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Sindy's Blog - January 2, 2004

January 2, 2004

I can't believe it's already 2004! This past year has really flown by. It sure was filled with some crazy drama, but hopefully this year will be a little more chill. If New Year's Eve is any indication of how the rest of the year is going to go, I think I'm in for a super-fun time!

I wasn't sure how things would go at the party that Kaelin was taking me to. I didn't know anyone and I've only been seeing Kaelin for a little while, so anything could have happened - but man, I could not have prepared myself for what went down. It really was the most amazing night of my life. It went so well that midnight just totally crept up on us - before I knew it, everyone was counting down to 12am!

And that kiss... what an unbelievably amazing kiss! I am crazy about this boy. He is funny and smart and soooo cute! How did I manage to score a chance to be with someone so terrific? Throughout the night Kaelin kept telling me how great I was and how glad he is that we met. I swear, my New Year's Eve could not have been more perfect!

Now I have to muster up the energy to drag myself back to school on Monday. It'll be cool to see everyone and swap winter break stories, but I'd really rather just have some more time off to hang with Kaelin. Not that we won't see enough of each other - there's another play that's starting in a couple weeks that we're both planning on working on. It's all good.

Sindy

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