in the future. But for the time being, you're just going to have to chill. I know it sucks to have to witness the girl of your dreams in someone else's arms, but that's just part of life, you know? If you don't think you can stand by without causing some sort of bodily harm to your friend's BF, then you should probably take a breather from hanging out with the two of them. Good Luck!


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


Related Stories:

  • Dear Dish-It, Do You Think She Likes Me?
  • Dear Dish-It, Does She Think I'm An Outcast?
  • Dear Dish-It, How Long Will We Just Be Friends?
  • More Great Dating and Relationship Advice From Dish-It!
  • 29 Comments

    Related Stories

    I like this girl at school, but another guy likes her too. I feel like beating him up read more >
    F1069093703609

    How Do You Deal With Your Probs?

    • With violence.
    • I talk them through with someone.
    • I just bottle it all up inside.
    • It depends on the situation.

    Dear Dish-It In The Forums

    YamiVelvetSkittles
    Same here
    reply about 3 hours
    dicee
    dicee posted in Family Issues:
    I'm not afraid of them. I'm just afraid when they'll start thinking I'm worthless. But if I had to choose, I guess my mom since I live most of my life with her.
    reply about 4 hours
    raindelaney
    raindelaney posted in Friends:
    hey,  don't feel any pressure to come out because ultimately it is your choice. Come out only if you're ready to and feel as if your parents are ready as well. 
    reply 1 day
    zoomzoomkitty
     [s:sm3/1jvy] [s:sm3/1jw1] This post contains love-related talk. Reader discretion is advised.  [s:sm3/1jw1] [s:sm3/1jvy] If you want to talk about love-related subjects like puberty, kissing, tampons/pads, etc... in the right place. Those things should go in the girls-only/boys-only forum or Dear Dish-it. Note for prepubescent users: Kidzworld allows teenagers and pubescent people, too, so don't be surprised to see posts about things like puberty, kissing, tampons/pads, etc. Note that you are allowed to talk about crushes anywhere on the site, there's no exception, feel free to talk about any fictional, imaginary, or real crush anywhere you please, as long as it's in the right forum (e.g. game crushes in the game forum)!
    reply 2 days
    BelarusRussia4ever
    thanks thats good advice 
    reply 2 days